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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Daniel Wachenheim on August 30, 2016 at 8:59pm
Oh, I should have just said - calling you i to the office doesnt suggest bad news or good news, it may just reflect the doctor's style or even that of their staff,
Comment by Daniel Wachenheim on August 30, 2016 at 8:46pm
My experience was that there is no standard in how test results are reported, and the way they teach in residency does not reflect either reality ir patient emotions. Personally, I hate the phone, and the vast majority of test results were emailed or mailed. If a simple change was needed - cholesterontoo high, needs higher dose of lipitor - that was conveyed via the nurse pool. If more complicated - there is a polyp that needs biopsy - I called and the first thing I said was "This is Dr xxx and Im calling to discuss your test result". Depending on the tesult, I might say "Are you driving? We cant discuss any results in traffic so when can I call you back?". If it was absolutely bad news - cancer, usually - I first got their referral for further staging or surgery, then when I called said, "The radiologist felt that your result showed a type of cancer... then when that seemed sort of digested, I continued "This is the plan...". One reality is that often a radiologist is not always tight when they see an abnormal finding, and other tests are needed.

Personally, I think it's pathetic to call people in to the office for a result, especially after the test is done. When possible, before the test, I tried to discuss with them " How should we discuss your result? Do you want it over the phone, or in person". Probably 99% of adults want it in person and are adult enough to handle what you tell them on the phone.

I usually request my own CT scan results by email. They are too busy to call, it's ridiculous to return to their office. I just take control and tell them, "It's much more nerve wracking to wait. It either shows metastatic cancer, or something vague, or something else, or it's negative. In any case just send it to me and we'll go from there. I'm mature enough to handle bad news and prefer reading it to hearing it. I realize that my situation is different, but that's what I do,
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 30, 2016 at 7:42pm

Gosh, Kathy, I suppose it depends on the kind of relationship you have with your doctor. 

In 2013, my primary care doctor called and said, "Joan, it's cancer!" That is all. No, "Hi, how are you," or "Brace yourself" it was just "It's cancer". My response was, "OK now what do we do?" Then began the most incredible experiences of my life. 

Wow! Qiana, your experience is very different than mine. 

Well, Kathy, I suppose you could brace yourself for the worst, listen carefully to the diagnosis and proposed treatment plan, and then go from there. You might want to take someone with you so that you have a second pair of ears hearing what is said. 

Comment by k.h. ky on August 30, 2016 at 7:04pm
It's always be the reverse here.
Comment by Qiana-Maieev on August 30, 2016 at 6:57pm

I NEVER get results of anything over the phone. IF I get the phone call, I ALWAYS have to go in to see the dr., most of which is usually something simple & could have been done over the phone, but how do they collect a visit fee that way?

Comment by k.h. ky on August 30, 2016 at 4:50pm
I had a routine blood draw yesterday. And an ultrasound of my gallbladder. Today I had the hida scan. This a couple hours ago the doctors office called and told me they have the results of my blood work but I need to go see my doctor for the results.
Does anyone else have to see their doctor for that??? Prior to this they have always given me the results on the phone. High cholesterol, need vit d etc. They just call the pharmacy with the prescription. I can't imagine being called in for him to tell me everything is fine or I need vit d.

Anyone???
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 30, 2016 at 12:50pm

Gene Wilder's nephew reveals poignant reason Hollywood star kept hi...

Just about everything one can know about one performer. I like his silly smile, i.e. 

Don't pray for me; I'm an atheist 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 30, 2016 at 12:35pm

That's funny Ian.

I like your lazy slug, Joan. Me too.

Didn't know Gene Wilder was an Atheist. Nice lol, Bertold.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 30, 2016 at 11:00am

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 30, 2016 at 10:51am

One of the best comic actors ever.

 

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