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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

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Comment by Steph S. on April 9, 2013 at 10:51pm

Thanks very much for your comment Pat. How very nice of you to say.

Well maybe next time I will be able to serve on the Jury. : )

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 9, 2013 at 10:47pm

Sorry I've been away so much, guys. I've been trying hard to get back in shape.

Booklover, your atheistblog saying is perfect. Would that one could “like” a comment. I can see the Illinois promotion billboard now, “Move to Illinois so you too can help to pay the Governor’s prison expenses.” Your weekend bit of heaven sounds perfect. Loved the flying cat, which looks like one of mine.

Steph, that’s the best LOLkitty yet. Black kitties are so maligned. I would want to "like" that too.

Ian your vacation in Crete and Greenland sounds like it'll be great. Good luck in the half marathon. We expect a pic or two, hint. Your Youtube Thatcher link didn’t work for me.

Flying Atheist, interesting story! I would only eat the sandwich if the filling and spread was stable for a day at room temperature. I’m extra cautious about food poisoning and spoilage.

Joan, the Paperless Future had me in stitches. That baby elephant looks so energetic and happy with the video speeded up with banjo music. Thanks for the Butterfly/Wordsworth moment.

Napoleon Bonaparte, obscenity is in the eye of the beholder, it seems. I feel much more comfortable with the protesting pseudo-nuns than the burka. But using nudity as a shock tactic that exploits sexist stereotypes and sexual taboos I dislike. I’m more of a naturist than into aggressive political nudity. It does say something about the safety European women feel in public to do this. Meanwhile in India even a male escort can’t always protect a woman from gang rape on a public bus.

It's been fun catching up!

Comment by Steph S. on April 9, 2013 at 8:54pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 9, 2013 at 4:18pm

Yeah, we are 2nd to California in terms of financial ruin.  And yeah, I voted for Blago as well.  lol

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 9, 2013 at 3:16pm

Luckily we have a moratorium on the death penalty here in Illinois.....thanks to our former Republican governor, George Ryan, who was convicted on corruption charges, served five years in prison and is now serving the balance of his sentence in home confinement.  Gotta love politics!  At least I can respect him for his views on the death penalty, gay rights, abortion, and other social issues.  He was quite a liberal Republican and one of the very few Republicans I have actually voted for. 

Comment by Ian Mason on April 9, 2013 at 3:00pm

Glad to hear that you avoided that grotesque dilema, Steph. Deciding if another person should live or die is an offence against humanity.

Pretty kitty-cuddles :-)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 9, 2013 at 1:33pm

Pat, I've had all positive experiences on jury duty and with dealing with my fellow jurors.  Always a varied group of ages, races, employment/non-employment, backgrounds, etc., etc.  If I were in legal trouble but innocent, I would definitely feel more assured having a trial by jury.  Yes, Steph, the legal system could always use more people like you, but I totally understand your obligation to your education and the money already spent for it.  Maybe next time!       

Comment by Pat on April 9, 2013 at 12:57pm

Steph, please don't take this the wrong way, but I'm not glad you got excused. I do a fair number of jury trials, and oftentimes, we are let with a selection of jurors who are retired and and don't mind doing something that simply gets them out of the house, are unemployed and have no intention of getting a job, or can't wait to find someone guilty because they perceive themselves as the "law and order" type.

Juries need people like you. Smart, logical, compassionate, and a willingness to listen to consider all points of view before you make up you mind.  In the "for what it's worth" category, and in the interest of getting a fair trial, I'd have kept you on.

Comment by Steph S. on April 9, 2013 at 12:09pm

Well I was excused from jury duty - I am glad because it was a Capitol Murder Trial seeking the Death penalty.

I just approached the bench and explained to the judge that I was enrolled and paid for summer classes.

Anyway, everything is back to normal.

Comment by Steph S. on April 9, 2013 at 12:08pm


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