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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Your favorite photobombs?

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Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller 16 hours ago. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Saturday. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2013 at 9:08pm
sk8eycat, read your comment, "I feel stupid for whining about my cat's condition...and selfish...when some of you are undergoing much worse medical and family problems."
I am not aware of any limits of better than or worse than any situations that we write to each other. I figure Hang with Friends means writing about whatever is on our minds.
When you express concern about your cat falling so far, it is an experience that I can relate to and feel compassion for you and your beloved pet. I know the feeling.
When you wrote, "(I'm also terrified of the cost; I don't get my Social InSecurity deposit till next week...isn't that tacky?)"
Expressing concern about the cost of taking good care of your cat is another thing I can relate to. I have a hunch your vet will work with you on paying the costs. People generally understand unexpected expenses can create some serious problems, as with those on pensions. I think any good professional will work with you and may even reduce prices for you. Some even barter.
As to others of us who have different problems and conflicts in our lives, I see no need to worry about that. I can only speak for myself, but I find this a safe place to vent and even rant when I know for a fact those responses are not the best way to manage conflicts and problems. However, we need a place to vent all that pent-up emotion. This is also a place where we can get new perspectives on what happens to us.
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2013 at 5:01pm

Patricia, "Cheeses Christ" "Our Grate Lord". 

Now, is this what one would call a meme? I'm going to get the hang of memes yet. .... even though I am lousy at such cleverness. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2013 at 4:58pm

Steph, this breed of cat looks so interesting, and the one of a kind among one of a kind is funny. 

"Scottish Fold Cat Breed Traits

The Scottish Fold's folded ears are produced by a dominant gene that affects the cartilage of the ears, causing the ears to fold forward and downward, giving the head a rounded appearance. Since the gene is dominant, all Scottish Fold cats must have at least one folded ear parent to have folded ears themselves. When a Fold is bred to a straight-eared cat, approximately 50 percent of the kittens will have folded ears, although the number of Folds in any given litter can vary greatly."

http://www.petfinder.com/cat-breeds/Scottish-Fold

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2013 at 4:53pm
Tony, that poor mother, all those mouths to feed. I thought it was hard nursing three babies one after the other, I wonder how she manages?
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2013 at 1:38pm
Oh! I just have to share this video of Richard Feynman on the importance of fathers. Fathers of the world, take a peak:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=695Flhmjmg4
Comment by Steph S. on March 21, 2013 at 10:07am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 21, 2013 at 9:49am

Felaine, no reason to apologize.  You're not being selfish at all, just a very caring and loving guardian to another living being who is an important part of your life.  I understand your worries.  Hairy Jerry is lucky to be with you when he needs special care.  

Melinda, don't get too out of hand with your new-found freedom.  We don't want to read about you in the Police Blotter.  And you better stay out of the Gourmet food aisle. 

Tony.......what can I say?  Puppies!!!!!!  What a cute pic. 

Comment by Steph S. on March 21, 2013 at 9:15am

hey Flying Atheist I have seen that commercial and I think it really cute and funny. Make me laugh every time. Thanks for posting it.

Tony those puppies are so adorable!

Joan - thanks for the Mantis Shrimp.

Comment by Tony Carroll on March 21, 2013 at 8:40am

Shhhh! Please be very, very, quiet. We're exhausted!

Comment by Plinius on March 21, 2013 at 3:36am

Felaine, our cats ARE our family, so you've got a family problem and I hope for a good outcome! Xtians are always shocked and angry when I talk like this and say "It's only an animal." What do they mean by ONLY? With a little understanding of evolution we know better than that.

So all the best for Hairy Jerry - and I have not forgotten Ian's mothers; all the best for them too!

 

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