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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2014 at 10:57pm

I wanted to explain some of the history of Culver, but it would have taken too much time and space...one small example is that Tai Babilonia and Randy Gardner trained there before and after they became US and World Pairs Champions, and several of my friends from Holiday (and before) taught there.  It's one of the "homier" ice rinks in SoCal. 

There's a big rink here in Burbank, but they are so snotty about who is allowed to teach there that most people don't bother with the place.  They want ALL their teachers/coaches to have national titles at the very least, whether they have the ability to teach and encourage kids or not. Plus they are nervous, even after all these years, about skin color. Can You imagine that?!  Culver has NEVER cared about color...except the color of money. Which they are still raking in. It's the landlords, who don't even live in California, who want to try condos or a (money-losing) mall.

After all these years, and all the champions and ice show stars who have come out of that rink, the place should be declared some sort of cultural/sports landmark.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2014 at 9:12pm

PLEASE spread this around ASAP:

You know I rarely send petitions to friends, but this one is important to ME.  The people that own the land that Culver Ice Arena is on want to get rid of it, and build condos, or something equally stupid.  After 52 years, there is so much permafrost under the rink that if/when they cut off the refrigeration, they'll end up with a useless swamp.
Please read the petition, and if you are so inclined, sign it Monday before 6PM Pacific Time..
Thanks!
Felaine, aka La Bruja del Hielo

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/990/371/335/save-the-ice-rink-in-culver-city/

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2014 at 4:10pm

I don't know if the kitten in that video was having a nightmare, or if dogs are dreaming when their paws twitch while they are asleep.

  In humans, we are paralyzed during REM sleep.  At least some of us are; I have had what are called "waking dreams" when I'm half awake, try to move or yell, and can't do anything for a minute or two till I'm fully awake.

(Had one episode where I heard something outside my bedroom window...probably an animal...my dreaming mind thought "prowlers!," and I tried to yell, just made incoherent noises...couldn't move, scared my sister half to death.  She called 911, but by the time the police and EMTs got here I was fully awake, and terribly embarrassed.)

Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 1:59pm

Vibes for (((((Molly))))) and for (((((Mindy))))) who has to take the hard decisions.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 12, 2014 at 11:45am

I didn't even know cats could get Alzheimer's.

It's good you found a more competent vet, Chris. I hate it when you go to a vet, or a human doctor, pay, and get no help.

Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 10:55am

I had two cats with Alzheimer's. In the end they both became unhappy, their voices sounded like calls for help. They were put to sleep before their lives became too difficult - that is, I hope that we understood them well enough and did the right thing. But you're never sure.

Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 10:03am

You must know that a healthy Bengal will demolish everything in sight when you do something he doesn't like. But when you go to the vet with a Bengal putting his head in your armpit for comfort, then he's really ill. So for his sake and for my neighbour's.... she loves her cats more than anything.

Comment by Plinius on January 12, 2014 at 12:37am

Yes, I'm the catsitter when my neighbour is on holiday. They are very special and intelligent cats. Two years ago Cicero ate a piece of a toy that caused stomach ache and I became convinced that he needed treatment. He agreed with that or he would never have stepped into his travel basket. He is a very strong cat and cannot be forced. The vet said that there was nothing wrong. We went to the vet and back again FOUR times and then to another vet. There he got the treatment he needed badly and was healthy when my neighbour came home. Now I get the special treatment: he always stops to talk to me and he's always happy to see me. This is my hero:

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2014 at 12:09am

Chris, you have actually known this breed! What a challenge. Do you cat sit them? 

Comment by Plinius on January 11, 2014 at 11:54pm

Such a wonderful video, Sk8eycat! I think we all want to be that kitten.

 

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