Information

Hang With Friends

Location: Earth
Members: 871
Latest Activity: 3 hours ago

Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

A comment is a shout-out, which will get lost in a few days, because the comment wall is just a random stack.

Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller yesterday. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Sep 6. 0 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 2. 17 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Sep 2. 3 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 29. 22 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Hang With Friends to add comments!

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 4, 2013 at 10:57pm

Robert Redford, 77 years old. Many men grow more handsome with age. I wonder what happened? Did he live a hard life? 

Jack Nicholson lost some of his charm as well, 76 years old

Brigitte Bardot, 79 years old 

Comment by Steph S. on August 4, 2013 at 10:18pm

Comment by Steph S. on August 4, 2013 at 10:16pm

How is everyone? Yes I am still alive.

Just one more week of this summer class.

Wow - it has been lots of work.

Final Exam is on Friday.

Then I hope to spend more time with all of you.

I sure have missed you all.

I hope you all are doing well.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 4, 2013 at 9:58pm

Oh my gosh! What on Earth would a person be doing out at sea alone? Doesn't sound like fun to me. 

Comment by Loren Miller on August 4, 2013 at 7:48pm

Any Robert Redford fans here?  I'm not a huge one, particularly.  Never saw Dances With Wolves or Out of Africa, love The Natural ... but in any case, you might want to consider the following:



because it looks like the man has his "A" game on...

Comment by sk8eycat on August 4, 2013 at 6:11pm

Universal Single-Payer healthcare obviously benefits everybody. What I don't understand is why so many people in this country just don't effing GET it!  What are they afraid of?  Because the hateful comments I see online are full of fear; the words "communism" and "socialism" are tossed around by people who don't know what they really mean. They just think they are insulting dirty words...like "bullshit"....and "atheism," I guess.  Heh!

(See? I'm getting my sense of humor back.  You all are helping...immensely.)

As for Hairy Jerry...he was one of the few cats I've had who really liked to sleep in my arms...up until a few weeks ago.  Then last week he went downhill so fast that I had trouble getting the money together AND a ride.  (I sold my car and let my drivers' license lapse last year because 1) I'm afraid of 80% of the drivers on the road around here, and 2) I have neuropathy in my feet, and sometimes couldn't feel whether I was stepping on the brake or the gas.  Too dangerous!)

Warm hugs to everybody here!  It's so good to have a group of friends who really understand...About 30 years ago I was in this same emotional place, only I was working in a large ad office, and some jackass said something like, "Why are you carrying on like that?  He was only a cat."  I started to go after him with my Exact-o Knife....and decided he wasn't worth making a mess over.  But I still clench my jaw whenever I think of remarks like that.

Love Cats in Moonlight

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 4, 2013 at 2:19pm

Simon & Garfunkel.  My favorite group.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 4, 2013 at 2:18pm

Feeling for you Felaine.  I tear-up every time I read something about Hairy Jerry.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 4, 2013 at 12:54pm

Ian, I agree 100% with your post about universal health care.

Comment by Plinius on August 4, 2013 at 10:07am

Soon memories of him will make you smile.

And you're right, Mindy! I've got about ten cats playing games in my memory, talking to me or just sleeping, somewhere  where I can almost see them - I miss them, but the memories are wonderful.

 

Members (871)

 
 
 

line

Update Your Membership :

Membership

line

line

Nexus on Social Media:

line

© 2016   Atheist Nexus. All rights reserved. Admin: Richard Haynes.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service