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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on August 27, 2013 at 12:50am

Chuckle, chuckle, chuckle, Patricia, Carl and Mindy.

Glad you're feeling better Joan.

I'm one of the world's most uncoordinated people. I didn't know why until an old Peanuts cartoon put me on the right track: mixed brain dominance. I'm right-handed but left-eyed. Couldn't catch a moving ball if my life depended on it. That made me a figure of fun at school because no-one there had ever heard of the phenomonen. Most people still haven't and don't believe me when I tell them.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 26, 2013 at 8:47pm

Comment by sk8eycat on August 26, 2013 at 7:26pm

When those pix were taken, I was 5' 4" plus skates. They numbered us from shortest to tallest  1 thru 12  Twelve girls each for stage left and stage right..  I was usually a five. Meant I had to skate pretty fast to catch the damn wheel, but not as hard as my roommate who was 4' 11".

The very tallest girls got to wear the really fancy costumes, and just glide around...showgirls.  I'm 5' 2" now.

Comment by Lillie on August 26, 2013 at 6:33pm

Wow, sk8eycat, sounds like great fun.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 26, 2013 at 8:29am

I enjoy the song "Singing in the Rain", and very much liked the ice & water skating to it.

I'm a definite morning person and hate DST.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 26, 2013 at 2:55am

Cheezkake Poze (We hated those hats!) My 19th b'day


There were 24 girls and 12 boyz on the ice in a full chorus production number...and 7 or 8 big production numbers in a show...not counting solos and we 5 or 6 of us got to sit out at least one number, but we still had to learn them all, in case someone was sick or injured.

The bear costume was part of a "Circus" number...there were 3 of us, and we got to climb over the footlights, walk around in the audience (on rubber-lok mats), hand out lollipops, and sit in guys' laps.  Tee-hee!  The only part of the costume that was at all heavy was the papier mache' head, and it rested on the shoulders, so it wasn't a big deal.  I loved being anonymous.  I embarrassed the *bleep* out of my mother when she came to see us un Salt Lake City, and the company manager sat her in the front row....I hugged her, and yelled, "I wuv yew, Mommy!"  She didn't quite crawl under the seat...

Comment by Plinius on August 26, 2013 at 12:25am

Good morning! I love to read your stories, please tell me more! We have DST here, but no one likes it - they say it saves money on street lighting and other things.

That is beautiful skating - I'm jealous that I never learnt it but my equilibrium was never good: I even don't cycle anymore. But my eyes are good enough for reading and my hands are good for lots of hobbies and odd jobs.

I'm glad you're feeling better, Joan! 

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 11:20pm

Patricia, IMO there is nothing more frightening than a "stage mother/father"!  I was lucky; my parents just wanted me to enjoy whatever I chose.  Dad turned me on to books by reading me to sleep until I learned to read by myself (took me a while; I'm dyslexic, and they didn't even have a word for that when I was in school. I also needed glasses; got my first pair when I was in 2nd grade...very unusual in 1948.) I am totally  addicted to print.

BTW, my HANDS have always been clumsy, and my best friends in high school were three of the majorettes. I wanted to go to the away games on the band bus, so I learned to play the only instrument that doesn't require manual dexterity (or reading music)...the bass drum!  I also learned how to "guide" when I was in the marching band, and that came in very handy when I joined Holiday.  Half the numbers we did involved some precision, and there was always one number in the show that was fairly close to military-type drill. Audiences loved it...when we got it right.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 25, 2013 at 9:19pm

Ruth, I am sorry to learn of your dealing with "seasonal affective disorder". I've never heard of summer time distress but I do understand the winter version, even if I did get past it several years ago. Your diagnosis makes sense. 

My mother and daughter were night people and I am an early morning one. I could not understand those two, nor could they understand me.  Now that I am sleeping all night and then most of the day, I don't know what I will be. It doesn't really matter because I am able to sleep or not, as it pleases me. I love retirement. 

Getting my blood chemistry back on track and feeling so much better, I have to ask if your nutrition levels are up to par?  

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 25, 2013 at 8:46pm
Mindy, glad you had a good time. Welcome safely home.

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