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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on January 1, 2015 at 10:20am

Thanks for another excellent statement Mindy.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 1, 2015 at 7:22am

Joan, sorry about your bout with the blues. My mother and ex-wife had them. No explanation and no fun.

Coincidently, Carl, when listening to Diane Reeves last night on PBS, I couldn't help but compare her to Ella--and there IS no comparison! I've always been a huge Ella admirer.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 1, 2015 at 3:32am

Thank you Patricia for your kind words. I am feeling much better. It helped to write about my depression. I feel for Mindy and her daughter with their struggle with that madness. It is pure hell. 

2015 promises to be a good year.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 1, 2015 at 3:26am

Carl, your words comfort me and reassure me that I am OK! The black cloud lifted and I feel much better. 

A very Happy New Year to you. I hope 2015 brings you excellent health and a fast recovery. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 1, 2015 at 3:16am

Ian, It is hard for me to imagine you as "a terrible father"; you sound so gentle. I appreciate your sharing that guilt is just plain useless. I went into the deep hole and didn't come out of it until I wrote my piece here. The depression lifted and I am fine. I wasted that whole damned week weeping quietly so no one would see or hear. 

I feel just fine now and can get on with laughing and appreciating what I have. 

A very happy New Year to you. I hope 2015 is a smashingly good year.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 1, 2015 at 3:10am

(Pumpkin is bowing to his admirers...and I am thanking you all.)

Comment by Plinius on January 1, 2015 at 2:41am

May all your wishes come true! Happy birthday, Pumpkin!

Comment by Ian Mason on January 1, 2015 at 1:00am

Comment by sk8eycat on January 1, 2015 at 12:13am

Pumpkin thanks you all...he doesn't know he's getting old, and I'm not going to tell him.

I am having a cup of HOT cinnamon tea, and thinking about adding a slice of pumpkin (the vegetable kind!) to celebrate....but there's a bottle of Korbel that my sister bought (quel suprise!!!) cooling in the fridge, and some Brie and crackers, too.

The cold wind has blown itself out after a day and a half, so the gun worshipers will probably be out blasting away at the sky in a couple of hours. 

Oh, and out old CRT TV is dying, slowly, so my sister is going to try to find the Rose Parade online in the morning.  My monitor is a very bright flat screen, so it should look more 3-D-ish.  I hope.  I've already seen a color sketch of the Burbank float, and am embarrassed.  It looks so cartoonish.  Bleah.

I think I'll just cuddle with Mr. Pumpkin and listen to him purr.....

Comment by sk8eycat on December 31, 2014 at 10:54pm

HAPPY NUDE DEER, EBRYWON!!!

 

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