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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 2:52pm

Patricia, I am happy to learn you have time to investigate which computer will work best for you. There are lots of brands from which to choose. I look forward to learning what you decide. 

Have to keep these lines open to chat with this group. Never boring, always enlightening, and very often fun. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 2:49pm

Patricia, sounds as though you make a very responsible decision in this case. You want to keep the relationship with your daughter and grandchild and in order to do that you have to set limits on subject matter.

Good for you. You are not the villain in this situation; you know what you know and what you need. Taking care of yourself is essential for mental health. Listening to or participating in a conversation, such as religion, with them is of no interest to you and your line should be drawn. 

If you don't have choices, you become a victim. Because you do have choices, and because you have drawn the line, you are not a victim. You are a decent, wise and compassionate person. 

I support you 100%.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 1:47pm

@Patricia, I asked Laura her recommendation and here is her response: 

"It sounds like your friend is at the point I was at in 2007 when I was "so done" with Microsoft computers. If she is interested in switching to Apple, the type of computer depends on her needs. Does she need portable or not. If portability is important to her then a Macbook is the way to go. If portability is not important then an iMac is a wonderful solution." Laura

Keep in mind that Laura has her own business designing web pages for professionals, her husband builds network systems for professionals. They have lots of experiences and knowledge. 

I hope you find what is right for you. I have MacBook that I use every day, an iMac that I use for designing/creating albums, and I still have an ancient Microsoft that I never use. It has old documents from years ago.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 10:31am

SILENCE IMPLIES AGREEMENT! 

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 10:18pm

Tasty sounding recipes Joan.  I've saved them to try.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 10:09pm

Steph, I like: "If atheism is a religion, then off is a TV channel."

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 10:08pm

Steph, Now, that pigeon photo is funny! 

Patricia and Spud, most prepared food is far too sweet for me as well. I make my own whipped cream with top grade, very fresh heavy cream, with just a sprinkle of turbinado sugar and a dollop of Nielsen-Massey Vanillas, Madagascar Bourbon Vanilla Bean Paste.
The ancient cranberry sauce recipe off the package with ground cranberries, oranges, and about half the sugar works for me. Toss in a handful of chopped roasted walnuts and you have ambrosia. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 10:01pm

That's the best response I've heard to that ridiculous religious accusation Steph.  

I must admit I was guilty of accusing atheists of that when I was in the brainwashed state.  It's such an incredibly dumb thing to say, on so many levels, that I'm now at a loss to why I was proud of thinking of and saying it.

Comment by Steph S. on November 25, 2013 at 9:42pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 9:08pm

Many prepared foods are way too sweet for my taste also.  Perhaps I didn't like whipped cream because my mother made it too sweet.  Don't know why I liked Cool Whip.  I may hate it now.  It's probably been 30 years or more since I've tasted it.

 

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