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An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Michael Penn Aug 16. 8 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Steven Weinberg on his anti-theism

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 2. 4 Replies

I like the sound of Steven Weinberg's voice. He has a calming impact on me as I rush to get my home of 41 years ready to sell and plan and put into motion the new garden at my daughter's home. My home is full o empty boxed quickly filling with the…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 22, 2013 at 3:48pm

I happened to stumble upon this webpage about an artist who paints on trees.  I thought I'd share it with you.  Hope you enjoy it as I did. 

http://designtaxi.com/news/356536/Artist-Paints-Cute-Animals-Pretty...

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 22, 2013 at 1:23pm

That's nice to hear, Mindy.  I'm glad your daughter is able to enjoy herself and to feel confident enough to be dating.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 22, 2013 at 12:53pm
Melinda, this is very good news. She is a lovely young woman and has a bright future ahead of her. Life is so very precious and full of wonder. Moving from child to adult is hard for some. So many challenges, so much to take on. I hope she can see through the fog to a clear process of being healthy in a crazy-making world. Your wise counsel and good humor gives her a good foundation upon which to build.
Comment by Joan Denoo on July 22, 2013 at 8:48am

Carl, love your philosophy of living! It will work well for you and when you are 77 years old, you will be doing exactly what you want to do. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 22, 2013 at 8:35am

Melinda, I love your cheerfulness and your wisdom. 

Here is a little ditty to get the morning gears rolling. 

Eric Idle performs 'Always Look on the Bright Side of Life' - The G...

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 22, 2013 at 8:15am
Melinda, I love your comment, "I think a lot of it is being SATISFIED."
It is a lot more fun being around people who work hard, get what they can afford and are satisfied with their lives. I hate being around people who want more, more, more. It is like being with an octopus, grasping and holding onto things and looking around to see what others have. Economic materialism doesn't work for me either.
Your stories of experiences raising your children delight me.
Comment by Joan Denoo on July 22, 2013 at 7:49am
Chris, I agree that people hate to face what is happening. I like your statement, “I think there will be more grassroots groups that work together and share - initiatives that help people and society.”
Therein lie the possible solutions, individuals gathering with others in a common effort to solve problems and resolve conflicts.
We know what doesn’t work: primitive belief in supernatural powers, prayers to a non-existent god, looking for others to rescue us from our follies.
Most of us have what we need to think and imagine, explore, experiment, and take focused action. Most of us have the power to create a lifestyle that we can support through our own efforts.
The institutions of our culture, i.e. family, religion, education, health care, banking and financial markets, and government sometimes get in the way of empowering individuals to flourish.
Finding and developing each one’s internal wisdom, learning new skills, taking responsibility for ourselves, supporting each other, these are the things that will pull us out of the present depression.
As atheists, we have shucked one of the elements that keep us bound. Free of mind-bindings, we can explore, not the probabilities, but the possibilities.
My preference is to live in a just society with laws applying to each person individually. I prefer a culture that values empowerment of individuals.
My job today is to overwhelm the cancer cells in my body. While sitting quietly, I can imagine and dream away the hours of ways to build community. Multi-tasking is very familiar to me.
6:00 AM and I am out to pick raspberries for breakfast. Life doesn't get much better than that.
Comment by Plinius on July 22, 2013 at 12:53am

Joan,

when people tell you that you're negative, they know that you're right, but they just hate it that you're realistic.

Comment by Plinius on July 22, 2013 at 12:48am

The modern, western-style of over-consumption has not only become our normal standard of living but also an expected human right, any negative consequences be damned

But here, as in the USA, there are many people forced to rationing by poverty. They cannot use creditcards and they always are out of money before the month is over. But I don't expect outbreaks of anarchy - at most more 'proletarian shopping'. I think there will be more grassroots groups that work together and share - initiatives that help people and society.

I grew up in the 50s and I learned frugal living right from the start. For me it's not so difficult to economize when my income goes down, but for younger people...

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 21, 2013 at 9:21pm

Felaine, that Apple Soup sounds very delicious.  Thanks for chiming in.  I've been thinking about you and I hope you're well. 

 

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