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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat 8 hours ago. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Idaho Spud on February 1, 2014 at 11:03am

No, Mindy, I don't think you did mention the results from searing your heart monitor were normal, and didn't mention the results from wearing it either : )

In any case, it's good news, and I'm glad for you.

Comment by Plinius on February 1, 2014 at 12:51am

Good morning! Such strong people you are when experiencing embarrassing health problems!

Brother-in-law went to a convalescent home to learn a lot of things all over again, like walking. We are still working in his packed apartment, cleaning out the Augean stable to find the scaredy cat. When we find her, she will go to animal care, it is impossible to put her with our cats.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 1, 2014 at 12:03am

Good to get your news Mindy! And a good weekend to you and all on A/N. 

sk8eycat , interesting groupings. I can recognize some; we are predictable are we not?! 

Patricia, clever creation story. It makes as much sense as the garden version. 

Carl, how you doing? You have been working hard, I suspect; and I miss you when you aren't chiming in. 

Napoleon, repeat after me, "theology is nonsense". 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 31, 2014 at 10:16pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 31, 2014 at 9:23pm

I don't know about the chemistry of the brain; I am sure the fMRI reveals far more than we can notice in our own thought processes. I do know that laughter is a great response to people and events of life. Bring on the beta endorphins 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 31, 2014 at 6:16pm

So here's something I just found in my e-mails.  I don't "do" FB, so I don't get all of them, but some of y'all might:

TYPES OF PEOPLE ON FACEBOOK:

1) The "Rooster" – Feels that it is their job to tell Facebook "Good
Morning" every day !


2) The "Lurker" – Never posts or comments on your post, but reads
everything, and might make reference to your status if they see
you in public.

3) The "Hyena" – Doesn't ever really say anything, just LOLs and
LMAOs at everything.


4) "Mr/Ms Popular" – Has 4,367 friends for NO reason

5) The "Gamer" – Plays Words With Friends, Mafia Wars, Bakes
virtual cakes and stuff, etc., ALL DAY.)

6) The "Cynic" – Hates their life, and everything in it, as evidenced by
the somber tone in ALL of their status updates.

7) The "Collector" – Never posts anything either, but joins every
group and becomes fans of the most random stuff.

8.The "Promoter" – Always sends event invitations to things that you
ultimately delete or ignore.

9) The "Liker" – Never actually says anything, but always clicks the
"like" button.

10) "Drama Queen/ King" – This person always posts stuff like "I
can't believe this!", or "They gonna make me snap today!", in
the hopes that you will ask what happened, or what's wrong but
then they never finish telling the story.

11) The "News" – Always updates you on what they are doing and who
they are doing it with, no matter how arbitrary, and Lastly . . .

12) The "Thief" – Steals status updates... and will probably steal
this one...
Comment by sk8eycat on January 31, 2014 at 6:14pm

I love this place!  Where else can one exhibit art, rant about late life devolution back to physical infancy, and the need for adult diapers. AND LAUGH about it all!  We laugh because life is painful....it causes a release of beta endorphins in the brain to relieve the pain.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 31, 2014 at 4:54pm

Spud, the issue is, do you want to talk about your experiences or not. If you do, I can't think of a better place to rant and refresh. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 31, 2014 at 4:51pm

Mindy, let's do a little brainstorming here. Ways art can be used to financially support one:

Community art projects to replace graffiti with local children's art; 

Consult with clients about home decorations, clothing choices, color combinations, styles;

Write a children's book and use art work to illustrate it;

Do the artwork for an author; 

Arts and crafts exhibits take in local artists and craftspeople;

Write a grant to fund a community development plan to improve blighted areas;

Work to become an art's commissioner on municipal projects; 

Set up an arts web page where other artists can share ideas; 

Do animal portraits of the pets for wealthy people; 

Do summer art projects with camps or common gatherings; 

Create winter art projects with families; 

I surely haven't exhausted the options. Keep adding to it if a light goes off in any ones heads.

I want you to meet a very special woman who lives in Harrison, Idaho. She is a genius at color, form, texture and glass.  She is a struggling artist trying to make a living and about six years ago came very close to losing a foot because of cancer. She is on Facebook and a real delight. 

Rebecca York, these are just two examples you will find on her Facebook page. This is all done with glass. I have been to one of her shows and she is fantastic. she is in pain, somewhat disabled by her foot, bright as a ray of sunshine, and loves life. She, too, has bouts of depression. 

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 31, 2014 at 4:22pm

sk8eycat, how horrible! It is being out of control that is so distressing to me! I want my life neat and tidy, with all the bells and whistles of the good life. Getting used to the new normal challenges us to use all our resources to rise above the messes our bodies create and get on with pure, unadulterated joy of living. 

I am sorry to learn of your morning episode and hope you feel healthy now. Nothing like doing a major clean up to get one's mind off the trials and tribulations of the world. 

Your are a super survivor turned thriver, sk8eycat. You turn life into laughter.

I would hate to be a pharmacist in this age, or a doctor, for that matter. It seems all the bright men went into finance and made fortunes - some lost them faster than they made them. The women go into medicine at a time of insurance turmoil; they not only have to fight health issues, they have to fight insurance companies as well.   

One has to be a Pollyanna to find the silver lining in the cloud out of all the turmoil, but it is worth the effort. Well, for me it is discovering my three children have their feet firmly planted on the ground and their heads are working as a wise adult would. My grandchildren seem to  be developing a strong sense of independence and a few are at the phase of knowing more about life than their parents or I do. They'll get over it. Life has a way of knocking cocky self-assurance into productive interdependence.  My great-grandchildren are at that full-of-wonder stage of discovering everything. 

So, all in all, life is worth hanging around and participating in. 

 

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