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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Loren Miller on May 3, 2014 at 10:00pm

... we have to create the future, or others will do it for us.
-- Cmdr. Susan Ivanova, Babylon 5

I just watched the last episode of the television series, Babylon 5 ... and I thought it was important to share that.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 3, 2014 at 6:38pm
Comment by k.h. ky on May 3, 2014 at 6:29pm
Booklover, it is funny.
Comment by Ian Mason on May 3, 2014 at 6:16pm

Patricia, do like Calvin (and Hobbes) mother: MAKE them go outside and build snowmen.

Comment by sk8eycat on May 3, 2014 at 4:21pm

Patricia, is there a quiet, private place where you can duck inside, sit down, close your eyes, think of nothing but your breathing, and do some slow, deep breathing for a minute or two?  You know, inhale for a count of 4, hold it for the same anout of time, exhale for another count of 4, and hold that for a count of 4...repeat as needed.  It doesn't really take long, and helps immensely.  IMHO

It has worked for me, even when I am feeling suicidal (which is often)...

Comment by Ian Mason on May 3, 2014 at 1:52pm

Joan, the best SF revovles around "what if?" ideas. As an example, a Star Trek episode where Lwaxana Troy falls for a man who's culture expects self-administered euthanasia when a person reaches a certain age. This is considered a preventative measure, ensuring that no-one suffers the indignities of dementia and the like. The burgeoning romance leads to a conflict of course but the main point is "what if?" How do we cope with situations where the rules and norms are different? Writers like Isaac Asimov, Kurt Vonnegut, Philip K Dick, Ursula LeGuinn and Iain M Banks are masters of this and are well worth reading. Launch yourself into a new adventure - it's worth it, I promise.

Hope you have a pleasant time indoors with the family, Patricia. Drinking hot cocao while looking at a snow-covered landscape is a simple but sublime pleasure.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 3, 2014 at 12:14pm

Ian, I should have said there is a lot of bunk in OUR culture that needs debunking. Sorry for my mistake. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 3, 2014 at 12:11pm

OK! OK! OK! My education is stunted. You guys sure know how to wake up an uneducated old woman who wears diabetic shoes, shaves her head, and likes "Somewhere over the Rainbow" and Judy Garland. 

I have made a list of your music likes, am downloading them into iTunes and will commence my musical education. 

Now, as to sci-fi and other outrageous fiction, you might have something to offer me; I am even willing to give that damnable fiction a try. It seems you wise men and women enjoy it and there must be some reason for all your wisdom. But this! You have to be kidding!

Hehehe 

Comment by Ian Mason on May 3, 2014 at 9:16am

Just got through the local ½ marathon. A slowish time but there are lots of hills and a strong headwind. My son-in-law also took part and now he, my daughter and her mother are going to eat here. Very nice.

Comment by Loren Miller on May 3, 2014 at 8:47am

My wife and I finally got around to trying Piada last night, and I have to say ... not bad at all!  I had a Steak Piada (a "piada" might as well be an Italian burrito!) with diavolo sauce (not too hot, but nice character!), chopped romaine and Parmesan - excellent!  My wife had their Chicken Fritte Pasta bowl, also with diavolo sauce and some other accents - also pretty darn good!  I should also mention that my side dish was their Lobster Bisque - not much lobster, but the proper bisque taste was absolutely there.

If you've got one of these places within shooting distance, I'd say absolutely give 'em a try!

 

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