Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith 10 hours ago. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by Plinius on March 26, 2013 at 8:23am

I love the cat cafe, Flying Atheist, but I wouldn't trust all the visitors, not after an acquaintance tried to pull MauMau's whiskers behind my back. Never seen that man again and well rid!

You're going to enjoy Oliver Sacks, Flying!

And it's still too cold here, I wish the wind would turn from NE to SW! The vegetables I sowed are waiting on the window sill:"Can't we go to the garden yet?" but they would freeze. 

And it occurred to me that there is an atheist flower: clivia or kaffir lily - kaffir means unbeliever. Mine flowers like mad.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 26, 2013 at 12:43am

Enjoy your reading, TFA. I've "stolen" your list with cut and paste and will keep an eye out for them next time I'm in England. Alrady hear a lot of good things about the Oliver Sachs.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 10:08pm

I think Grumpy Cat has overtaken Morris the Cat in popularity.  What do you think? 

Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 10:00pm

Anderson Cooper loves Grumpy Cat!!!

Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 9:58pm

I hope to attend some if my schedule allows it. I am lucky to live in Austin.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 6:50pm

Hi, Steph.  Are you attending any of the American Atheist events in Austin this weekend?  You're lucky to have their conference in you city. 

Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 6:48pm
Oh cool - Melinda I love Star Trek and I love the Vulcan death grip picture! Awesome!
Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 6:47pm
Wow - snow Melinda and in spring time too. It's chilly here - got to freezing temperatures last night - but no snow.
I love that dog and cat photo Melinda! Flying Atheist thanks for the music. I can't wait until it warms up and I can go and do things outside. I love to hike and be in nature. So how is everyone?
Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 5:36pm

Patrica, since I don't have any cats, I would LOVE to visit a coffee shop filled with cats.  What fun! 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 4:46pm

Thanks for the book recommendations, Ian.  Sounds like some very interesting and varied topics.  I haven't read The Scarlet Letter since I was probably 15 years old.  I should really reread it. 

I purchased eight books on-line that just arrived a few days ago.  I have a LOT of reading ahead of me.

Stephen Greenblatt:  "The Swerve.  How the World Became Modern".

Susan Jocoby:  "The Great Agnostic.  Robert Ingersoll and American Freethought".

Bart Ehrman:  "Lost Christianities.  The Battles for Scripture and the Faiths We Never Knew". 

Oliver Sacks:  "Hallucinations".

Guy P. Harrison:  "Race and Reality.  What Everyone Should Know About Our Biological Diversity".

Adam Hochschild:  "King Leopold's Ghost.  A Story Of Greed, Terror, and Heroism In Colonial Africa".  (Recommended by Sentient Biped, one of our fellow A/N members.)

Steven Pinker:  "The Blank Slate.  The Modern Denial Of Human Nature".

Carol Tavris & Elliot Aronson:  "Mistakes Were Made (but not by me).  Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, And Hurtful Acts". 


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