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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Daniel W 8 hours ago. 10 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Fan.tasia – A Disney Mashup by Lindsey McCutcheon

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud 12 hours ago. 8 Replies

Any of you remember that Hollywood musical dance number mashup that Nerd Fest UK created put together some months back?  Well, someone by the name of Lindsey McCutcheon has…Continue

Tags: Lindsey McCutcheon, animation, Disney

The Gun Industry's Killing in Killing (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G on Wednesday. 15 Replies

America's Best Christian has finally acknowledged that there may be one outfit which has her belief system beat for it's leverage on the government.  No great surprise, it's the NRA and the gun industries.  Betty's a good loser, though.  She's made…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

The God of Cancer (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 18. 10 Replies

Seth Andrews has been through the mill as it comes to dealing with those who insist that their faith in a deity is not just valid but necessary to their lives and to all lives.  Having dealt with that gauntlet and come out the other side an atheist,…Continue

Tags: cancer, god, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

We Are America / Love Has No Labels (John Cena - Ad Council)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 10. 3 Replies

It seems to be a repeating pattern: I wander around the internet and inevitably, I stumble onto all manner of stuff.  It happens all the time on YouTube, and as you doubtless have deduced, yours truly tripped over something a couple minutes ago,…Continue

Tags: patriotism, labels, love, Ad Council, John Cena

In God We Trust? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Jul 4. 4 Replies

HEY, gang!  Your favorite America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers is BACK and just in time for the Fourth of July!!!  This time, she's hit it big, coming to us live and in color from the Capitol!  Seems as though she's as upset about this whole "In…Continue

Tags: congress, god, Jesus, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Steph S. on November 25, 2013 at 8:27pm

Well my hair does not look quite like that when it is humid. But that is a bird - I thought it was funny.

I don't like sports either. I find it boring myself. I suppose many would disagree with me. Cool Whip - yummy.

Facebook I see as privacy invasion and lots of worry and loss of time doing more important things. The Nexus is such a better place to spend my time.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 6:10pm

Patricia, I bought my MacBook over five years ago, use it daily, it does all that I want it to do, doesn't freeze up like my old PC did, is the easiest of all computers to learn. At the time the going price was $1,000 and I paid $400 for mine, a reconditioned one. I have no regrets. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 5:58pm

I have a little confession to make. Over twenty years ago my daughter married the most obnoxious, arrogant, domineering, offensive, egotistic man I have ever met. For years I visited them only when I felt I had to in order to keep up appearances or family obligations. I detested the guy. Wanted nothing to do with him. 

When I returned to school to discover why so many women and children in my family were victims of family violence, and during my master's training at Whitworth College, we were put through a program called Leadership Institute of Spokane (LIOS). It was designed for leaders in education, business, law enforcement, religious communities, government, etc. In that training I felt like all my skin, muscles and tendons were torn off my bones and put back together in ways that brought about mental and physical health, to repair religious dogma. Many ministers, church youth leaders, priests and nuns graduated from LIOS, many left the organized church and formed programs of their own, without the dogma of religion. 

Over the years, my beautiful, smart, business-like, gentle daughter took courses with The Landmark Forum. It is the same type program that I graduated from in 1979. She learned how to examine her thinking and acting, set goals, identify options, develop action plans and evaluate outcomes. 

Laura knew she was not happy in her marriage, was fed up with Larry's attitudes and made some decisions. Long-story-short. She set an ultimatum: take a course in Landmark before she would reconsider her decision. 

Larry attended Landmark several years ago, recognized his fears, anger, guilt, shame, and depression. He learned how to read his own body, how to communicate with others, how to listen for feeling and meaning, how to see that black-white thinking left out a huge area of more-tha-acceptable gray, gave up notions of dominance and learned how to think and act in a partnership of equal rank. He learned how to manage his kids in ways that made all the difference in the world to them. 

Now, their two daughters, and two of their oldest grandchildren have taken courses to learn these skills. Nothing magic happened, they all learned how to live in healthy relationships. 

Many people think Landmark is a cult; you will find those articles by Googling. They have a right to their opinions, however they just do not understand what happens in experiential learning. It is the most powerful of education methods, not recognized by many trained professional educators. People who call it a cult simply judge out of ignorance. 

It is not a program for people who want instruction, lectures or sermons. It sets up situations to demonstrate how and why "normal" is not necessarily "healthy". 

I am profoundly and deeply in love with my daughter and her husband. They have so many skills that I can only dream of having. I can't wait to spend time with them and their menagerie living deep in the forest of Pend Oreille County. 

There, my confession time is up. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 5:26pm

Joseph, I have to get my 2 cents worth in here, even if I am a little late. 
Take whatever annoys you even a tiny, little bit, add five or ten or twenty years to the relationship and multiply the annoyance 1,000 times. Pretty soon, the things you don't like about her will outshine the things you like about her and you have all that time, money, energy and annoyance to deal with at some future date.

Explore your own thoughts, feeling and needs to determine what you need in a relationship, and on what you are able to give up. 

Tell her exactly what you think, honestly, and set the limits within which you are able and willing to live in a relationship with her. 

There are kids that desperately need sectarian influences in their lives to repair the damage caused by religion dogma. Clearly, it can't be done in a religious oriented youth group. If it is kids you like working with, then leave the religious environment and find a non-religious group or start one.

By-the-way, this is an excellent place to rant. Lots of old trash get cleaned out, and if you have some stinkin' thinkin' going on in your own thought processes, you will be able to confront them and decide if you have some trash you want to discard.

I don't know how many times I have written, "Thanks for the feedback, I was wrong." Those are the sweetest words I ever have thought or said or written. That is how delusions, denials, etc., gets sorted out.  That is how one becomes a mentally healthy human adult. 

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 4:58pm

Patricia, according to my son, daughter and son-in-law, all who work in or own their own computer companies have very strong thoughts about Microsoft and Windows. My daughter got me into Mac's years ago and now I am using MacBook; I love it, take it with me in my brief case, can take photos with it. Not good quality, but at least I can gap a shot if not too detailed. 

My daughter uses MacBook Pro in her business, Larry uses one in his business, and they just bought one for the Pend Oreille County Volunteer Fire Dept. 

Comment by Loren Miller on November 25, 2013 at 4:26pm

Joe, stating that you don't believe in anything supernatural is hardly what I would call an inflammatory statement.  Question: would you former girlfriend follow and join an atheists' group?  Is sauce for the goose a horse of a different color?

Have her try that shoe on the other foot - see how it feels to her.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 4:23pm

Joseph, I'm more hardcore than you and would tell her that I'm sorry, but I'm certain religion does a lot more harm than good, so I can't support her.  That's basically what I've told my family.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 2:25pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 2:03pm

Spud, I like Facebook because new information constantly arrives on my major interests, politics, economics and religion. I simply block anyone or thing in which I am not interested.

I want my story out there because I want people to understand family violence. Not being seen, and people having so many myths about it, I want rich/poor, educated/uneducated, dominant/submissives to know the harm that comes from socialized behaviors, and I want victims to know they don't have to be victims.

It seems even some brutes read my stuff and some get violent with me and others ask me questions. My skin is so tough, most bad stuff just bounces off and makes me more determined to tell my story!  

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 1:54pm

I think I will close my G+ page.  I never use it.

 

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