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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on May 30, 2014 at 10:13am

Speaking of prayers at public events...A rather crass event took place about a mile from us last night.  A "Mall Treasure Hunt," or "social media cash grab."  It started some time during the afternoon/evening commute, tied up traffic on the I-5, and surrounding surface streets, and lasted till close to 10 PM.

Thousands of idiots dashing through the parking lot(s), checking their phones for Twitter clues....and every media outlet PLUS the Burbank PD had choppers in the air....circling, circling.  My ears are still ringing.

Google # Hidden Cash.  Or something like that.

We ARE doomed!

Comment by Loren Miller on May 30, 2014 at 8:37am

I quite purposefully SKIPPED the invocation, Randall.  Given the opportunity NOT to listen to something like that, I quite naturally don't (the MUTE button is a wonderful thing!).

I much more enjoyed 150 laps of yellow-flag-free racing (would that it could have been 200!) and that great sprint to the finish.  Those two reasons by themselves made this year's Indy 500 one of the best I've ever watched.

Comment by Randall Smith on May 30, 2014 at 7:39am

I'm still pondering Ian's Emily Dickinson quote. Deep.

Did anyone hear the invocation given before the Indy 500 race? It was so preposterous, I almost gagged. It was full of the normal "thanks for a beautiful day" and "watch over the drivers", etc. The worse part was the "Can I hear an amen?" repeatedly directed to the fans. I was almost wishing a horrible accident would occur just to "show them" (but glad there was none).

Comment by Loren Miller on May 30, 2014 at 6:54am

A beautiful sentiment, Ian.  Thanks for posting that!

Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2014 at 6:42am

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2014 at 12:37pm

Ruth, I am very sorry to learn of your continuing back problems. Your comments offer very fine material for thought and action. Is there such a thing as voice activation so that you can talk about your ideas and concerns with us?

Probably the best thing is for you to do exactly what you need to do and we can seek out the material ourselves. I realize you don't do commentary when you point out a topic and I like what commentary you do offer.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2014 at 12:31pm

Chris, I do hope this part of your life ends soon ... not wishing ill for your BIL. It is kind of like having buckets of challenges and this particular one seems bottomless. Makes it difficult to get on with your own affairs. My visual image of such formidable challenges is grit my teeth, bow my neck, clinch my fists, dig my feet in the ground and do what is necessary. AND RELAX. 

Easy to say! Impossible at time, to do! 

2 Hour Deep Meditation: Relax Mind Body, Spa Music, Background Musi...

I know, you don't have two hours to listen, however, you can listen for as long as you have time.

Sounds from nature

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2014 at 11:34am

sk8eycat I am with you on answering in four rings. Why hurt myself for a nonsense call. My phones were installed forty years ago; they are ancient by modern terms, but at least I can hear what people say to me, unless their phone, usually cell, is out of range to pick up their signal. Years ago, I took the phone apart and disconnected the ringer in my bedroom. There is a volume control on the living room phone and I turn it off when I have company or don't want to be disturbed.  

Comment by sk8eycat on May 29, 2014 at 10:00am

Patricia, most of the time, we let the answering machine pick up...unless we're expecting a call from someone.  If a caller can't be bothered to leave a message, then I can't be bothered to make a mad dash across loose throw rugs and stuff to catch the phone by the 4th ring. 

Before answering machines, cordless phones (and aggressive telemarketing), it used to be considered "only polite" for a caller to listen for 6 rings before hanging up.  Now 4 rings seems to be the maximum.  (Like I'm gonna take a cordless phone into the bathroom with me.  Eye.  Emm.  Sew.  Shurrrrr!)

Comment by Plinius on May 29, 2014 at 1:26am

I love your family stories, Joan! Wonderful how positive these people are!

I'm sorry about your back, Ruth! Like sciatica, I guess. I hope you feel better soon.

 I can imagine you're worried about a BFF with an addiction, Booklover. But your daughter is a sensible person, who'll be careful.

Can you get a secret telephone number, Patricia? It helps a lot.

Husband and I are still working hard at brother-in-law's problems. We're still waiting for him to get a place in a care home, then we can move his stuff and his cat and sell his apartment. We're getting very tired of this job - there's not much left of our lives apart from working and sleeping. But perhaps the bulk of it can be finished before August.

 

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