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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Surreal, I haz it

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The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Wednesday. 22 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

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Fan.tasia – A Disney Mashup by Lindsey McCutcheon

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud on Monday. 8 Replies

Any of you remember that Hollywood musical dance number mashup that Nerd Fest UK created put together some months back?  Well, someone by the name of Lindsey McCutcheon has…Continue

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The Gun Industry's Killing in Killing (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Jul 20. 15 Replies

America's Best Christian has finally acknowledged that there may be one outfit which has her belief system beat for it's leverage on the government.  No great surprise, it's the NRA and the gun industries.  Betty's a good loser, though.  She's made…Continue

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The God of Cancer (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 18. 10 Replies

Seth Andrews has been through the mill as it comes to dealing with those who insist that their faith in a deity is not just valid but necessary to their lives and to all lives.  Having dealt with that gauntlet and come out the other side an atheist,…Continue

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We Are America / Love Has No Labels (John Cena - Ad Council)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 10. 3 Replies

It seems to be a repeating pattern: I wander around the internet and inevitably, I stumble onto all manner of stuff.  It happens all the time on YouTube, and as you doubtless have deduced, yours truly tripped over something a couple minutes ago,…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on July 1, 2013 at 12:05pm

Oh, my friends!  Last night I wrote an eloquent (I thought) thank you for all your kind words and sensible advice, and my effing computer froze up before I could click "Add Comment."  When I was able to get back  in here, it was gone.  Naturally.  So I said a few dirty words and went to bed.

Yesterday was NOT my day.

I'm here, I'm all right, and I'm still carefully trying to get the rest of the red stuff out of my hair without causing more damage.  I just talked to my MD, and she chewed me out, too, for not going to the ER....

You all are right, and I was wrong...shrugs...I haven't been very intelligent lately.

Anyroad, I wish there was some way I could hug you all...I appreciate every one of you SO MUCH!

And Joan, please send some of that cold rainy weather down here!  It's been in the triple digits for almost a week.  MUCH too early....whatever happened to "June Gloom" in SoCal?

(I'm hoping that the hills aren't so dry that the city has to cancel the annual fireworks show...or move it to one of the high school football fields that we can't see from here.  I love those elaborate displays.  They're magic...I keep saying, "Wow!  How do they DO that?")

Cheers, and thanks again.  And I think I'll stop using "bloody" as a cuss word.  For a while anyway. *snicker*

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 1, 2013 at 11:49am

We have a little mom and pop hardware store that has been here as long as I. The clerks are all retired tradespeople and they help with all kinds of home repairs. Yesterday, I went with my tale of woe about the squirrels breaking the shoelace holding a bird feeder in the Blue Spruce. The clerk went right to the spot and handed me flexible wire coated with some substance.  PERFECT! 

Yes, Carl, I love watching them, even if I do have to engage my local hardware person to help me keep the thing in the tree. When I have more energy, I will make a birdfeeder that is not as pretty, but more durable. 

Mindy, your story of the terrible fall, and your daughter's reaction is priceless. One of those little pieces that delights even as it evokes compassion. I call this kind of story "Minddroppings;" I borrowed  it from Neil deGrasse Tyson. Just little vignettes, along the order of  Isaac Bashevis Singer.

I'm my garden for breakfast with the birds and squirrels. Cary woke me up early this morning so I could get outside in the cool air before heat builds up. Got quite a big of chores done out here and I am pooped. Tomorrow and the rest of the week I will be useless, after four hours of chemo. I'll use the time to do some writing. 

Felaine, how is your healing going? And your shower door? 

Hi Grinning Cat. Always a joy to see you grinning face. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on July 1, 2013 at 11:08am

Felaine, take care of yourself! I'm glad you're okay.

Mindy, thanks for the laugh with the black cat.

A button I have:  "I'm not superstitious -- it's bad luck."

(Neil deGrasse Tyson had some choice words on superstition: "I'm not worried about kids. I'm worried about grown-ups, okay? These are the ones who vote....")

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 1, 2013 at 9:35am

I like that black cat, Mindy. Funny.  :)

Comment by Plinius on July 1, 2013 at 7:19am

LOL booklover! Black cat crossing my path is Dido, wanting me to serve food.

Comment by Plinius on July 1, 2013 at 12:09am

Take care Sk8eycat, I hope you're well soon!

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 30, 2013 at 9:50pm
TFA, yes indeed. A lovely canopy of tress surrounds my home and one can watch them moving from tree to tree, without catching a glimpse of them. Then, all of a sudden, they burst into my yard and start their attempts to the bird feed. I have a special place for squirrels to eat, but they prefer the bird food site.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 30, 2013 at 9:46pm

Joan, aren't squirrels fun to watch?  Especially when in pairs or small groups.  They can be so playful as they chase each other around.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 30, 2013 at 9:41pm

Steph, that temperature would leave me wilted like day old lettuce left on a cupboard. Hope you have an air conditioner and/or a fan. I heard an announcement to start drinking lots of water. I drink 32 oz. a day minimum to keep my organs cleared out from all the chemo. I have a four hour chemo on Tuesday this week, so I will be able to sit under the fan as our temperatures begin to rise outside. Yesterday was supposed to start the heat spell that everyone else seems to be having, however, it was a cold, rainy, windy day. The cold chased me in.

Notched Tail Squirrel  joined No Tail Squirrel today and they tried to get on the bird feeder together. Quite a comedy.

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 30, 2013 at 9:20pm

My goodness, Felaine!  Please don't use up all your nine lives! 

I have to say that I don't agree with your choice to decline having your wound stitched up.  Last year or so I cut my scalp on the corner of a cabinet door.  It was VERY small but bled like the dickens.  I had to have one temporary staple put in, and no shaving was required.  The skin on your scalp is very taut and tight, and without some aid in closing up the wound it won't heal properly and could fester into an infection. 

Just my 2-cents because I care. 

 

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