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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for women, native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?

Started by Joan Denoo 2 hours ago. 0 Replies

Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?On blacks:"We think they are not, and that they are not included, and were not intended to be included…. They…Continue

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Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Chris G on Friday. 16 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Wednesday. 17 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 22. 83 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 19. 8 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 9:33pm

According to the Farmer's Almanac, the shortest day of the year, the Winter Solstice, the time when the Earth spends two days in the same relationship to the Sun is  ..... drum roll please ....

December Winter Solstice is on Saturday,

December 21, 2013 at 17:11 UTC

December 21, 2013 at 9:11 AM Pacific Standard Time 

Please correct me if I am wrong. 

Days will start to get longer and longer and longer and longer .............

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 7:55pm

Loren, you say it so clearly! I would only add:

"Do you really believe in a supernatural god? 

"Can there actually be a virgin birth? 

"Surely you can't believe in a spirit world? 

"Don't you think the devil is a construct of a fear filled person?

"Do you put your trust in a story that came out of a desert people 2,000 years ago? 

"Do you actually believe the Earth is 6,000 years old? 

"Will Stone age people's solutions solve today's problems? 

"Do you actually believe in miracles? 

"Where is the evidence? 

"Have you ever read the scriptures? 

"When are you going to give up childish things and think as an adult? 

"I respect you too much to listen to this nonsense!

I want to force a person to think. I really don't care if they have an answer for me because I won't be around to hear it. I certainly don't want them around me or on my internet strings. Thankfully, it is easy to block nonsense. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 7:43pm

Mindy, yes, this is a good place to come and explode in disgust and whatever the feeling. 

I also think it is quite appropriate to state, directly to the one that ticks you off, that you don't like it. Point out exactly what you don't like, You don't need to say why, that is pointless to get into that because he/she will just come back with some sort of denial or defense.  

Just a very simple script: 

"When you  ... say, do, or share an offensive piece ... or whatever. 

"I feel  ... disgust, revulsion, insulted, nauseated ... or whatever. 

"I want you to ... stop, quit, apologize, discontinue, ... or whatever. 

"If you don't ... stop, I will block your site ... or whatever. 

Just remember, 7,200,803,677 other human beings inhabit the Earth and you don't have to put up with any one!!!!! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 7:29pm

Loren, your music selections refresh me. You have a real ear for beautiful sounds, calm moods, I like your offerings very much. Thanks. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 20, 2013 at 6:46pm

I saw this today and it seems to be particularity appropriate right now. 

Comment by Loren Miller on December 20, 2013 at 6:19pm

To those who wish to assert that shaming religions as silly and not real is not okay:

  • Have you actually READ your holy book?
  • Have you seen some of the utterly ridiculous things it asserts?
    • Talking donkeys and snakes
    • People who live for centuries
    • Creation that took seven days (with no evidentiary support) as opposed to 13.7 billion years (and enormous volumes of evidence)
    • Proscriptions for things like pork, shellfish, and wearing clothes made of two different materials
    • Too many other things to name
  • Are you prepared to offer satisfactory proof that they are for real?

If not, we suggest you either get used to it ... or rethink your attachment to a ridiculous, millennia-old myth.

Comment by Loren Miller on December 19, 2013 at 9:24pm

More delicious music from my all-time favorite jazz ensemble, Oregon:

Comment by sk8eycat on December 19, 2013 at 5:19pm

Oh, that is SO true!  My best friend for the last 10 years is a man  in DC...we talk on the phone a lot, but we've never met face to face, or I would have hugged him and never let go.  We"met" on an atheist forum that no longer exists.  I have 2 or 3 longtime friends from that forum, and we all keep each other hanging onto life when things get rough.

I just thought of a line from one of Armistead Maupin's "Tales of the City" books, "I'd rather have 5 good friends than one mediocre lover."  I've got the friends...gave up on lovers so long ago I can't remember who the last one was; just that he was worse than average.

Tee-hee!

Comment by Ian Mason on December 19, 2013 at 4:18am

Happy solstice all :-)

Just got home from my night shift and a good workout so these ARE my plans for the day.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 19, 2013 at 1:51am

sk8eycat, you are a treasure; I got goose bumps all over again when I read your celebration of my news.

You have so many challenges, it is a wonder you keep your keen sense of humor. Having good health care from "an artist" makes such a great difference and you deserve it. Your description of petting Lyle immediately after your surgery and feeling his hair evokes visions of what can happen and should happen in our health delivery system. 

 

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