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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 24. 9 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by kathy: ky on September 7, 2014 at 4:12pm
I've signed my drivers license to be an organ donar ever since ky made it an option many years ago.
I wish more people would. My daughter does the same thing.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 7, 2014 at 11:51am

My many thanks to everyone here for all your supportive words and thoughts.  I'm quite moved.  I can't ask for more than to have a group of cheerleaders in my corner rooting for me from miles and miles away.  Thanks so much. 

Joan, I will be making a phone call this week to start the transplant process.  This is all new to me, and I don't know the timeframe or any procedures.  I'm just going with the flow and hoping it goes smoothly.  I have an excellent kidney specialist that I've been seeing who makes me feel very comfortable and confident. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 7, 2014 at 10:21am

Carl, so sorry to hear you have to go through this. I'm glad you have a positive and supportive family situation. You're very lucky for that.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 7, 2014 at 7:39am

Patricia, the message is pure gold. But I'm confused as to why it's on a church board. Who's responsible?

Ian, I was having trouble with the letters being cut off. Seems okay today.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2014 at 1:21am

Carl, a huge blow! You are young, you have good living habits, you have a strong constitution and a strong family. Yes, challenges. So, when does the program begin? 

We are here for you through good and bad. You know we walk this walk with you. 

 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 7, 2014 at 1:13am

Sorry to hear about your problem, Carl. Great that your family is rallying round to support and help. I hope that the dialysis goes smoothly. It can be rather time-consuming so if you haven't read "War and Peace" yet, now could be the time to start.

That sound like a really pleasant evening, Mindy. Glad you enjoyed it.

Yes, as a new column starts the problem seems to have gone and everything is readable.

I have a week's holiday now and decided not to go anywhere. I will make an attempt to give my flat a good, thorough clean and do the final training for a ½ marathon on the 21st of this month so there's enough to do.

Have a fine Sunday, all of you.

Comment by Plinius on September 7, 2014 at 1:00am

Quite some news, Carl, I imagine you had to try a few times before you could talk so easily about it. I hope many people wear a donor codicil over there. I always have my codicil with me, but I'm still careful when crossing the road. I'm very glad that that you feel good and have family in the neighbourhood! 

Comment by kathy: ky on September 7, 2014 at 12:24am
Carl, you'll be fine. If there's anything, etc... I'm here for you. It's at times like this we know how lucky we are to have family.
If I'm a match do you think l could get a trip to Chicago out of it.? Naw, they would probably take my kidney and fly IT to you. Lol
Comment by Idaho Spud on September 6, 2014 at 3:01pm

Very sorry for your bad news Carl, but glad you have family that cares.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 6, 2014 at 2:59pm
Hello, Friends.

Well, yesterday was a big day. I got the results of my kidney biopsy. Not really good news.... I have a disease called IgA Nethropathy with has caused lots of scarring. Currently my kidneys are functioning at 15% which means I am now to start the process on planning for a kidney transplant. Hopefully that can happen soonner rather than later. If the wait period is long, I'm looking at having to do dialysis three times a week. As a result, I wouldn't be able to do travel and do my job.

I have a long and thoughtful process ahead of me to think about. I'm feeling fairly good and am being extraordinarily taken care of by my family. Several family members have come forward to express their desire to donate a kidney for me. I'm extremely grateful and moved by that pure gesture of love.

All I can do now is to follow doctor's instructions and to rely on their expertice at hand. Odds are for a successful outcome!
 

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