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Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky 11 hours ago. 20 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 11 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 21. 24 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Aug 14. 91 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Wedding Haka - Subtitled & translated

Started by Joan Denoo Aug 13. 0 Replies

I ran across a video of a wedding in which a group of wedding guests celebrated with a performance of a traditional Māori ancestral war dance, called a Haka. It was intended for sons, however, the women have joined in a participation of…Continue

Tags: new, traditions., women, men, Haka

Onward (Unpaid) Christian Soldiers (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 13. 1 Reply

Proselytizing in the military is a dirty little secret most radical christians would rather didn't get out.  Well, never let it be said that America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, was ever a wallflower where a pit bull was needed!  In the following…Continue

Tags: Military Religious Freedom Foundation, MRFF, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 10:55am

I had two cats with Alzheimer's. In the end they both became unhappy, their voices sounded like calls for help. They were put to sleep before their lives became too difficult - that is, I hope that we understood them well enough and did the right thing. But you're never sure.

Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 10:03am

You must know that a healthy Bengal will demolish everything in sight when you do something he doesn't like. But when you go to the vet with a Bengal putting his head in your armpit for comfort, then he's really ill. So for his sake and for my neighbour's.... she loves her cats more than anything.

Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 12:37am

Yes, I'm the catsitter when my neighbour is on holiday. They are very special and intelligent cats. Two years ago Cicero ate a piece of a toy that caused stomach ache and I became convinced that he needed treatment. He agreed with that or he would never have stepped into his travel basket. He is a very strong cat and cannot be forced. The vet said that there was nothing wrong. We went to the vet and back again FOUR times and then to another vet. There he got the treatment he needed badly and was healthy when my neighbour came home. Now I get the special treatment: he always stops to talk to me and he's always happy to see me. This is my hero:

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2014 at 12:09am

Chris, you have actually known this breed! What a challenge. Do you cat sit them? 

Comment by Plinius on January 11, 2014 at 11:54pm

Such a wonderful video, Sk8eycat! I think we all want to be that kitten.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 11, 2014 at 11:50pm

sk8eycat, according to Wikipedia, "The Bengal is a hybrid breed of domestic cat. Bengals result from crossing a domestic feline with an Asian leopard cat (ALC), Prionailurus bengalensis bengalensis.

"The Bengal cat has a desirable "wild" appearance with large spots, rosettes, and a light/white belly, and a body structure reminiscent of the ALC.[1] The Bengal possesses a gentle domestic cat temperament, if separated by at least four generations from the original crossing between a domestic feline and an ALC.

"The name "Bengal cat" was derived from the taxonomic name of the Asian leopard cat (P. b. bengalensis), and not from the more distantly related Bengal tiger."

Your video of the kitten with a nightmare and motherly attention delights me. 

Bengal (cat)

7 things you should know before buying a bengal cat.  

Comment by Plinius on January 11, 2014 at 11:49pm

Bengal cats - my neighbour has two of them, I think they're 4th generation from wild. Very active, and with a strong will of their own - great friends, even to a catsitter. But not at all the cuddly type that stays with you all night. That is a job for my black mongrel Dido, who snuggles into my arms and doesn't move until I leave.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 11, 2014 at 8:50pm

I'm glad to hear that you're getting more sleep, Patricia.

That advancing ice shove is freaky. It reminds me of the leading edge of flooding in an arroyo, and of the Indonesia tsunami. Thanks for sharing, Joan.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 11, 2014 at 5:26pm

Joan, I've forgotten what kind of cross Bengals really are,some kind of small Asian wild cat and domestic shorthair. We had one or two that were boarded at the Cat Hotel when I worked there.  They are beautiful, but almost always hyper, difficult to train, and one was abandoned at the Hotel.  The owners just dropped him off, pre-paid his bill for two weeks, and vanished.  The credit card was cancelled, phone disconnected, "Moved - No Forwarding Address," etc.  He was a sweet fellow, but there was a lot of wild cat in his genes, and he had a bad habit of spraying....

I'd like a me-sized version of this cat to hold me at night, but I can't afford to feed such a biggie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfNnfpRj7No 

Some friends of mine used to have Boston Bulls...little black & white dogs with pushed-in faces.  They snored, very softly, and that sound almost always relaxes me to the point where I nod off.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 11, 2014 at 12:40pm

sk8eycat, I laughed when I read your desire for "a warm, floofy cylindrical pillow that vibrates softly...and makes low-level purring sounds."

That is what I hoped to have when I visited Laura's family in the north woods, "a warm, floofy cylindrical pillow that vibrates softly...and makes low-level purring sounds."

We brought my granddaughter's cat to keep me company, (and catch mice) and she slept  (more like attacked) with Laura and Larry one night and so I took her one night. She attacked my sleeping eyebrows, nose, ears, hair, crawled between the covers and took bites out of my hide whenever she had an urge. We sent her home the next day; we still had the mouse. I am sure she had Bengal tiger in her heritage. 

Here is a photo of a domestic cat x Bengal tiger mix. Now a breed of domestic cat.

I wonder if this breed has been calmed?

marble bengal domestic cat

 

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