Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Discussion Forum

Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat 14 hours ago. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 24, 2014 at 9:31am

As of this morning, apparently the winter weather has moved east of Chicago and will miss us.  The winter storm watch has been cancelled. 

Today, I'm off to my doctor for an appointment and a review of my health.  I'm glad I won't have to deal with any snow or rain.  BTW, I'm still feeling well and I'm looking forward to spending time during the next few days with my family.  Lots of great seasonal food is in store!

Comment by Randall Smith on December 24, 2014 at 8:09am

I like all the "good news" comments--and music, cartoons, etc.

Christmas eve brings back many wonderful memories. One year, Santa (my grandfather) walked up to our house, looked over his list, shook his head, and walked on down the street. I was devastated! Yes, he returned.                                                    It'll be a very quiet eve and day tomorrow this year.

Comment by Loren Miller on December 24, 2014 at 6:11am

Thunder-snow, eh?  I remember that from not quite 30 years ago when I was waiting for a flight at Cleveland Hopkins Airport.  Flight was cancelled, of course!

Glad you enjoyed "Let It Snow," Carl.  That one is a long-time favorite of mine.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 24, 2014 at 4:32am

Joan, your gladness and love of life are infectious. Have some lovely days with your nearest and dearest.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 24, 2014 at 3:19am

Ian, wonderful cartoon! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 24, 2014 at 3:17am

I'm having a most delightful visit with Laura and Larry. They worked all day each day so far and I enjoy cooking dinner each night and preparing mid-day snacks to keep their strength up. They enjoy my cooking ... thankfully. 

I spent an afternoon with my five great-grandkids. Their mother works for Laura and so I had them all to myself. When dinner time came, each one, from six years old to 16 had their assigned chores in getting the meal ready and they performed like real troopers. 

One of the boys, ten year old Austin, has a learning disability. I was dumbfounded at his abilities at building things out of magnet parts. He built a bridge, igloo, houses of different shapes. I will send photos of them later. He has unusual math abilities as well. I told his Mom and Dad, they need not worry about him. If he has good teachers, he will surprise everyone with his abilities. They don't need to be so anxious about him. Their other kids have very high grades and all participate in sports. Especially the 12 year old girl. She lives for sports. The six year old learns many things from his older siblings, appearing advanced for his age. His language skills will take him a long way. The 16 year old is a junior volunteer fire fighter, taking courses in forest management and gets college credits for his involvement and courses. The ten year old has a free spirit and I suspect he has some musical talent. He enjoys rhythms. He and I like to go into the woods and beat patterns on fallen logs and upright trees. He is quite good. 

My four month old great-granddaughter will be with us tomorrow. I guess you know I am looking forward to time with her. 

The Winter Solstice log burn will take place later in the week because of conflicting schedules when we will all be able to attend.

I'm just kind of giddy with all the playtime for myself and the kiddos.  

I hope each one of you have great fun, build happy memories, have good health and celebrate the Turning of the Yearly Wheel. 

Comment by Ian Mason on December 24, 2014 at 3:07am

Bon appetit, Felaine. Unexpected suprises like that are lovely and you deserve a treat.

A little "reality" for the season:

Comment by sk8eycat on December 24, 2014 at 2:42am

If I were 40 years younger, I'd grab Mike Wilson and run for Vegas in a "New York minute!"  He's kind, smart, adorable, and divorced.....   The kind of man I looked for all my life and never found.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 24, 2014 at 2:40am

Felaine, a very moving story of your blind cat, Mr Devil and your Dad's passing. I have not heard of hydrostatic shock from jumping from great heights. I suppose Mr Devil jumped a lot, or was it a few terrible jumps? Dreadful to watch a cat become disabled in that way. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 24, 2014 at 2:32am

Felaine, I am so very pleased you received this gift from your real estate agent! Your great spirit shines so brightly, others want to share with you.

I cry with you in pure joy at the care and compassion of those around us.  


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