Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller 16 hours ago. 0 Replies

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 7, 2013 at 1:07pm
I understand the frustration with Facebook, and the way I handle it may or may not work for anyone else. Anyone who sends me one of those sappy stories about god's interventions, I write them and express my dislike for those obviously contrived, foolish stories, such as god kept my oil bottle full, god spared me from the ... whatever. Bull shit. The real fecal matter type of substance. I then tell them I am blocking them. My beloved cousins, my dear fiends, my neighbors, it doesn't matter who sends these cockamamie stories, they get a block. I don't like the "I'll pray for you" nonsense either, or "Trust in the Lord" delusions. I am 77 years old, and I don't want to read and hear any more self-deceptions.
What I do like to read and hear are expressions of care and compassion. Ideas offer alternative suggestions that may or may not help. If I haven't thought of something, and someone else offers the idea, we both benefit.
People can pray or trust in their created illusion all they want, but it didn't seem to help a lot of people in the tsunamis, earthquakes, volcnic eruptions, land slides, floods, tornadoes. It is so simple, "DOES IT WORK?" If yes, good for you, if no, too bad. Think about the threat and do something productive.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 7, 2013 at 12:02pm

Joseph, that has to be very frustrating when your facebook page looks like christian central.  I think I'd go off the deep end if I had to see that constantly. 

Comment by Joseph Corder on June 7, 2013 at 9:28am

You should see my facebook page.  Mine looks like christian central and hard right wingers!  The only redeeming quality on my page, is my connection to Dusty Smith's facebook feed (Cult of Dusty).  My wifes' side of the family is whacko!!  One of her cousins has a 7th grade education, 2 kids out of wedlock, eats dog food just so his farts stink!!  He posted a message on facebook, describing how he loved his pastors' sermons on Sunday.  He said,  Ain't god awsum!!  He actually misspelled awesome!!!  I guess he doesn't know how to use a spell checker !!

Comment by Angela on June 7, 2013 at 1:58am
Comment by sk8eycat on June 7, 2013 at 1:43am


Hey mom, why dontcha marry him? He asked to take da trash out...daily!

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 7, 2013 at 1:08am

@Patricia "June 5th, my 8th anniversary post mastectomy!!!!

This is such good news! Congratulations! You inspire me.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 7, 2013 at 12:21am

Lillie, I beg to differ that you can eat only a small piece of silk pie at a time.  :)

Comment by Lillie on June 6, 2013 at 10:50pm

French Silk pie is chocolate with the texture of silk, I guess. It is very rich so you can only eat a small piece at the time. At least, it lasts a little longer this way. lol.

Comment by Steph S. on June 6, 2013 at 11:08am

Flying Atheist I love your picture of the cat doing tricks.

So cute.

Comment by Steph S. on June 6, 2013 at 11:07am

How is everyone doing?

I am just studying for a test on Monday.

I hope you all are doing good.


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