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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Michael Penn Aug 16. 8 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Steven Weinberg on his anti-theism

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 2. 4 Replies

I like the sound of Steven Weinberg's voice. He has a calming impact on me as I rush to get my home of 41 years ready to sell and plan and put into motion the new garden at my daughter's home. My home is full o empty boxed quickly filling with the…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Idaho Spud on May 3, 2013 at 2:52pm

I'll also say Ugh to prayers, and restaurant prayers were embarrassing even when I was a believer!

Tony, I like the pipes also, but can do without the shoving.  The best part, of course, is the legs of the red-head. :)

Flying A, I agree with you and others about eliminating "friends" who are annoying and add nothing positive to my life.

Comment by Steph S. on May 3, 2013 at 5:43am

Comment by Steph S. on May 3, 2013 at 5:42am

I am so glad you liked the GIF Melinda. I thought it was so cute.

Life is short and you should fill it with people who bring good things to it.

I agree Flying Atheist - that is a good decision.

I also hate those holiday prayers - yuck.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 3, 2013 at 4:13am

Tony, that was fun :-D

Melinda, time well spent indeed. Always good to be here.

I don't get bothered by religious types in my daily life, especially after I stopped going to AA meetings. I did have a little discussion with a colleague recently who was a non-specific theist. She thought that the fact that scientists discovered things rather than inventing them was proof of a creator/designer. I was just a touch speechless and didn't pursue the point.

A fine day to you all.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 3, 2013 at 12:07am

Melinda, I second that!

... just smart for getting the most out of the short time we all have on this wonderous planet! I definitely feel that time spent here on Hang with Friends is time well spent!!!

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 2, 2013 at 11:29pm
Tony, the pipes are fun and lively.
Comment by tom sarbeck on May 2, 2013 at 11:24pm

Ugh, prayers. I'm an AmVets life member and was once the post treasurer. There were no opening or closing prayers then. When they started I stopped going to meetings. A few days ago I remarked to a post officer that members forget to go to church on Sunday and do their praying at post meetings. He chuckled.

About 15 years ago the newly-elected president of a residents council where I live appointed me to a post and I badgered him about the opening invocation. I told him I was a pagan and insisted on an occasional pagan invocation. The Xian members did the job for me. For three months a few people complained about the invocation at the previous month's meeting. Their complaints irritated the president so much that he asked the board to replace the invocation with a moment of silence. The board agreed and the invocation went away, never to return.

Comment by Tony Carroll on May 2, 2013 at 11:10pm

Don't know if anybody likes the pipes, but I do. Found this one particularly entertaining, and wanted to share with you all.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 2, 2013 at 9:24pm

Ugh!!  I hate sitting through a prayer in a restaurant.  Been there, done that several times.  It's embarrassing. 

Melinda/Felaine, about 10 or 11 years ago I made the conscious decision to cut myself off from and rid my life of people who had nothing positive to bring into my life or that I didn't enjoy being around.  I was tired of not getting anything good in return for the effort I put out.  Perhaps to some people that sounds selfish, but my life has been so much better and less stressful as a result.  I just hate drama, unless it's in a movie.  Although I'm a nice, friendly and cordial guy (if I may say so), I'm careful and choosy about who I bring into my inner circle.  You two have done the right thing. 

Comment by sk8eycat on May 2, 2013 at 7:11pm

That one phrase is so true:

"...Christians are some of the most hateful people I know..."

I must admit that one couple I've been close to since jr. high (I was a bridesmaid at the wedding in 1958) who are very sincere about being a Baptist minister and Mrs. Rev., but they are still a lot of fun, and they don't get in my face about my atheism. They like me for myself.  That's all I ask from anybody.

Well, the Rev. does one thing that makes me feel awkward, when we have an informal reunion at the hamburger place where we used to hang out, he insists (doesn't ask) on ad libbing a sermon-length prayer while the fries get cold.  I refuse to bow my head, but I've never started eating while he's putting on his little show,  Maybe next time....

Oh, and they are very proud of being friends with Beverly and Tim LaHaye (of "Left Behind" fame)....and even though the Rev is retired, he still travels and substitutes at churches that need a temp.  And they never have to worry about where their next burgers and fries (and malts) will come from....

 

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