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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by sk8eycat on September 3, 2013 at 5:46pm

Mindy, I did something out of character a little while ago...I sent a friend a pomegranate e-notecard with a prayer on it for Rosh Whatever.  Pomegranates are an integral part of the second day's dinner/ceremony, or something, and Lori takes this stuff seriously, so I thought I'd "make nice" on her.

I really surprised myself.  (And damaged my Lucretia MacEvil image.)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 3, 2013 at 1:57pm

Insurance companies and certain people in our federal and state government(s) want everyone to die as soon as we reach retirement age, or before that if we have conditions that can't be fixed with a couple of aspirin. They have panic attacks at the mere thought of anybody ceasing to pay into whatever fund, and needing them to pay out (as they agreed to do when we bought the insurance, or spent our working lives paying into Medicare) , instead.

I have a friend who has both Crohn's Disease and fibromyalgia, and it seems like every month she is fighting with the insurance company that Medicare or SSI arbitrarily assigned her to.  They tell her they can't allow her to become "dependent" on the only pain meds that work for her.  WTF! She is never going to get well, so she should be allowed to live the rest of her life in relative comfort, if not totally pain-free. (That's impossible.) It's all about money...they have it, and they want to hang on to it.

Makes me so angry I want to scream, but not at you guys.

Single-payer insurance is the only way to go.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 3, 2013 at 10:48am

Booklover, I sympathize with you over the self-defeating short-sighted insurance company. Making it harder for type 1 diabetics to monitor their blood sugar will increase health costs later. That's the opposite of what insurance is supposed to do.

I don't watch shows that humiliate contestants. I don't get a kick out of seeing people publicly fail. To me it's painful, not funny.

My favorite dance performances are by Pilobolus. Here's a 30 second sample.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 3, 2013 at 8:15am

Oh, Felaine, at first I thought you said you loved the gong show, but then I saw you hated it.  Even though I loved it, I did feel sorry for some of the dummies that didn't know they were bad.

Well, everyone has different tastes.  I wasn't going to say it, but after you said you hated the gong show, I hope you don't mind me saying I hated Bob Hope.  

I can't stand egotists, and he stuck me as a big one.  Seems like every time he made a "joke", he would stop, give the audience a sideways look that to me looked like he was saying "OK, I'm waiting for you to recognize me as the funniest human ever, and start laughing."

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 3, 2013 at 8:05am

Thanks for the reminder FA.  I loved the gong show and Gene Gene, the Dancing Machine.  Great fun!

Comment by sk8eycat on September 2, 2013 at 9:41pm

Oh, I LOL'd at the awful comedian with the paper bag over his head, too.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 2, 2013 at 9:39pm

I hated The gong Show...except for Gene Gene, and one other act. I can't remember his name, but he was the switchboard operator at KCET when I worked there.  Funny as *bleep!*  He did some kind of torch song in drag, and got gonged, but he didn't care; he wanted to be gonged. He knew he was supposed to be awful.

What I hated about the show were the performers who didn't know they were awful, and the expressions on their faces when somebody hit the gong were pitiful.

Chuck Barris had a sick sense of humor; he loved to humiliate people. He produced another "game" show that featured male executives with their (female) secretaries and their wives. The object was to see which woman knew the most about the man.  It bombed.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 2, 2013 at 9:21pm

Great dance clips.  Sorry to offend, but I just had to share this dance icon. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 2, 2013 at 6:38pm

To change the subject, you might enjoy duck vacuuming.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 2, 2013 at 5:42pm
 

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