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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Most Hated Woman in America (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Gary S on Thursday. 7 Replies

Before Aron Ra and Matt Dillahunty, before Dawkins or Dennett or Harris or even Hitchens, there was Madalyn Murray O'Hair.  In the midst of an America where Christianity was being flaunted as a defense against the godless communists of the Soviet…Continue

Tags: Frank Zindler, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Madalyn Murray O'Hair

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Todd Williams Apr 12. 16 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

attacking ideas (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 1 Reply

Attacking ideas is a considerable portion of what we as atheists do.  Why attack ideas?  Ideas earn attack when they don't serve people, not just us but those who adopt said ideas, mistakenly thinking that they have value when they don't.  Our…Continue

Tags: ideas, Islam, TheraminTrees

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 40 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Mar 28. 16 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Plinius on May 22, 2014 at 12:44am

Thanks for the Bill Evans link, Loren, wonderful music with my first cup of coffee!

Congrats, Patricia!

I've got an old cell phone, so people can find me when necessary, but I use it perhaps once a month. I never got attracted to the endless babble and restless texting and gaming I see around me.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 22, 2014 at 12:17am

Loren, my computer isn't working properly right now and I am unable to access a search. Is there a story behind the music of Bill Evans? His music is soulful, almost haunting.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 22, 2014 at 12:05am

Patricia, very good news about your diagnostic mammo this month being clear! Those are mighty fine words to hear after all you experienced. Not only a survivor, but a thriver! Happy life. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 22, 2014 at 12:02am

Ian, your photos tell a story of Istanbul that many do not see. The Turkish coffee with a treat looks so good. Your photo of the Bosporus that separates Europe from Asia presents a lovely scene, beautiful and peaceful. It's beauty exists in spite of the history of Gallipoli Campain and the ANZAC (Australian and New Zealand Army Corps) losses in the battle commemorated by the beautiful Lone Pine Monument. Thank you for sharing these sights with us.  

Comment by k.h. ky on May 21, 2014 at 10:47pm
Lovely photos Ian. Sounds like you enjoyed yourself.
Comment by Loren Miller on May 21, 2014 at 9:08pm

This is something I heard courtesy of a friend and colleague of mine, quite a few years ago.  Bill Evans brings a deft, soulful touch to a classic George Gershwin song from Porgy and Bess: "My Man's Gone Now:

Comment by sk8eycat on May 21, 2014 at 6:17pm

Well, using a hand-held phone, or texting while driving is illegal in California, and has been for several years, but there still are people who think what they have to say is so effiing important that they either break the law, or get no-hands phones for their cars.  It's still a distraction.

I never liked it when a passenger would babble at me when I was trying to drive and watch the road at the same time.  I try to give anyone else the same courtesy of shutting up when they are doing the driving.

Maybe it's just me...I could never give complete (necessary) attention to two things at once.

Comment by Steph S. on May 21, 2014 at 9:49am

Ian love your pictures - beautiful !

How is everyone doing? I have seen many texting at restaurants and ignoring their partner or family sk8eycat. Now I hear people drive and try to text at the same time and cause many accidents.

Comment by sk8eycat on May 21, 2014 at 9:36am

Patricia, I just signed the petition.

Idaho....I was disgusted with cell phones when they first came on the market back in the 1980s, but texting...?  I don't understand what could be so important that a person would totally ignore whoever they are with (dinner guests?), or what's happening around them, to tap silly messages on a tiny screen. 

I still remember a deadly local train wreck that happened because one engineer was texting instead of paying attention to the signals he should have been keeping an eye out for.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 21, 2014 at 6:55am

Joan, thanks for your explanation of why we don't have free will.  I'm starting to grasp what's meant by that.  Since getting rid of religion, I'm getting better at using my reasoning mind to determine what's true and what's false.  My stress level is also reduced, and I'm trying to reduce it further.

 

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