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Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky 14 hours ago. 20 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 11 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 21. 24 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Aug 14. 91 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Wedding Haka - Subtitled & translated

Started by Joan Denoo Aug 13. 0 Replies

I ran across a video of a wedding in which a group of wedding guests celebrated with a performance of a traditional Māori ancestral war dance, called a Haka. It was intended for sons, however, the women have joined in a participation of…Continue

Tags: new, traditions., women, men, Haka

Onward (Unpaid) Christian Soldiers (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 13. 1 Reply

Proselytizing in the military is a dirty little secret most radical christians would rather didn't get out.  Well, never let it be said that America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, was ever a wallflower where a pit bull was needed!  In the following…Continue

Tags: Military Religious Freedom Foundation, MRFF, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 10:03pm

Carl, thank you for including the lyrics to "Hanging Tree". The words wrench one to the core, and cannot be denied.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 10:00pm

Mindy, I agree with you when you said, "I called her friend a bigot, and I think she's dumb."

Now, what are your alternatives? remain silent? state your thinking? pretend it doesn't matter? act as if you respect their points of view?

What is it that you want to happen? Do you want to stay in communication? or do you want to state your position and let nature take its course? or force the issue, stating your right to your thinking and your rationale? or do you want to change to their position? or do you want them to change to your position?

Once you have these questions answered, you know exactly what to do, and you will be able take action that prevents you from being a victim.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 9:53pm

Mindy "against homosexuality" is like being against blue eyes. They both are aspects of the same thing ... evolutionary forces that exist in our gene pools. Just throw the dice, and a change occurs in our genetic makeup. To be "against homosexuality" reflects lack of education. When people speak from ignorance, they commit a ignorance fallacy.

According to The Free Dictionary, lack of education is defined as: ig·no·rant  (gnr-nt) adj.

1. Lacking education or knowledge.
2. Showing or arising from a lack of education or knowledge:
an ignorant mistake.
3. Unaware or uninformed.
a :  destitute of knowlede or education;    
also :  lacking knowledge or comprehension of the thing specified <parents ignorant of modern mathematics>
b :  resulting from or showing lack of knowledge or intelligence em>ignorant errors>
— ig·no·rant·ly adverb
— ig·no·rant·ness noun
Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 13, 2014 at 9:40pm

Joan, you and I just posted the same thing at the same time.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 13, 2014 at 9:38pm

Yes, Napoleon, lynching was still happening here in the southern U.S. into the 1920's and even later.  So, yes, those are "modern" people in that photograph.   

That particular photograph was taken on August 7, 1930 in the state of Indiana.  As stated in this Wikipedia article, that photograph was the inspiration for the song "Strange Fruit" referenced below. 

Most lynchings occurred during the period of 1890 through the 1920's.  This Wikipedia article, Lynching in the United States, has a detailed history.   

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 9:36pm

Napoleon, the photo of this lynching is real. 

"Lawrence Beitler  (1885 - 1960, 74 years[1]) was a studio photographer who on August 7, 1930, took a photograph of the lynching of Thomas Shipp and Abram Smith, which has become an iconic representation of the history of the period. In 1982, 64-years later, James Cameron published A Time of Terror.[2]"

The Emotional Psychology of Lynching

It is a part of USA history that cannot be denied. Nor can the role of religious hatred. They come from the same ball of string.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 4:26pm

Replace that barbaric image of hangings with one of life as a gift to be celebrated. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 13, 2014 at 3:54pm

Joan, thanks for posting the Billie Holiday song.  That's one of her quintessential songs that elicits disturbing images that, unfortunately, portray a reality that was common in our recent past. 

Powerful words.......

Billie Holiday – Strange Fruit Lyrics

Songwriters: FROST,DAMON/PHIRI,AARON /
Southern trees bear a strange fruit,
Blood on the leaves and blood at the root,
Black bodies swinging in the southern breeze,
Strange fruit hanging from the poplar trees.

Pastoral scene of the gallant south,
The bulging eyes and the twisted mouth,
Scent of magnolias, sweet and fresh,
Then the sudden smell of burning flesh.

Here is fruit for the crows to pluck,
For the rain to gather, for the wind to suck,
For the sun to rot, for the trees to drop,
Here is a strange and bitter crop.
Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 12:45pm

We are all in this together! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2014 at 12:36pm

Ian Mason, That is the best definition of Genesis I have seen. It goes into my photo album. Thanks. 

 

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