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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Nov 30. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Grinning Cat on February 19, 2014 at 12:17am

Felaine, what Carl said! Sending some hugs your way.... and it's great that Pumpkin is there for you!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 19, 2014 at 12:03am

Felaine, I hope you feel better soon.  Regarding Pumpkin, sometimes the best things come in small packages. 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 18, 2014 at 9:59pm

Joan, I started having gout episodes more than 20 years ago, but the last one was about 10 years ago...I kind of forgot about the dangers.  I cut out shrimp (LOVE them!) most fish, beef (except an occasional cheezburger...), chicken livers (sigh)...16 Bean Soup...and other things. 

BUT 3 weeks ago I was very sick and couldn't eat much of anything for about 5 days.  I needed something nutritious, but simple...found a can of beef broth in the cupboard, and heated up about a cup...went down nicely.  And a few days after that my feet started puffing up.  Like little boxing gloves.

I was disgusted with myself...I know better. 

Saw my doctor today, and she gave me a voucher for a FREE sample of 7 Colcrys tablets. (Supposed to dissolve the uric acid crystals so they can be flushed out of the bloodstream)) BUT there was no place to park near the pharmacy (the City was digging up the street out front), so there was a lot of telephoning, faxing,  and I ended up scanning the voucher and e-mailed that to the pharmacy.  They said no deliveries till tomorrow morning.  I'm taking aspirin, drinking lots of water, and waiting. for morning

It doesn't help that I have diabetic neuropathy in my feet...I either feel nothing at all, or extreme pain.  No in between.

And I'm bitching again.  Sorry.  I just don't tolerate pain very well. Cuddling up with my Pumpkin cat helps...he purrs like a motorboat.  Very soothing.  I just wish he was the size of a cougar so I could get my arms around him....actually he's undersized...15 years old, and looks like n adolescent cat.  Acts like one, too. I fell in love with him when he was a baby at the Cat Hotel.  Now he's MINE, all mine!  ;> )

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 18, 2014 at 9:07pm

Felaine, happy to learn of your sustained weight loss; good for you! 

No knowing anything about gout, I looked it up and found:

What Is Gout? What Causes Gout?

I'm sure you looked it up already, but just in case, there is a lot of information here. Have you fund anything that gives you relief? 

Would happily send you rain, but the prevailing winds won't cooperate. 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 18, 2014 at 5:56pm

Please send snow, rain, wind, anything but drought to California! 

Now for the GOOD news...I've lost another 8 lbs...down to 145 for the first time since I can't remember when.  That's a total of  40 lbs I've lost in the last 2+ years without backsliding.

Now, if I could only get rid of this effing gout attack!!!!  My back surgery 4 years ago didn't hurt this much.  OWTCH!

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 18, 2014 at 12:57pm

Mindy, glad to learn the MRI gave god news. I do hope the cause is found. At least a differential diagnosis is a beginning. 

You must have received our snow clouds. We had a beautiful snow dump one day - gone the next. Ground is almost clear now. We expect more snow tonight. And wind. 

Comment by Steph S. on February 18, 2014 at 11:45am

Napoleon - those are very cool images - thanks

Comment by Steph S. on February 18, 2014 at 11:44am

Thank you Joan for the season changes celebration calendar

Comment by Loren Miller on February 18, 2014 at 11:22am

Something I stumbled onto on YouTube and thought was worth sharing:

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 17, 2014 at 11:47pm

These scenes fill me with awe, even as I understand the implication of the events. Interesting to see the gas guzzler hummer photo below. Do we not realize what we are doing to ourselves? 

 

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