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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on January 7, 2015 at 9:28am

Nice one, Bertold. Nicking it.

I too escaped from the world by reading when young and nothing's changed since. Sci-fi was my great love but have expanded my tastes over the years.

My hormones raged at a distrubingly high level but now seemed to have burnt themselves out. I can feel a little nostalgia about that but for the most am quite content with the situation. It's peaceful.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 7, 2015 at 8:13am

Speaking of "the good ol' days", I've been reading my old childhood diaries. It's amazing what I've both forgotten or have no memory of happening. I had some raging hormones back then, too!  After 50 years, I haven't changed much in personality and "loves", like reading, science, golf, hiking, etc. One thing that has changed is I became an atheist.

Comment by Plinius on January 7, 2015 at 7:57am

After two winterish days we're back in the rainy season again, a wet mix of autumn and spring. I saw chestnut buds yesterday, they looked very big, but I can't remember what they should look like in January.

Comment by kathy: ky on January 7, 2015 at 7:52am
Is it cold every where? Our wind chill is going to be twenty below. I really should have gone to the library before this set in.
Comment by kathy: ky on January 7, 2015 at 7:47am
Berthold, I need this for a bumper sticker,
Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 7, 2015 at 7:44am

Comment by Plinius on January 7, 2015 at 6:33am

Patricia, I wasn't trying to make your story look less important.

You and I have in common that we didn't fit in and I was very unhappy about that. No loving parents, no kind family or friendly classmates - I was seven when I calculated how long I had to stay in my parents' house. I escaped in reading and tried to learn from books what a normal life could be like.

I love the teenage pictures and look forward to more!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 6, 2015 at 8:02pm

Loved the Gypsy Airs, Joan.  As a classically trained saxophonist I was always practicing music of that same vein.  There's some great classical saxophone literature out there.  

I'm enjoying the teen-age photos that have been posted.  I'll have to see what I can come up with.  

Bertold, I love Pandora and have discovered lots of great music that was unknown to me.  As I type this I'm listening to my station of Spanish contemporary love and romantic songs by male singers.  There are some wonderful artists from Central and South America.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 4:54pm

Patricia, it doesn't sound like the classroom environment offered you something to compensate for your situation. 

There is no reason to try to change your emotions and feelings. They helped you to cope with whatever you had to face. 

Would you like o feel uplifted and positive in your life? 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 6, 2015 at 4:45pm

Thanks Carl! I love the old 40s/50s jazz, especially sax, and I'd never known about Don Byas. Just started a Pandora station and it's great!

 

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