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Comment by sk8eycat on September 29, 2013 at 7:34pm

Joan, there's also Bob, the Rain God...only sends rain when you don't need it or want it.  Oh, about 20 years ago the bishop or archbishop of San Francisco led a special service to pray for rain (there was a terrible drought) and a couple of days later it SNOWED in SF!  First time in 50 or 75 years. 

Everybody laughed.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 29, 2013 at 7:30pm
I like Fred and Ginger! Well, maybe Freda
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 29, 2013 at 7:20pm
sk8eycat, it has been months since I did any housework and a few cousins and friends drop by from time to time and I tell them the snifter of dust on my bookshelves is star dust, and I don't want to disturb it, it is too precious. They report that dust mites like my snifter and I do not let that deter me.

I look forward to your stories of your new addition to your household. Fred is a good name.

A.C. Grayling states that if someone wants to pray for you, say you will do the honors and then say, "Thank Fred for all these gifts bestowed upon me and my family!"

I don't know why Fred, it just doesn't sound like "god" I guess.
Comment by sk8eycat on September 29, 2013 at 7:14pm

Well, if it weren't too late to change Pumpkin's name, I'd call him "Ginger"...because he IS a "ginger cat," and then I'd have "Fred & Ginger."

They are both out in the den right now, staring at each other.  Haven't heard any growls or hisses.  Yet.

OMNerves, it was SO good to see and really talk with John and Bjo again!  I met them a long time ago through "Trek" fandom...before any of the movies or spin-offs were even in the works.  They are a bit older than I am, and were involved in SF fandom long before "Trek;"

I think they actually met at a LASFS (Los Angeles Science Fantasy Society) meeting in the days when the professional writers were still involved with fan clubs and stuff.  I could listen to them talk about "the old days" forever!  (Bjo wrote the original Star Trek Concordance when all "Trek" was was reruns, and the short-lived animated series.)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 29, 2013 at 5:20pm

I'm just  embarrassed that our house is such a blooming mess, and I haven't the time or the energy to do very much about it before they get here. Old (1967) ankle problems have kept me from doing much without a walker for the last couple of weeks, and I can see dust, and papers, and books piling up all over the place.  Oh, well....I TOLD Bjo the house was a dump...literally.  I don't think the cat will mind.  BTW the cat is a female...named "Fred."  I have to find out why. 
MUST get dressed; they'll be here in an hour.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 29, 2013 at 2:13pm

That's great news, sk8eycat.  How fun!  What a lucky cat.  Looking forward to your stories as you discover a new personality living in your house. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 29, 2013 at 1:32pm

Well, folks, it looks like we are going to be a 2-cat family again.  A long-time friend and her husband backed themselves into a corner by signing their home over to a daughter & son-in-law for financial reasons, and to avoid probate, and the "kids moved in and decided that they wanted a couple of dogs.  The dogs are trying to kill the cat (and wrecking the house), and all the no-kill shelters are full.  I could NOT let this couple take their Only Cat to a city "shelter," so Pumpkin is getting a house-mate.

And I need to pick up a few hairballs before they come over.

I'll keep y'all posted.

Comment by Plinius on September 29, 2013 at 1:47am

LOL, Melinda!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 28, 2013 at 9:56pm

Good night all. Thanks for all the LOLs.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 28, 2013 at 6:16pm

Melinda...that's SO true, and I did LOL.  I'll have to send it to a few folks.

Now here's one back atcha.  I love it when cats do this:

Yikes!

 

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