Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller 21 hours ago. 0 Replies

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 6, 2013 at 8:41am

Good morning to all of you.  Yes, it's grey and gloomy here.  I didn't get enough sleep and now I'm trying to wake myself via some coffee.  I also have a doctor's appointment this morning.  My blood pressure is going to be through the roof from the caffeine. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 6, 2013 at 1:05am

booklover your description of your son's pretty date reminds me of a comedy skit. The guy is talking to his shrink about his relationship with his girlfriend. She's gorgeous, the sex is great, but she keeps doing things like set his couch on fire and total his car. You don't like any kind of seafood? I can hardly imagine that.

When you say,"I also like and love my cats and dog more than I like most people." That reminds me of a saying. You know you're old when you really really really love your cat. I qualify for that.

Joan, I think the Redford photo doesn't do him justice. B&W and every wrinkle is enhanced. Brigitte Bardot, I hope I look that good at 79. The photo of Jack Nicholson also looks like the worst shot one could take, with the food and sour expression. I'm sure if he were in a shirt and smiling he'd look far more likeable.

Thanks for Burrito cat, Steph. It's good to hear from you.

Great lovecat gif sk8eycat, thanks. When I sent it to my husband he said, "Is that what we'd do if we had tails?"

Hugs to all!

Comment by Plinius on August 5, 2013 at 10:07am

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? I see a lot of elder women I love to look at - but don't ask me about handsome. For me handsome is such an intricate mix of personality and shape that I never know what it is.

And now I'll shut down the pc again, before the poor thing crashes again from the heat.

Waving to all of you!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 5, 2013 at 12:45am

Ha! I found it!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 5, 2013 at 12:39am

Oh, wow!  That movie looks scary!  I've only been on the ocean (in a 30' cabin cruiser...NOT alone) once, and I didn't like it at all.

Redford looks a helluva lot better than Nicholson, and I think it's interesting that he hasn't had any plastic surgery.  He looks real.  Nicholson looks like Jabba the Hutt.

Has anyone else in here read the book about an older man who sailed around the world solo in a boat about that size back in the '60s (I think)? I've forgotten the title, but the boat was named the Gypsy Moth.  He had some scary times, but he made it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 4, 2013 at 10:57pm

Robert Redford, 77 years old. Many men grow more handsome with age. I wonder what happened? Did he live a hard life? 

Jack Nicholson lost some of his charm as well, 76 years old

Brigitte Bardot, 79 years old 

Comment by Steph S. on August 4, 2013 at 10:18pm

Comment by Steph S. on August 4, 2013 at 10:16pm

How is everyone? Yes I am still alive.

Just one more week of this summer class.

Wow - it has been lots of work.

Final Exam is on Friday.

Then I hope to spend more time with all of you.

I sure have missed you all.

I hope you all are doing well.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 4, 2013 at 9:58pm

Oh my gosh! What on Earth would a person be doing out at sea alone? Doesn't sound like fun to me. 

Comment by Loren Miller on August 4, 2013 at 7:48pm

Any Robert Redford fans here?  I'm not a huge one, particularly.  Never saw Dances With Wolves or Out of Africa, love The Natural ... but in any case, you might want to consider the following:

because it looks like the man has his "A" game on...


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