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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 10, 2013 at 4:37pm

Comment by sk8eycat on September 9, 2013 at 9:42pm

re: Destructive Trees...Liquid Amber

They have very shallow roots, and if they are near a sidewalk or patio, they push the concrete up at the joins, and trip people.  Their seed pods are big and prickly, too.

My friend Sue had one planted in her parkway by the City of Los Angeles. (Parkways and sidewalks are City property). When it did become dangerous, and she wanted it removed, the City told her SHE had to pay for it!  Where is the logic in that?

She finally got fed up and did pay to have it cut down, and the root system dug up.  The City "very generously" put in a new level sidewalk.

A long time ago we had Catalina Cherry trees in the parkways in our neighborhood.  They were always messy; the "cherries" were inedible, mostly seed (about the size of the large marbles gamers use to "shoot" smaller marbles out of the circle), attracted wasps and other stinging insects.  Feh.  They finally developed big galls and started looking raggedy all over, so THIS city removed them, and gave us a choice of replacement trees or no trees.

I am SO glad I live in Beautiful Downtown Burbank, even if they finally did let Walphart open a store here this year. (We've been fighting that sleazy, money-grubbing outfit for ages.)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 9, 2013 at 9:23pm

Not everyone in here is a grandparent, and I'M not even a parent (at least not a "people parent"), but this is so sweet I just had to post it for everyone:

Happy Grand Pawrents Day

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 9, 2013 at 8:45pm

I'm quite happy about the breakthrough from Russia, giving us a way to avoid war. Horray!

BTW, the stock market was happy too. Our portfolio jumped up over $1,000.

Overall it's been a good day.

Comment by Steph S. on September 9, 2013 at 5:19pm

That is really cute Flying Atheist. I love it.

How was everyone's Monday?

Just back to hectic work schedule. Trying to get back to the Nexus as often as I can.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 9, 2013 at 1:15pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2013 at 6:38pm
I love willows and quaking aspen as well, but my place is too small. My cousin has them on his place on the Pend Oreille River, and they are lovely, especially when the willows hang over the river. A nice spot for a canoe trip and lunch stop.

I hope your elms escaped the various elm beetle infestations and fungus that devastated USA, UK and Scotland.
Comment by Idaho Spud on September 7, 2013 at 6:22pm

I love weeping willows and quaking aspen.  I'll just remember to plant them away from anything they can bother.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 7, 2013 at 6:16pm

Patricia, what a strange neighbor.  Nice, except for bull-headiness about that tree!

Joan, I knew about the poplars weakness, but didn't know about the aspens, willows, elms, and maples causing problems with foundations, drains, sewers, & sidewalks.

I do know about a problem with elms that bothers me a lot.  They produce horrific numbers of little seeds that cause hundreds of little trees to pop-up in my yard every year.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 7, 2013 at 5:25pm

I know willow trees are very invasive with their roots, but I think they are some of the most beautiful trees.  They're enjoyable to watch when the wind kicks up.  There was a willow tree right across the street from my childhood home.


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