Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on March 26, 2013 at 9:43pm

Wow - that is an interesting pic Napoleon.

So .. looks like I am behind again - reading back through.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 26, 2013 at 9:15pm
Per my handy online Bing Translator:
A mutant fish, with ears and pig face, was found in the Black River between the cities of Santa Catarina Rio Negrinho and Mafra. the fact left baffled fishermen and has arousing the curiosity of many people.According to the fisherman and teacher Josef w., this mutation is due to pesticides used in the region.The case will be investigated, so that the fish was sent to exam ictiopatológico in Sao Paulo.
Scary to think what harm and other horrors we are causing. 
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 1:41pm
I like knowing that I am responsible for my meaning and purpose. I don't need to seek for direction from some external energy, the energy resides within.

Lawrence Krauss - We Provide Our Own Meaning
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 1:09pm

Have you ever heard of the "butterfly effect" in quantum physics? It states the flapping of its winging in the jungle of the Amazon, has small effects that can accumulate into much larger effect. By using fractal geometry, the principles can be demonstrated. I know, it sounds outrageous, but quantum physics is outrageous; just listen to physicists talk about it. It does not fall under Newton's laws of motion; it has its own laws. 

If anyone is interested in learning more:

An Introduction to Chaos Theory with the Lorenz Attractor

Don't let the geometry get in your way, just follow the visuals and feel the meaning. 

Our current climate change can be defined as having a human-made change in our atmosphere that may be small, but has an effect that is unpredictable and unstable. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 1:07pm

Good morning friends. I suspect we had our last frost last night! That is more of a hope than reality, however we have a week of above freezing temperatures according to long-rang forecasting.

I know it will not come as a surprise to those of you who have known me for a while, I did a thorough review of literature on breast cancer after my positive diagnoses two weeks ago and ran across this film that has a promising story to tell. Women and men, please watch.

TED: Deborah Rhodes: A tool that finds 3x more breast tumors, and w...

She tells of how painful mammography is; I say, was! It was as though being squeezed by clouds, no discomfort, absolutely no pain. Even the biopsy was without pain for me.

I have no concerns about long term outcomes of this next procedure tomorrow. There is 99% expectation of full recovery. 

Now, on to more serious concerns, Sentient Biped should be in surgery this morning for removal of abdominal cancer. Our positive thoughts go with him. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 26, 2013 at 11:14am

Chris, we're all waiting very impatiently for Spring!!  It's been so cold here as well.

The Kaffir Lily is beautiful.  Do you grow it indoors or outside? 

I have a Christmas Cactus (Schlumbergera) as a houseplant.  My original plant was beautiful and had about a 16" radius.  During the summer I would keep it outside in a partially shaded area.  During the fall, the cooler nights outside would help it bloom for December after bringing it indoors before the freezing temperatures.  The flowers were just magnificent.  A couple of years ago, some kind of critter kept gnawing at it and destroying the leaves.  I don't know if it was a squirrel or a cat doing the damage.  It was never the same since and ended up dying.  I'm now nursing a new cutting from my mother's plant that she gave to me.  It's very small, about 3" in radius.  I'm looking forward to the time when it's big enough to bloom.    

Comment by Plinius on March 26, 2013 at 8:23am

I love the cat cafe, Flying Atheist, but I wouldn't trust all the visitors, not after an acquaintance tried to pull MauMau's whiskers behind my back. Never seen that man again and well rid!

You're going to enjoy Oliver Sacks, Flying!

And it's still too cold here, I wish the wind would turn from NE to SW! The vegetables I sowed are waiting on the window sill:"Can't we go to the garden yet?" but they would freeze. 

And it occurred to me that there is an atheist flower: clivia or kaffir lily - kaffir means unbeliever. Mine flowers like mad.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 26, 2013 at 12:43am

Enjoy your reading, TFA. I've "stolen" your list with cut and paste and will keep an eye out for them next time I'm in England. Alrady hear a lot of good things about the Oliver Sachs.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 10:08pm

I think Grumpy Cat has overtaken Morris the Cat in popularity.  What do you think? 

Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 10:00pm

Anderson Cooper loves Grumpy Cat!!!


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