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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on June 16, 2013 at 11:31pm

Ian, thank you for the "Box of Sunshine;" I really needed it today for a lot of reasons.  

So...I hope this cheers everyone up the way it did me when I saw it in the newspaper:

'Ride of the Valkyries' rouses Caltech students for finals

In a long-standing ritual, residents at one of Caltech's dorms wake to Wagner's score during their stressful finals season.  


Comment by Ian Mason on June 16, 2013 at 10:51pm

Patricia, that is REAL pain. I felt like that a couple of years ago when I had (thanks to bad dentistry) continually infected teeth/abcesses. I was ready to take a pair of pliers and pull the things out myself. Glad that life is better for you now.

It's not been Fathers' Day in Denmark but I don't hear from my daughter when it is (5th June) Too many years of being a terrible father when I drank.

The bad news keeps on coming: the daughter of some good friends has taken her own life. In her early 30s, she had suffered from schizophrenia since her early teens. In her good periods she was a happy, smiling, caring young woman but in the end the delusions and the voices of the increasingly long bad periods were too much. Will be visiting her parents this evening along with some others. I hope we can be of some use.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 16, 2013 at 9:53pm

Patricia, your experience sounds dreadful. Did you know you had the option to have surgery earlier? I can't even imagine being in so much pain for so long. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 16, 2013 at 8:59pm
My strategy is working. Much better tummy; Wish other aches and pains for each one of you is as easy to get control of.
Mindy, hope your mini-vacation is restful even though the drive of five hours + does sound like a lot of sitting. If I remember correctly, the drive from your area to Wisconsin is a pretty drive.
Ian, a nice bright greeting from you with sunshine feels good. Hope your Father's day was very special.
Chris, really sorry to learn of your pain. Does being active help? I haven't had that problem so looked it up at It appears to be dreadful and especially after reading Patricia's comment. Do take care, both of you.
Comment by Ian Mason on June 16, 2013 at 3:31pm

Thank you, Mindy.

Hope your strategy works for you, Joan.

To the cinema for the second evening in a row. This time "Song for Marion" with Terence Stamp, Vanessa Redgrave and others. A pensioners' choir that sings Motorhead and hip-hop! Another life-afirming British film about ordinary people. Sad and sweet.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 16, 2013 at 3:05pm
My strategy for today is to go back to WebMD Soluble Fibers: "Sources of soluble fiber: oatmeal, oat cereal, lentils, apples, oranges, pears, oat bran, strawberries, nuts, flaxseeds, beans, dried peas, blueberries, psyllium, cucumbers, celery, and carrots."
Thanks Ruth!
Comment by Ian Mason on June 16, 2013 at 6:01am

Comment by Ian Mason on June 16, 2013 at 5:45am

Thanks for the good wishes and I hope everyone's aches and pains improve.

Mindy, I know from experience that the right kind of company at the right time can help with depression. I hope things go well for your daughter.

Just had the news that a former "drink-and-depression period" woman friend commited suicide last year. The last few times I spoke with her, about 4 years ago, I tried to tell her how much sobriety had helped me but it didn't sink in. Very sad.

Comment by Plinius on June 16, 2013 at 1:55am

I'm glad they had an operation that worked for you! I only have very narrow channels in the bone for the nerves to pass through - too much salt or too much stress and the nerve begins to scream for lack of space.

Comment by Plinius on June 16, 2013 at 1:31am

Thanks Patricia! I wasn't on the floor much, but I used a lot of painkillers and I forced myself to move as much as possible, but I kept my mouth shut - certain that I'd say something nasty at a slight provocation.


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