Hang With Friends

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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 1 hour ago. 3 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

The End of the World ... Again?!?

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 1 hour ago. 12 Replies

Uh, guys and gals?  Hate to tell you, but the world ended the other day.  And the hell of it is, I MISSED IT!  Yeah, too busy with other stuff, mowing the lawn, enjoying the company of my wife, and taking care of puddy-cats, and I just MISSED it!One…Continue

Tags: AronRa, prophecy, end of the world

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity

Started by dudaboli yev. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 30. 1 Reply

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity Sam Harris offers his case against the Christian god conceptSamuel Benjamin "Sam" Harris is an American author, neuroscientist, philosopher, the co-founder and chief executive of Project Reason, a non-profit…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by amer chohan Sep 2. 13 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 12:40pm

No apologies necessary, Ruth. I'm a "night person," myself, and I understand how addictive it can be sometimes.  I am also not fond of summer, it's either too hot and dry, or overcast and humid, and I've been having problems with hypoglycemia.  I HATE feeling sweaty (who doesn't?) 

I have a freezer full of good food, and I just haven't felt much like cooking...or eating... the last couple of weeks.

I did treat myself to a decent haircut (and many hugs and air-kisses) Thursday.  I love having Francisco fuss over me for a little while, and he gives a wonderful cool-water scalp massage that relaxes me completely, and relieves my almost constant headache for the rest of the day. 

The only problem I have with his salon is that most of the really good gossip is in Spanish, and I never managed to learn much even though I spent several months in Mexico City...50 years ago!

Anyroad, after I was feeling more like a human instead of a shaggy dog, I bought a 6-pack of A&W Rooty Beer and some vanilla ice cream, and as soon as I got home I built a giant root beer float (my fave!). HEAVEN!  I didn't even bother to buy sugar-free ingredients, or check my blood sugar after I drank the thing. 

Sometimes I just have to be "bad," and I feel so much better for it than I have in weeks.  In fact, I may run out to the pool, get naked, yell, "TITS TO THE WIND!"  And jump in.  If I do, you-all will hear about it.


Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 25, 2013 at 9:34am

Sorry to hear about your PC, Ian. It's so frustrating to lose everything.

I've been an irregular member lately because I've been dealing with seasonal affective disorder. Yes, in the middle of Summer. For a month I'd been sleeping 11 hours, sometimes longer. It finally dawned on me that I'm not getting enough sunlight because I was going to bed at 2 or 3 AM. It's so easy to watch TV till midnight and then fall into the computer. Sleeping through most of the daylight turned into a viscous cycle.

In an effort to wrench my sleep cycle back to normal, some days I don't even get the computer turned on. I'm sitting in my sunroom now, as soon as I wake up, instead of heading for the computer as I used to do. It's beginning to work. Yesterday I did the gym routine I used to do ever so long ago, instead of the shortened version. Last night I only slept 9 hours 40 minutes. I have a way to go till my new day/night schedule is settled. I apologize for neglecting you so much.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 24, 2013 at 12:07pm

Comment by Ian Mason on August 24, 2013 at 10:54am

If it's not one thing then it's another. Just got my PC back from the menders. There was a problem with it turning itself off when I watched TV or videos and the last time it happened it went back to near-factory settings so I've lost all photos, music, downloads docs etc. The shop said it needed a good cleaning inside to stop it overheating. That has been done but there are still problems so I may "disappear" again without notice. It may well be time to buy a new PC. My daughter tells me that 6 years old is ancient for a lap-top.

A good weekend to you all.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 24, 2013 at 8:28am

Thanks Joan.  Another interesting bit from Tyson.  

Yesterday, I think I spotted him playing a character on the TV sitcom "Sanford and Son".  It looked like a young Tyson, and I think it sounded like him.  I only caught a few seconds of that character, so I'm not sure.  Does anyone know if it was he?

I do know he was on an episode of "The Big Bang Theory".  There he was playing .... Playing?  No, I don't think he was playing himself.  He was just himself, not playing a character.  Anyway, it was amusing because Sheldon was upset with him for degrading Pluto.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 24, 2013 at 12:23am

Just for the fun of it, here is a Neil deGrasse Tyson clip:

Neil deGrasse Tyson: Earliest Evidence of Life on Earth

There is no such thing as a stable Earth. Oh joy! The only constant is change. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 23, 2013 at 8:30pm

Thanks, Patricia, for the book reference. Good point aobut not being responsible to phantasms. Your bread looks tasty. :)

Wow, booklover. You are far more involved with family than I ever was. I hope your daughter thrives in her new job. Exactly what is a puppy-niece?

Richard C Brown, thanks for announcing your interest. That’s a friendly way to join our group.

Napoleon, thanks for you sex education contribution. I’ve read about female genital mutilation for years but never saw it. That’s gruesome.

Sk8eycat, I’m glad to hear that Pumpkin is blossoming as an only cat. Watching hummingbirds is always so much fun. I had no idea they were so territorial. Perhaps that instinct is because real flowers have limited nectar, compared to feeders. Can she watch the nest from her den window, and see the baby?

Comment by Steph S. on August 23, 2013 at 7:01pm

Melinda congrats on your daughters job. Way to go.

Your Pumpkin is a beautiful cat sk8eycat.

So glad to be back here.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 23, 2013 at 6:54pm

StEph!  Sorry about the typo.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 23, 2013 at 6:53pm

Stph, that little ORNJ kitty looks very much like my Pumpkin.  And he has come out of his shell a great deal now that Jerry has "left the building."  He has never been an Only Cat in all of his 14 years; I think he's enjoying it.


Ruth, yes, I always see hummingbirds at the feeders when I stay at Sue's house. sometimes 2 or 3 will come from different directions, and then "scold" each other about who was first...even though the feeders each have 3 openings for group meals.

One pair comes back every spring to build (or refurbish) their nest in a camellia bush right outside her den window.  I have photos....

Those little birds know a good thing when they find it.


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