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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by k.h. ky on August 27, 2016 at 7:38pm
Another notice for jury duty.
Comment by k.h. ky on August 27, 2016 at 7:37pm
Joan being atheist in a family full of fundies automatically makes me the problem child :)
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 7:16pm

Kathy, that is funny, asking to be the problem child! Do you realize I will be out there, giving you lectures and trying to reason with you? My kids hate it! They tell me if it is lecture # 101.12 or lecture #299.99.

Comment by k.h. ky on August 27, 2016 at 7:03pm
Carl, they (med staff ) always pull a sheet between me and whatever they're working on. I must look like a fainter : )
Joan, happy the surgery worked for you. That's wonderful.
Randall, congrats on the run.

Carl, if Joan and Ruth are the matriarchs can I be the problem child?? The sister that is troubled because she believes in the flying spaghetti monster.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 27, 2016 at 6:43pm

Randy, that's a great accomplishment.  Congrats!

Joan, when I had a muscle biopsy earlier this year I decided I wanted to put on my big boy pants and watch the procedure.  However, the staff made me turn my head and not look.  They even put up a barrier sheet.  The possibly of me fainting or freaking out was something they didn't wish to contend with if they could avoid it. I guess I can't blame them.  At least there was dialog between us for the duration of the procedure with explanations and updates. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 5:58pm

Spud, thank you for the lead to the story of Katharine Blodgett Gebbie; she was quite a remarkable woman. I am particularly interested in learning that four of the scientists under her leadership earned Nobel Prizes. 

Thanks for the lead. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 27, 2016 at 5:07pm

I appreciate the good news about your surgery Joan.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 5:04pm

Congratulations, Randy. That is a marvelous feat, and I bet you will be running for another 20 years. Those who keep running seem to run until they "square the morbidity curve"! 

What part of you takes the most wear and tear as you run all that distance? Did you celebrate afterwards, and what does celebration look like for you? 

Comment by Qiana-Maieev on August 27, 2016 at 5:03pm

Good to hear, Joan. Glad you brought us up to date.

Continued good recovery.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 4:58pm

Oh! My Gosh! The surgery went so well I failed to write about it. Not one instance of pain, no aches, just a big bandage that I can take off but I am doing some chores and don't want to break the wound open. 

Covered, except for a tiny hole through which the surgeon did his magic, he did his "slit, slash, blood, and gore"  task.  Before he closed me up, he had the nurse take my "tent" off so I could see the incision. No blood, just a tiny little hole where he showed me the muscles, tendons, and whatever else was under the incision. Then, the nurse covered me again, he sewed me up and bandaged me with what looks like a very impressive wound, and I came home. No pain even now! The surgery itself only took 15 minutes. It was all the prep work that took up most of the day. 
I am getting some circulation into my fingers; my fingernails turned pink. I have trouble typing because of the bulk on my hand but no discomfort. 

I'll have my right hand done Sept 12.

Laura told me carpel tunnel syndrome surgery is the latest fad; it may be a fad, but it feels so good to begin to have the feeling return in my fingers again. 

Thanks for asking, Qiana and Carl.

Carl, I love the concept of being a matriarch. The best part of it is I have a longer memory than most people, and I can remember wash tubs, boiling water on the stove, wringing out hot sudsy laundry and hanging wet fabric on a clothesline. I also remember the task of going to the forest to cut wood, bringing it home and while the men cut it into pieces to fit the stove the women prepared a huge meal. That was very festive to me, but I would not go back to that unless I just had to. 

I am most grateful for having lived this long so that I can have access to all kinds of information; I can do the kind of research that is fun, not the old routine of sitting in a library with stacks of books around me trying to follow a thread.  

I also love economics, and it is easy to follow lines of thought and learn new ways to collect and analyze data. 

Gardening is still the love of my life even as there are things I no longer can do. 

Carl, feeling happy and content is just about the best thing I can feel; your happiness and contentment pleases me greatly. 

 

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