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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on September 30, 2014 at 1:50pm

So Dale has a chance to go on! I'll keep my fingers crossed for him - although I don't think that could help.

That is a beautiful painting, Joan! Thanks!  At times I feel helpless but I won't let it get to me. First I try to think what I can do, after that I amuse myself with fantasies about power shutdowns, Molotov cocktails or other things I would never do.

Today I'm singing falsely:"Rejoice, rejoice, we have no choice but to carry on.."

Comment by Ian Mason on September 30, 2014 at 12:00pm

Don't you believe it, Joan. I do what I really have to do and no more.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 11:32am

WOW Carl, you have me hooked. Between you, Mindy, Loren, and all music lovers on this string, we can dance to the music of Charlie Darwin!

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 30, 2014 at 11:31am

Carl, thanks for that Peanuts Darwin!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 11:07am

Oh Chris! I hear you! Surely feelings of helplessness and hopelessness will occur and that is the formula for depression. Do not let that happen to you and your husband. Do whatever you can to find joy and peace. Just plain have fun! Be sure your husband understands how important it is that this dreadful behavior can pull you down. 

Think of things that when you do them you feel happy, calm, relaxed, at peace ... and then do them if you can. 

I feel helpless for you, so I will ease my feeling by sending you a photo of a painting. Since I am buried in grapes; one of my favorite activities is processing grapes. Mine are Concords, but these are so bright, I feel lifted and hope you do too. 

Jan van Huysum, Still Life 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:54am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:48am

I'm frugal too, Mindy, but I love music so much that I don't want it interrupted with commercials.  But that's me.  What kind of music do you listen to?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:17am

I also like my music so that I can hear it without straining.  I like having music on when cleaning as well, usually some upbeat jazz.  I couldn't live without my music.  Jazz and classical make up the majority of my listening, but I have many other varied and quirky musical avenues too. 

I subscribe to commercial-free Pandora Radio and have found a lot of new music that I like listening to.  Lately I've been listening to a lot of South American and Spanish contemporary ballads.  Even though I don't speak or understand Spanish, they are very beautiful and romantic. 

Comment by Plinius on September 30, 2014 at 8:12am

Earplugs don't help, Joan, when you want to sleep and the basses interfere with your heart rhythm. But luckily it's only some five days a year. Normally I love music, and also silence. When I'm home alone I very often concentrate on things I've heard and enjoy them again in silence - music, sounds, poems.

I like the Da Vince text very much, Ian!

Comment by Randall Smith on September 30, 2014 at 7:44am

I'm lucky not to have any nearby neighbors. I have the radio on all the time, both indoors and out (mostly classical).

Speaking of dusting, I've had to triple my cleaning duties due to having a dog inside much of the time. She (Dot) shakes, rolls, and scratches (fleas?) a lot. I think it's a cause of my throat tickle and cough. Ugh.

 

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