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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on January 6, 2015 at 12:40pm

This is the only picture of the teenage me that I could find today.  It's at age 18, graduating from High School.

I don't look as happy as I remember being most of the time, because I didn't want to attend the graduation ceremony.  I was a little sick and never have liked pomp & ceremony, but my mother talked me into it.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 6, 2015 at 11:35am

Comment by Plinius on January 6, 2015 at 6:20am

Make some coffee, Carl! I'll be there to listen to the Don Buass quartet!

Comment by Plinius on January 6, 2015 at 6:18am

Patricia's picture reminded me of this one - I see similarities. And I also started building happy memories later on. But perhaps teenagers seldom look happy. What did you all look like?

Comment by tom sarbeck on January 6, 2015 at 3:45am

Joan, thanks for the alto sax zigeunerweisen. On any instrument it's one of my favorites.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 2:58am

Thanks for the Jazzy music Patricia. I am enjoying it. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:52am

Comment by sk8eycat on January 6, 2015 at 12:49am

Ohhhh, Carl!  That's sewwww saxy.  I used to listen to a late-night DJ who played that kind of music when I was in high school.   I hung out with some of the band group, and they were always experimenting with jazz.

Later, (almost 10 years) I was dating a fire-fighter who moonlighted as a headwaiter at Shelly's Manne-Hole, and got wrapped up in jazz again.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shelly_Manne

Whew!  Takes me right back.  Thank you.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:15am

Carl, a beautiful piece. I love "I don't know why!" The sax sounds wonderful, too. Never heard of Don Byas. Another new artist to put in my music file. 

The bitter cold snapped; we are now at or a tiny bit above freezing. A couple of day of this and the ice will melt on the streets and sidewalks. I expect we will have freezing weather, but for today ... it is not freezing.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 6, 2015 at 12:00am

It's snowing here.  The temperature is 7 F / -14 C.

After reading the posts here it sounds like many of us have the winter blues.  Wish we could all be together in a room and chat with each other with some appropriate music in the background.

 

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