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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Randall Smith on December 19, 2014 at 10:00am

In the words of Rick Perry, "Oops".

Thanks for the info, Joan.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2014 at 3:23pm

Paricia, as I understand it from Wiki,

Sagan was married three times. 

1957, married biologist Lynn Margulis, mother of Dorion Sagan and Jeremy Sagan

1968 married artist Linda Salzman mother of Nick Sagan.

1981, Sagan married author Ann Druyan, mother of Alexandra Rachel (Sasha) Sagan and Samuel Democritus Sagan. Sagan and Druyan remained married until his death in 1996.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2014 at 3:14pm

Sören Olsson on Gothenburg Book Fair 2007, Sören Olsson på Bok- och biblioteksmässan 2007

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2014 at 2:51pm

I invite my "Hang with Friends" to join "Origins: Universe, Life, Humankind, and Darwin" where Dr. Terence Meaden leads another fine group of writers. A current discussion occurs there based on "The Bible is not Great by Soren Sagan". 

Sagan tells the story of why the bible and religion spew out toxins. 

I toured Turkey, Greece and Crete with Riane Esler and Marija Gimbutas. During lectures at each site, Riane and Marja stressed that the opposite of patriarchy and the dominator society is not matriarchy and dominance but partnership. There exists a very different language between the styles, a different organizational design, and different values.   

We have to understand the matrix into which into which we enter the world and define and create a pattern of preference.   

Riane Eisler, in her earlier book, The Chalice and the Blade, speaks of the shift from matrilineal social structures of the Neolithic Age to patriarchal rule of the Bronze Age.

Her later book, The Real Wealth of Nations: Creating a Caring Economics defines wealth in terms other than money. 

The Power of Partnership describes why partnership creates a more powerful way to work as a community than working alone or as a cog in the wheel. 

We now can see our history in precise terms defined in ways other than religion, and a plan to create a healthier, more responsible way of perceiving humankind and our place in the universe. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on December 18, 2014 at 12:30pm

Welcome, Soren.

Comment by Soren Sagan on December 18, 2014 at 11:31am

Hi Randal! Soren Sagan is my pen name. I used Sagan in my name because I am a big fan of him.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 18, 2014 at 10:47am

Glad to hear your good news Carl.

Comment by Pat on December 18, 2014 at 8:27am

Randall, I did book one about 5 years ago. One of the best getaways I've ever been to. I'm just concerned that the place will get overrun with KFC's, McDonalds and Burger Kings. Glad I saw it before that happens.

Then again, who am I to bitch. They've got as much right to obesity and type 2 diabetes as any red (and cholesterol thick) blooded American.

Comment by Randall Smith on December 18, 2014 at 8:03am

Soren, son of Carl?!! I had no idea. What an honor to have you join us!  Again, welcome!

Has anybody booked a flight to Havanna yet?! Can you believe those myopic Republicans?

Comment by Pat on December 18, 2014 at 6:04am

Glad to hear that Carl.

 

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