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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller 2 hours ago. 0 Replies

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by sk8eycat on September 22, 2013 at 8:26pm

Melinda, yes, I remember when they sent the Voyagers out, and Carl sagan was on some TV show explaining what the diagrams meant.  The lines in binary explain where we are in relation to some prominent pulsars.  (I think it's pulsars...)

In the meantime, I'm still playing around in Jeffs Cats Book club, on the Cheezburger site.  My latest "creation" is a joke:


Comment by sk8eycat on September 22, 2013 at 4:33pm

Something to think about:

Little green Beliebers ? Now THAT's a scary thought !

Comment by sk8eycat on September 22, 2013 at 4:04pm


It reminds me of "Please don't pray in our schools, and we won't think in your church."

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 22, 2013 at 2:43pm

That's fantastic, Patiricia!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 21, 2013 at 10:34pm

Napoleon Bonaparte, your mushroom cloud hits close to home. I assume you read the news that a nuke almost detonated in North Carolina in 1961 as a result of a bomber crash. That's not the last image I want to see before going to bed, which I'm about to do.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 21, 2013 at 9:37pm

Your son sounds very mature, Mindy. A result of good parenting.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 21, 2013 at 3:30pm

Mindy, I've just remembered that when I lived with a woman who had teenage daughters it was me who bought the elder her first condoms. Sometimes you have to do what you have to do. Perhaps there's less fuss about these things in Denmark as it was accepted as reasonable and sensible.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 21, 2013 at 12:34pm

Ruth, I posted this in the SF/Fantasy  Group, too...

Ruth, here's a link to JeffCatsBookClub...hidden in teh lie-berry at Cheez-town:

You kind of have to explore the different departments under FAVORITES.  I still haven't figured out WTF Ben Huh is doing with the entire site.  It's too effing complicated for me these days

Comment by Lillie on September 21, 2013 at 8:25am

Good for you Mindy, a modern mother unafraid and accepting of reality.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 20, 2013 at 11:30pm

Mindy, it sounds as if you've got the balance between caring and letting go right. That's hard to do, so well done.

My daughter has told me that she and her boyfriend are now looking for a flat to move into together. I will have to practice the words "son-in-law" now.

Have a great Saturday all you lovely people.


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