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Discussion Forum

...but intelligent people believe in God (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller 3 hours ago. 0 Replies

A ridiculous claim should be recognized as such as a matter of course, shouldn't it?  Shouldn't It?!?  What happens if that claim is so imbued and integrated into society over hundreds if not thousands of years that it has been taken as TRUTH…Continue

Tags: religion, indoctrination, ridiculous claim

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jan 31. 66 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

Tags: Lesbian, agnostic, gay, atheist, TheraminTrees

If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

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Comment by Loren Miller on August 21, 2015 at 7:52am

Randall, most of the time when pianists appear as soloists, at least to my experience with The Cleveland Orchestra (I have a six-concert subscription), they play from memory as well.  Worth note: most works for piano and orchestra run a LOT longer, too!

Comment by Randall Smith on August 21, 2015 at 7:35am

Great! And they're playing by memory--no music! 

Comment by Loren Miller on August 21, 2015 at 7:04am

So ... it's Friday morning and the coffee hasn't kicked in yet?  Give THIS a try!

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 20, 2015 at 8:45am

Nice looking house Randy.  Is that a lightning rod on top, and one further down?

I've never been afraid of heights unless there was clear and present danger.  Even then, I usually keep my head and get down safely. 

Related to heights, the stupidest thing I did was decide to shovel snow off the church roof when I was church custodian.  It was higher than your house and my ladder just barely reached the start of the roof using a steep angle.  Getting on and off the roof was quite frightening, but I didn't fall, and at least I had a rope that I tied to me and the chimney once I was on top, so that I wouldn't slip on the snow.  Never did anything nearly that stupid again.

I've never had a huge panic attack, but I've had one or two mild ones related to social situations.

Comment by Randall Smith on August 20, 2015 at 8:06am

Leonard, on Big Bang Theory, did a great job of acting out a panic attack on an early episode (preparing for a date with Penny). Remember that one?

News on the home front: Got my chimney cleaned out yest. They said it was nearly clogged shut with creosote (I burn wood).

I used climb up on the steep roof and clean it out myself. But when I "froze" and couldn't step off onto the ladder, I said "that's the last time"! Took me 10 minutes to get down. Talk about a panic attack!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 19, 2015 at 12:37pm
I don't have panic attacks anymore since my heart surgery. Looking back I'm tending to think now that they never were actual panic attacks, but my body responding to my faulty heart valve and my chronically high blood pressure. My heart would start pumping fast, which alarmed me, only to cause more psychological unease and tention.
Comment by Plinius on August 19, 2015 at 11:09am

Is that usual for you, panic attacks? I'm not jealous.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 19, 2015 at 10:27am

In the past year I had a heart attack and didn't realize it at the time.  I thought it was just another panic attack.  It wasn't until tests were done months later that showed what really occurred.  

Comment by Plinius on August 19, 2015 at 10:13am

But she had a day when she couldn't move her legs, I think, and that looks like a stroke or a TIA.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 19, 2015 at 10:02am

Thanks Chris.  I agree Carl.  I wonder if she had strokes in months or years before, because her posts on here didn't show it to me.  She was sharp through her last post.

 

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