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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2013 at 2:53am

Ruth, you wrote, "my fingers snapped down". That must have been awful and felt weird. I have never heard of that situation. Did it take long to permanently get them back into normal position again and did it hurt? I've seen people with arthritis that causes the fingers to bend over. Was arthritis involved? I am really sorry to hear about your experience; do you know what caused it and is there anything you can do to prevent it from happening again? Is there a name for the condition? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2013 at 12:56am

Talking about exposure, I had a PET/CT scan today and was told to not come within 10 feet of any pregnant woman or nursing baby for 24 hours because of having radiation isotopes in my body. 

Laura and I usually go out to lunch after a procedure but didn't want to be near someone who might be harmed by my radiation. So Laura got take out on our way home and rested assured we had not unknowingly caused any harm. 

The procedure was interesting ... I wonder how these devices were ever thought up. In any even, I am grateful. 

It looked a little like this one: 

PET/CT Scanner

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2013 at 12:40am

sk8eycat, A case of exhibitionist, show-off, flaunter, grandstander, flasher, and braggart! Not a very neighborly way to retell a myth.  

Comment by Ian Mason on December 17, 2013 at 11:37pm

Agree with you there, Patricia. Outdoor lighting that's on all night? How wierd! These people's electric meters must be close to exploding. And yes, I think I've caught a few colds from being stuck in a metal tube with 200+ other people for a hours.

Got back yesterday from a long weekend in England. Saturday was my step-Mum's 90th birthday and a bunch of us went out for lunch. She was pleased to tears. I just plain relaxed with family the rest of the time. Very nice too :-)

Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2013 at 10:59pm

Xmas display, or epilepsy trigger?  (Bet this guy's neighbors wish he'd move somewhere else, even though he IS a computer genius)

 
 
 
Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 17, 2013 at 10:55pm

Ruth, glad to hear your medical issue was (relatively) minor.  I seem to be at that age where little medical issues seem to pop up more frequently.  I guess I'm "middle-aged."  I not in that mind-set, though (which I suppose is a good thing) but I know that I have more years behind me than ahead for me. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 17, 2013 at 10:43pm

Patricia, actually I think I'm more susceptible to colds and flu from being in such close quarters with other people inside an airplane cabin and from picking up their trash than from changing climates.  I'm constantly washing my hands.  I also get a flu shot every year.  Just the other day a passenger came to the back of the plane to use the lavatory.  I could tell by looking at her that she wasn't feeling well.  I struck up a conversation with her as I thought she might be airsick, as I wanted to help her.  She readily admitted that she thought she had the flu.  It's just impossible to control what you're exposed to on an airplane. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 17, 2013 at 10:03pm

With Laminectomy stories and other serious illnesses, I feel as if I got off easy this week. One of my fingers snapped down and wouldn't straighten out. On medical advice I got it opened up an hour later, after soaking in hot water, and splinted it till I saw the orthopedist. By now the steroid injection has worked, and the ache from that is gone too. No more splint needed. Whew! One trigger finger is as nothing compared to what many of you went through.

Still, it was scary. I'm so lucky to live in an age where treatment is possible.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 17, 2013 at 9:54pm

Hi, Steph.  Trying to stay warm with these cold, cold temperatures and additional snow here in Illinois.  Had the pleasure of some warm weather the other night when I spent a night in Tampa.  72-degrees and swaying palm trees.  Nice!  Los Angeles was gorgeous as well.  That's one of the great perks of my job.  It goes both ways, though.  I've spent many miserably hot times in Miami and Washington DC in the sweltering August heat.  

Hope you are well, Steph.       

Comment by Steph S. on December 17, 2013 at 9:20pm

Good to know you are Felaine!!! Sorry to hear about your name mixups you had. How is everyone doing this week?

 

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