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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 15, 2014 at 9:52pm

Patricia, I realize you know where I live, and others in the string may not. It will be interesting to learn if others in the US can get the site. Thanks for the opportunity to try your link. 

One other thought about worship, I realize that worship means putting one's hands together, bowing one's head, and letting-go-letting-god. These all exist as devices to stop thinking, taking action, and making a difference. 

I once belonged to Fourth Presbyterian Church in Bethesda, MD. with Richard CHalverson, senior pastor, the chaplain of the United States Senate and leader in the International Prayer Breakfast Movement. A fellow member spent the two years I was there hearing her pray that her husband would find the lord's plan for his life and would bring a job for her out-of-work husband. She took great care in fulfilling her evangelical calling to bring sheep to the shepherd.  

That was one the situations that added to my doubts about god and religion having any answers at all in matters of problems and conflicts. I realize that religion and god exist as a delusion that stops thinking and acting. 

The great thing about atheism is I see no evidence that god intervenes in lives confronted with serious problems and conflicts. Just look at the many problems going on around the world that involve arguments of over whose god is the real, true god, how one is to act in order to meet moral codes set by dogma, and how religion is used to make claims that have no relevance to today's world, i.e. Israel and Palestine. One had better start thinking, exploring, experimenting, doubting and questioning if he or she does not want to be and remain a victim.

Think > Identify a preferred goal > Explore options > Take action > Evaluate outcomes > Repeat until the goal is reached or changed.

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 15, 2014 at 9:49pm

Hello, friends.  There's been so much great content posted here.  I've been busy traveling, so I've had limited time to reply.  Plus it's very awkward and time consuming to reply "texting-style" from a small smart-phone.  My typing skills are better utilized at a full keyboard.  I've always said that the most valuable and useful class I took in high school was my typing class.  Who would have thought that decades later we'd all be sitting in front of a keyboard and corresponding via the internet. 

Mindy, I love the "My right to believe as I see fit" poster.  That's a keeper!

Loren, Spooky is priceless!  I love the photos. 

Chris, Poeka was beautiful.  A very pretty color.  Everyone's cat photos always make me smile. 

Here's a fun video about two women and the first time they flew in an airplane.  These two are ladies are absolutely charming and priceless.  I think this will put a smile on your faces. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 15, 2014 at 8:34pm

Felain, just as everyone has a right to his/her opinion; not all opinions are equal. 

Comment by sk8eycat on April 15, 2014 at 8:27pm

One of my high school English teachers loved Don Marquis as much as she loved Shakespeare and "Bobby" Burns. (She spoke of Burns as though she'd known him personally.)

Miss Esther Weinstock was a treasure.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 15, 2014 at 8:15pm

Patricia, I Googled globaltv.ca and received a "We're sorry, this content is not available from your location."

I'm in Spokane, WA state. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 15, 2014 at 8:06pm

Felaine, love the Egyptian cat! Kind of like mehitabel in 

mehitabel was once cleopatra 

by Don Marquis, in “archy and mehitabel,” 1927

".... she and
i have been talking it over in a
friendly way who were you
mehitabel i asked her i was
cleopatra once she said well i said i
suppose you lived in a palace you bet
she said and what lovely fish dinners
we used to have and licked her chops"

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 15, 2014 at 7:13pm

Felaine, I don't understand "worship" either. I do have a sense of wonder, of gratitude for being alive with all my sense, and strong feelings of care, compassion, and empathy toward others, as well as I have a powerful sense of well being when those attributes come to me from others. I especially feel a sense of awe when I realize I am not a victim, or helpless, or hopeless. I have all that I need to face any challenge, even when I fail to accomplish a goal. When that sense of being resilient occurs and when I understand that what is, is (Thanks Daniel, for that bit of  wisdom). 

Comment by Loren Miller on April 15, 2014 at 6:12pm

I don't worship a damned thing ... but I appreciate my wife, my friends and my cats ... a LOT.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 15, 2014 at 6:10pm

If I were to ever worship anything, It would be cats...and/or the ocean.

I just don't understand "worship" at all.

Comment by Loren Miller on April 15, 2014 at 3:00pm

No worries, sk8ey ... Spooky will get the best of care ... and I'm tellin' the other puddy-cats to BE NICE!

 

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