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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Brent Feeney on August 14, 2014 at 3:44pm

What's been going on the last several days in the northern St. Louis suburb of Ferguson, MO - I live in deep south STL city, if that helps - has been almost a crime. Militarized police are basically throwing tear gas canisters, arresting people left and right (one was a St. Louis city alderman and friend of mine) and basically showing the world what martial law may well be like in this nation if it keeps up.

A very popular blog called Shit Saint Louis Says (he's a self-described conservative and has served several tours in the Middle East) said something about it today; the guy has been calling out regulars on local message boards for, shall we say, some continually idiotic statements (or, as my buddy David 2 says, Following The Script).

Here's his entry for today (after previously saying on Facebook, "I'm not touching it.": http://www.saintlouiscomments.com/2014/08/ferguson-riots-and-why-ev...

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 14, 2014 at 2:50pm

Carl, I didn't know WalMart had anti-gay policies.  Another good reason to stay away.  Oh, and littering is a large pet peeve of mine also.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 14, 2014 at 2:38pm

Seems as if I'm totally outnumbered as to what Randy should do.  Oh, well.  All of you make me stronger to fight another battle on another day.  lol 

If I found that pizza box with the god stuff on it, I would just roll my eyes and deposit the trash into a proper receptacle.  No harm done to me other than to piss me off that someone has littered (which is a huge pet peeve of mine.)

Sk8eycat, I am aware that In-N-Out Burger has a bible verse printed on the underside of their soda cups.  That hasn't stopped me from eating there when I'm in Los Angeles because their burgers are good and their french fries are freshly cut on the spot.  I also understand that they treat their workers quite well compared to other fast-food chains, so I don't have a problem patronizing their business.

On the other hand, places like Chik-fil-A, Walmart, Cracker Barrel, Denny's, and others with not get any business from me because of they way they actively promote anti-gay polices via corporate donations and actions.  To me, these companies fall into the same category as Hobby Lobby in regards to equal rights.   

P.S.  Joan, thank you for respectfully disagreeing with me,  If anyone was to disagree with me, I'd couldn't pick a better person than you.   

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 14, 2014 at 12:09pm

I'm glad to see that those Canadian followers of Joseph Smith are being prosecuted for child sexual abuse.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 14, 2014 at 12:08pm

Randy, I agree with Joan.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 14, 2014 at 11:30am

@sk8eycat - One thing that definitely doesn't bother christians is contradiction. Their version of kindness is we're going to torture you to death to save your soul; you'll thank us in the end.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 14, 2014 at 11:19am

In-N-Out Burger prints buybull references on their cups and wrappers...Just the book, chapter & verse numbers.  And they hide it very cleverly.

I haven't flown on Alaska Airlines since 1985...there were no silly cards on the meal trays back then... 

It's ironic, the logo on the tail-fin is a smiling Eskimo face, and I can only think of all the damage that xian (especially Catholic) missionaries have done over the decades to those beautiful people.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 14, 2014 at 11:01am

Good point, Ian. In fact, if their god was half as smart and powerful as they think, why didn't he make pizza have zero calories? I used to travel on Alaska Airlines a lot for work, and they always put a little card with an inspiring (not) Jesus message on the meal trays. I always ripped them up into little pieces.

Comment by kathy: ky on August 14, 2014 at 10:34am
I've gotta agree with Joan and Ian. But you knew l would. I'm sure you're not the only one who objects to their religion being brought out with the food.
Comment by Ian Mason on August 14, 2014 at 10:05am

Perhaps God should pay for the pizza, Randall if they trust in Him to meet their needs? You can tell them that they can have their beliefs but that you don't want them sent through your door. It's your threshold and your life; therefore your rules prevail

 

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