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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Plinius on April 25, 2013 at 5:22am

Thanks for the picture, Napoleon! I hope the other dog survived, it seems a dangerous situation. I've lived with cats for over 40 years and I know how they read my moods and react to it, and I know their feelings are as strong or even stronger than ours. Recently I read Frans de Waal's The Bonobo and the Atheist, and it warmed my feelings towards our closest relatives.  

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 25, 2013 at 5:20am

Napoleon, thanks for the dig pix from me also.  And, the evolution of god is excellent.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 25, 2013 at 5:02am

Napoleon, thanks for posting the dog pix. I've heard of non-human doing things like this but have never seen pix like these. My wife and I owned and trained two German Shepherds and they showed us they had more capabilities than I'd ever expected.

Thanks too for the evolution of god pic. Though there is no widely-accepted icon for power, the dollar sign represents part of the motivation well.

Comment by Ian Mason on April 25, 2013 at 4:07am

Joan Denoo, what I was thinking in terms of sport is that when people who otherwise would be in conflict learn to work together to an end, differences take second place. When a team is selected of the basis of ability not background a change in atittude is the result. Personally I think that sport is THE place for competition. In other fields cooperation should be the dominant factor but there should be room in human life for competing. By the way, there was a joke going around in Britain after the Olympics: a red-head, a mixed-race and a Somalian refugee walked into a pub. Everyone wanted to buy them drinks. It was a rather pointed tribute to the athletes who competed in British colours and a criticism of the usual stereotype, racist "jokes".

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 25, 2013 at 2:52am

Ian Mason, you led me on a most interesting search for West-Eastern Divan Orchestra. I made up a playlist, and am working on another on this exceptional group. This is exactly what I meant when I described my desire. There is an old saying that change won't occur until the last coffin of the last generation is covered with dirt. Well, here is a new generation coming on, and I hope we can find a way to convince them warring is not the answer to anything and here is one alternative. West-Eastern Divan Orchestra certainly makes a start. Here is the first playlist:

West-Eastern Divan Orchestra 

Conductor-pianist Daniel Barenboim (who made headlines performing Wagner in Israel) and the late Palestinian-American intellectual Edward Said, co-founded the West-Eastern Divan Orchestra as “a human laboratory" to reveal to the whole world how to participate with each other.


The West-Eastern Divan Orchestra, an ensemble of musicians between the ages of 15 and 36, established in 1999, is made up of young musicians from countries engaged in war. The orchestra includes musicians from Israel, Palestine, Syria, Egypt, Lebanon, Jordan, Iran and Spain.


The word “Divan” comes from a collection of Persian, Arabic, and a suite of poems about the Middle East by Goethe. It also is the name for a couch. It refers to the privy council of the Ottoman Empire,


Barenboim and Said brought young Middle Eastern artists together who might not, outside of their music-making, feel comfortable sitting together.


The work can be seen as a symbol for stimulating exchange and mixture between Orient and Occident. The word "west-eastern" does not only refer to German-Middle-eastern, but also Latin-Persian and Christian-Muslim. It mirrors the attempt to bring together Orient and Occident.


Ending of “Knowledge is the Beginning”




Comment by tom sarbeck on April 24, 2013 at 11:14pm

Ruth, your cats here fit my mom's description well: sovereign kingdoms with tails.

She occasionally called them self-emptying mouse traps.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 24, 2013 at 11:06pm

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 24, 2013 at 11:04pm

Hi, all. I'm a new fan of shironeko cat.

Comment by Megan S. M. on April 24, 2013 at 6:28pm

Heh.. maybe I am still a bit of a literalist, need to break that...

Personally I love coffee, but only if it's good quality stuff... or has a ton of milk and chocolate in it :3

Comment by Megan S. M. on April 24, 2013 at 6:22pm

Joan, do you want a long or a short answer?

The short: The questions came from within me as a young teen about the contradictions/illogicality of the teaching of the LDS church.

I'd be happy to elaborate, but it would be kinda long and idk if the comment wall is the best place to put it.


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