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Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

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I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 26, 2013 at 9:59pm

Patriarchal religions require dominance of male authority. 

When I travelled through Turkey, Greece, and Crete with Marija Gimbutas and Riane Eisler, they revealed that there was no evidence of a matriarchy in ancient times of the Neolithic to match patriarchy. Women were perceived as having special powers of bleeding and not dying, bearing and suckling children, and were wisdom keepers. 

Gimbutas, in her archeology digs near Thessaly, Greece, digging through layers of earth representing a period of time before contemporary estimates for Neolithic habitation in Europe — where other archaeologists would not have expected further finds — she unearthed a great number of artifacts of daily life which she researched and documented throughout her career."

"After a millennium when the Hun Empire collapsed, a distinct Slavic culture re-emerged and spread rapidly.""Neither Bulgars nor Avars colonized the Balkan Peninsula, after storming Thrace, Iilyria and Greece they went back to their territory north of the Danube. It was the Slavs who did the colonizing.[11]"

~ Marija Gimbutas

Obviously, patriarchal religions deny this and delude others into thinking female leaders assumed the same power as male leaders. 
Both Gimbutas and Eisler had their detractors, even among academics. Who can one trust as an archeologist? To whom does one go for authoritative evidence, patriarchal archaeologists or evidence based ones? 

Comment by sk8eycat on December 26, 2013 at 8:38pm

I meant to post this earlier today, but got involved with other stuff (trying to find a ride to HEAP "Home Energy Assistance Program," and similar things.)

Anyway,,,,

British Kitteh observes Bocksing Day

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 26, 2013 at 7:27pm

This is your death: Excellent!  Thanks Grinning Cat.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 26, 2013 at 6:53pm

This is your death - good one! Thanks Grinning Cat.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 26, 2013 at 4:51pm

Mindy, great image of a true believer "waiting on Jesus".

Ian, that's funny.

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 26, 2013 at 3:51pm

That's a good one!

Might anyone here recall an SF short story I'm vaguely remembering, where a world's dominant religion looks a lot like the Catholicism we know -- except priests must be women, the bearers and givers of life; and receiving the sacrament means licking the priest's menstrual blood from its source?

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 26, 2013 at 3:05pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 26, 2013 at 2:08pm

Waiting on Jesus....great photo.  Thanks, Mindy.

Just throwing this out here.....I think my aunt, my father's sister who lives in the state of Washington, may have outed herself as a non-believer.  She sent me an email (which she never does) and signed it, "Happy Solstice."

Things that make you go, "Hmm." 

I'm enjoying some time away from work as of today.  I spent the past five days, the 21st through the 25th, dealing with the Xmas travelers.  TONS of families, kids, and once-a-year travelers.  I love my job, but it was fairly trying at times.  Good thing I have (dare I say) the patience of a Saint.  lol  The kids were mostly great.....and cute.  It was the stressed out parents and adults who acted like jerks.  I came home last night exhausted.  I'm lucky I had fun coworkers with me.  We did a lot of laughing. 

Comment by Loren Miller on December 26, 2013 at 12:35pm

Premium stuff, GC!  Thanks for posting it!

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 26, 2013 at 12:27pm

Yes! Mindy's pic also reminded me of the tract parody "This Is Your Death".

 

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