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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 9 hours ago. 84 Replies

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The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Wednesday. 22 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

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Fan.tasia – A Disney Mashup by Lindsey McCutcheon

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud on Monday. 8 Replies

Any of you remember that Hollywood musical dance number mashup that Nerd Fest UK created put together some months back?  Well, someone by the name of Lindsey McCutcheon has…Continue

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The Gun Industry's Killing in Killing (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Jul 20. 15 Replies

America's Best Christian has finally acknowledged that there may be one outfit which has her belief system beat for it's leverage on the government.  No great surprise, it's the NRA and the gun industries.  Betty's a good loser, though.  She's made…Continue

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The God of Cancer (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 18. 10 Replies

Seth Andrews has been through the mill as it comes to dealing with those who insist that their faith in a deity is not just valid but necessary to their lives and to all lives.  Having dealt with that gauntlet and come out the other side an atheist,…Continue

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We Are America / Love Has No Labels (John Cena - Ad Council)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 10. 3 Replies

It seems to be a repeating pattern: I wander around the internet and inevitably, I stumble onto all manner of stuff.  It happens all the time on YouTube, and as you doubtless have deduced, yours truly tripped over something a couple minutes ago,…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on January 11, 2014 at 11:49pm

Bengal cats - my neighbour has two of them, I think they're 4th generation from wild. Very active, and with a strong will of their own - great friends, even to a catsitter. But not at all the cuddly type that stays with you all night. That is a job for my black mongrel Dido, who snuggles into my arms and doesn't move until I leave.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 11, 2014 at 8:50pm

I'm glad to hear that you're getting more sleep, Patricia.

That advancing ice shove is freaky. It reminds me of the leading edge of flooding in an arroyo, and of the Indonesia tsunami. Thanks for sharing, Joan.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 11, 2014 at 5:26pm

Joan, I've forgotten what kind of cross Bengals really are,some kind of small Asian wild cat and domestic shorthair. We had one or two that were boarded at the Cat Hotel when I worked there.  They are beautiful, but almost always hyper, difficult to train, and one was abandoned at the Hotel.  The owners just dropped him off, pre-paid his bill for two weeks, and vanished.  The credit card was cancelled, phone disconnected, "Moved - No Forwarding Address," etc.  He was a sweet fellow, but there was a lot of wild cat in his genes, and he had a bad habit of spraying....

I'd like a me-sized version of this cat to hold me at night, but I can't afford to feed such a biggie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfNnfpRj7No 

Some friends of mine used to have Boston Bulls...little black & white dogs with pushed-in faces.  They snored, very softly, and that sound almost always relaxes me to the point where I nod off.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 11, 2014 at 12:40pm

sk8eycat, I laughed when I read your desire for "a warm, floofy cylindrical pillow that vibrates softly...and makes low-level purring sounds."

That is what I hoped to have when I visited Laura's family in the north woods, "a warm, floofy cylindrical pillow that vibrates softly...and makes low-level purring sounds."

We brought my granddaughter's cat to keep me company, (and catch mice) and she slept  (more like attacked) with Laura and Larry one night and so I took her one night. She attacked my sleeping eyebrows, nose, ears, hair, crawled between the covers and took bites out of my hide whenever she had an urge. We sent her home the next day; we still had the mouse. I am sure she had Bengal tiger in her heritage. 

Here is a photo of a domestic cat x Bengal tiger mix. Now a breed of domestic cat.

I wonder if this breed has been calmed?

marble bengal domestic cat

Comment by sk8eycat on January 11, 2014 at 10:40am

Hmmmm.... I wish someone would develop a warm, floofy cylindrical pillow that vibrates softly...and makes low-level purring sounds.  I can doze off when Pumpkin lies next to me (under the covers) and purrs, but he's more restless than I am; rolls over, stands up, sits down, hops off the bed and then gets back on...or wants the door opened so he can check out the other rooms.  At 15 he's still as active as a cat half his age, or younger.

In the past I've had kittehs who would let me hold them all night, or until they sensed I was soundly asleep, and then quietly move down to the foot of the bed, and stay there till morning.

I've had insomnia most of my adult life, and it's become worse as I age...aches and pains, and mental/emotional stress. 

I read light fiction at night; books I've read before so I'm not glued to the story to find out what happens next. I also find Robert Ingersoll collections comforting...they confirm my own opinions about many things.

I'm just glad that I don't have to get up at the screech of dawn and put on "office clothes" (pantyhose!  Ick!) And hit the freeways with hundreds (thousands) of other frantic people anymore.  I don't know how I did that for almost 50 years...

It's a wonder that more people don't flip out and rebel or break down.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 10, 2014 at 7:43pm

Patricia, this is kind of ironic, but when I was discovering sleep music on YouTube I came upon Gregorian Chants.  This one in particular (Collage of old Gregorian music in Latin) is very relaxing and soothes me to sleep.  Basically, it's sacred Medieval Catholic music sung in Latin. 

Learning about this type of music was part of my music history studies in college, so I have an appreciation for its beautiful musicality.  I didn't grow up Catholic but perhaps, if I did, this music would prompt bad memories and scary dreams.  Luckily that's not the case for me.  It does the job.   

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 10, 2014 at 6:55pm

Thanks Patricia.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 10, 2014 at 5:10pm

Patricia, what low priced delta theta wave aid would you recomend to start with?

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 10, 2014 at 5:07pm

Those ice crushes are interesting, but would be a slow-motion distress for the owners of the houses they trash.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 10, 2014 at 3:09pm
 

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