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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on September 6, 2014 at 6:41am

I can't read everything Laura wrote, but I think she is right, Joan; strictness, especially when applied by a loving person, is a great help.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2014 at 3:15am

Mindy, I enjoy the Ricky Gervais statement.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2014 at 3:13am

Mindy! Looks as though you are getting some nice atheist friends that you can actually see! Nothing wrong with virtual friends, and it is pleasing, indeed, to have ones with whom you can sit an chat. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2014 at 3:10am

I know I am shamelessly sharing this response of Laura, my daughter, when I apologized to her for being so strict with her when she was little. 

Laura wrote: "The strictness came in handy for me as an adult though, because I don't settle for 'good enough'. I take pride in what I have and what I do and I attribute that to how you and Dad raised us. I wouldn't trade those years in for anything! I do think that I flourished as a teenager from the more collaborative approach because it helped me to think and act as a team-player in life, realizing that my actions could affect more than just me. You also guided us through our teenage years, when we were seeking independence, in a way that stimulated personal responsibility from within us. I couldn't have asked for a better mom!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 5, 2014 at 1:09pm

Randy, I know the feeling all too well. Thankfully, I got over it. Now I stand tall, proud, confidence, comfortable and state, "I am an atheist!" No one has fainted, or hit me, or usually don't respond back. I do notice our conversations are short afterwards. 

It feels good to state, emphatically, that I believe there is no god. 

My cousins, one married to a Lutheran minister and is often depressed and sounds highly stressed, and others stopped communicating with me on Facebook and that is their choice, not mine. I think they are missing out on an interesting relative. However, the grapevine always worked extremely well in the past and I am sure will function quite well. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 5, 2014 at 12:05pm

Hmmmm... there are medical "missionaries" who are entirely secular; Doctors Without Borders is one such organization. 

Has your friend found out which type of "missionaries" she would have to write about?  Maybe she could drop a line or two into the article about DWB....???

Comment by Randall Smith on September 5, 2014 at 8:14am

I wish more "notables" would speak out like Ricky. Don't know if it does any good, but it "makes my day"!

At a friend's retirement party last night, someone asked me where I went to church. All I could admit to was that I didn't go. I'm almost ashamed I didn't "fess up" and say I was an atheist. It wasn't the time or place or person I wanted to "come out" to. Dang.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 5, 2014 at 6:53am

Loving it and saving it Mindy!

Comment by kathy: ky on September 4, 2014 at 8:29pm
Love it Mindy.
Comment by kathy: ky on September 3, 2014 at 12:09pm
Hi Carl. Glad you're out of the hospital and I'm sureyour ttest will be fine. Sending healing thoughts your way. Glad you have a sister close to you.
 

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