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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 2, 2014 at 11:57am

Love the cat photo, Mindy.  Beautiful, cute, artistic, introspective.  It's a fantastic picture on several different levels.   

Comment by sk8eycat on March 2, 2014 at 11:20am

Mindy, That's a double-AWWWWWWWW! 

Comment by Plinius on March 2, 2014 at 11:18am

I love that picture, Mindy! Almost as if I see my younger self, and yes, I loved cats from the moment I met one when I was three.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 2, 2014 at 1:11am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NaEfU47QY_k

The guy on the left was one of the floor directors at KCET when I worked there back in the 1970s & early '80s.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 2, 2014 at 1:00am

Yeah...everything in SoCal is paved over, so the water goes into the storm drains, and from there to the ocean...which doesn't need any more H2O.  It also helps over-fill swimming pools; I haven't checked ours today.  If the rain goes on long enough, it does soak into the ground and causes mudslides...especially where brush fires have burned away all the plant life. 

This is really a desert...not fit for so many people to be packed together, and certainly not fit for so many roads and giant parking lots.  Public transportation sux.  You can't get anywhere from here without changing buses 2 or 3 times. Or spending a small fortune on cabs. I quit driving when I could no longer feel anything with my feet.  Seemed like the sensible thing to do at the time.

We do have a light rail network, but you still have to take a cab, or drive and park at the stations. 

I have a friend in DC who can walk half a block to the Metro, and get to places like the Kennedy Center or the Veterans Hospital, and/or just about anyplace he wants to go. And the rent in his Seniors Only building (quite new, and very nice) is adjusted according to his income. 

I could use a place like that!  There are several good places here in town.  Except if we have to sell this house, I don't want to be anywhere near it afterwards...I don't ever want to see what any new owners would do to the place...like bulldoze the house AND the trees. (We moved here in 1945....except for when I had my own apartments, this has been my home.  It's been my Aspie/autistic sister's ONLY  home since she was 6 months old.)

Oh, what to do?????  I'd love to move to BC. but don't have the money, and I'm sure Canadians are very tired of all of us ex-pats .... Except for "names" like writer Spider Robinson who became a citizen about 10 years ago. (Lives on Bowen Island, and has published some sharp remarks about privatizing the ferry service.).

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 2, 2014 at 12:58am

Good to hear from you Patricia.  Sorry you're having some issues to deal with.  I hope your condition improves quickly for you.  I understand not being able to take your computer into the "library" with you.  Perhaps you may be interested in purchasing one of these.......

Comment by sk8eycat on March 1, 2014 at 11:27pm

Patricia, my former (retired) doctor told me a LONG time ago that Tylenol, or any acetaminophen (SP?), is practically useless for most women.  Nobody knows why, it just is.
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What a weekend!  I got the rain I wanted, and now I have no phone (land line only...I hate cell phones)  This has happened twice in the past 50 years.  The damn squirrels chew the insulation on the overhead wires, and then when we get a good rainstorm, the exposed lines short out.  Half of SoCal seems to be having the same problem. Friends have emailed me that they can't get through to the repair service lines because they are so busy they're putting calls on hold forever.

I'm p*$$ed at the phone co. for not keeping an eye on the condition of the lines....the last time this happened my mother was still alive, but in very frail health...and NO INTERNET!  I think I can get in touch with the fire dept and EMTs via internet, but I'm not sure. Don't know about the police, either.  So if some thug breaks in the house, do we just sit here?  I don't think either Pumpkin or Fred are attack cats.

And I just paid the extortionate phone/DSL bill.  AAAACK!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 1, 2014 at 2:03pm

I was just thinking.....we haven't heard from Patricia lately.  I hope all is well with her. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 1, 2014 at 2:01pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 1, 2014 at 12:42pm

Great comic Ian.

 

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