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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera on Thursday. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Idaho Spud on March 27, 2013 at 9:53am

Steph, I love the Grumpy cat on Time.  Reminds me of someone I know......  Lets see,,,,who is that?  ........   Oh! now I remember.  It's me!  "I didn't even want this" sounds like something out of my mouth.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 27, 2013 at 9:46am

Ruth, I'm with you on reading easily enlarged screen text instead of books.  

December 13, 2012 a law went into effect that limits the average volume of TV commercials to that of the programing.  It seems to be that way on all of my channels except one that has an extension.  However, they can (an do), manipulate the sound of commercials so they stand out, and often sound louder, or at least more annoying (Why they think annoying me will make me want to buy their product or service has always escaped me).  There's a place that a complaint can be lodged with the government if a commercial sounds louder, so I may do that in hopes that they will be able to further reduce the annoyance factor.

Comment by Steph S. on March 27, 2013 at 5:43am

oh how cute Ruth!

So glad to hear from you!

Seems like something is missing when you aren't here.

Comment by Steph S. on March 27, 2013 at 5:40am

Good morning everyone!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 27, 2013 at 12:49am

Thanks for asking about me, booklover. I fell behind here, and then was overwhelmed trying to catch up yesterday. Today my brain is back for a while.

The Vulcan death grip LOLcat is great! And the dog snuggling the white kitty. Sorry to hear about your need for a gastroenterologist.

I’m a bit envious of all the interesting books you’re sharing. I don’t do well with dead tree books anymore. I can’t even keep up with magazines. These days I enjoy news and stuff on the screen where print size can be easily enlarged.

Thanks for the peppy music, Flying Atheist. However I found the jumpy editng style a touch surreal, as if time wasn’t flowing normally but getting stuck repeatedly. We just watched a TV program on our TiVo where a similar effect occurred over a 5 minute segment from a recording flaw or something. Somehow I have trouble stepping back and seeing it just as an artistic  technique. Instead it feels as if time actually is jittering. Maybe I watch too much time travel sci-fi. When I was young and still brainwashed by the culture, I actually slept with giant hair rollers, but not a face mask.

Idaho Spud. We jump out of our seats every evening because the commercials can come in much louder than the programming. Every time we watch YouTube on our TV, it’s very much louder too.

Ian, the butterfly effect started in complexity science, and only later spread to popular media. It’s about extreme sensitivity to initial conditions. Joan, that’s a good link, thanks.

Sentient Biped, get well please.

Steph, that Time cover is a hoot.

Napoleon, that’s a cute photoshop hybrid. We have a thread of them somewhere here.

Thanks for the Lawrence Krauss link, Joan. But I don’t agree that we’re insignificant. Why define significance as something arising outside of ourselves? After that, he’s better and clearer.

Patricia, great graphic! Really made me laugh.

Smile, folks! It's Spring (or Fall if you're Down Under).

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 27, 2013 at 12:38am

We are all thinking about Sentient Biped.  I hope his surgery went well for him today.  He is a very warm and kind person and a great asset to our community.

Joan, I'm glad to pass along my list of books.  They were all highly recommended to me and I'm looking forward to reading them.

I also hope you enjoy listening to Vivaldi's Four Seasons.  Reading the corresponding sonnets will make the music come to life with images. 

Well, it's late here in the mid-west.  Time to get my beauty rest.

Goodnight, All.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2013 at 12:01am

TFA, thanks for the recommendations of 

Wikipedia: Vivaldi's Four Seasons (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Four_Seasons_%28Vivaldi%29)

Wikipedia: The Four Seasons Sonnets (http://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Four_Seasons_Sonnets

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 11:57pm
TFA, I can also recommend Susan Jocoby, Bart Ehrman, Oliver Sacks, and Steven Pinker. I put the others on my reading list. Thanks so much.
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 11:51pm
Melinda, it might have been while you were on your vacation. Yes, he is so calm and reassuring, enjoys sharing and has great friends on his site.
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 11:35pm

Sentient Biped, thinking of you. Found a naturalistic garden you might enjoy:

 

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