Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 5:03pm

I just checked the phone, and it's working now, but it feels like another storm is on the way.  Bog know we need the rain, but I think I need to do something about contacting the police or fire dept if we ever need to.  WITHOUT BUYING A DAMNED CELL PHONE! 

(I worked in the accounting office of a retail electronics store when cell phones were just becoming smaller and slightly lighter than a brick...the Motorola Flip Phone was the first one....and I swore 'd never buy one. I still find cell/text phone users annoying; they seem to live in a different world.  One that they are the center of.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 5:00pm

Felaine, do you have neighbors close by that you could get to in case of problems? You have a lot of responsibility taking care of your sister and having to carrying the load for the two of you. 

The neighborhood had an agreement with an elderly neighbor that lived next door to me. If she needed help, she would put a little flag out. Well, she needed help and couldn't get the flag out. Bummer!

Another thing we have in Spokane, the mailperson is to keep track if the mail isn't picked up regularly. 

I can't think of any other alternatives. Anyone come up with an idea? 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 1:52pm

Joan, I get emails (I suppose all A/N members do) when anyone posts something to a discussion I have joined, or posted to.  I have seen NOTHING from Patricia in several weeks. 

At first I thought it was because I couldn't get at my email for nearly a month....I still haven't read or deleted everything that came in during that time.  Yahoo Mail is not the easiest thing to deal with.

Now we are having weather "fun."  It finally rained a little last night, and I'm getting nothing but static when I pick up the phone (we have ONE land-line.  Period.  Can't afford an additional cell phone account.)  Squirrels and birds chew holes in the insulation around the outside (copper) wires, then water seeps in when it rains, and we have to wait for the phone company to install new wires, or for the sun to come out and dry everything.... till the next storm comes along.  It's been overcast all morning, but I see a bit of blue sky to the east now.

I guess my DSL, or whatever it is, still works because those lines are fiberglass.  I don't really know. 

If one of us gets sick or injured, there's NO WAY we can contact the city emergency services unless we go looking for a neighbor who has a cell phone.  There is NO setup for emergency emails.  But the city keeps raising the rates for everything.

I'm feeling somewhat abandoned right now.  I can email my cousins and their adult children in Arizona, but I can't phone anybody for help if I need it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 12:47pm

Mindy, Patricia and I have had several discussions about my writing about the grim science of economics and politics on this site because she needed and wanted uplifting things to read. I agreed to post my comments on other sites so that she wouldn't have to read these things. 

I don't like the woo-woo aspect of the Pollyanna kind of writing and I can easily ignore it when/if it occurs. A positive attitude in the face of dirty religion and politics is not my cup of tea. I do agree with her point that we need to have a safe place to relax and enjoy life. She and my daughter would agree totally to that. I can accommodate on that point.

In the meantime, my vitriol gets dumped on other sites. I'm really happy with that arrangement.

My concern is that I may have overstepped our agreement. I hope not.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 11:59am

Randy, four adult children and their children, together in one place at the same time !!!! What a joy! I hope your time together is full of lovin', talk'n, eat'n, rememberin', imaginin', and all that stuff that goes on at such a gathering. 

I love to look at the youngest of the tribe and try to imagine what their lives will be like when they are the same age as we. 

Would love to see a photo of your clan. Happy Family'n. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 11:39am

Carl, I have not heard from her in a long time, too. Thank you for noticing and calling this to our attention. Her name doesn't come up in the membership list. Perhaps someone else can find it.  I sent her an email just now and hoped she and her husband are well and invited her to tell us if she continued to be annoyed with my negativity. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 11:36am

Mindy, I was able to retrieve your photo from the mail box. I like it and I am going to re-post here so my friends can see it. Thanks you Mindy! 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 1, 2014 at 10:41am

Hello to everyone!

Randy, sounds like a really fun family gathering.  My family was all together back on July 4 for a rare appearance as one complete group.  Everyone was in Chicago from all points coast to coast:  California, Washington, Florida, Virginia, and Pennsylvania.  We all get along very well also.  Enjoy your time together!

No trick or treaters here yesterday.  The weather was NASTY.  I have a full bag of candy all to myself.  Smarties candies. 

Does anyone know what happened to Patricia?  She's disappeared. 


Comment by Randall Smith on November 1, 2014 at 7:44am

I'm looking forward to seeing all four of my adult children and grandchildren together again this coming week. Two are coming from Calif., one from Honduras. The fourth lives here. They're coming today! They all get along great and will have a wonderful time together, I'm sure. I just wish their mother (my ex of 25 yrs) wasn't ubiquitously around. (She's currently living with my local daughter.) She drives everybody crazy (because she's crazy). Nevertheless, we'll all enjoy a rare gathering time. We'll do "Thanksgiving" early, beating the rush!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 1:58am


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