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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Tony Carroll on November 10, 2013 at 9:23pm

Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2013 at 2:47pm

My daughter and her boyfriend have found a flat and are moving in together on the 3rd Jan. My little girl has grown up. I hope I  can get used to saying "son-in-law" before I start hearing "granddad". They've got to finish uni and get jobs first so I may have a couple of years to go. I just hope they'll be happy. My daughter is sensible enough to choose a good man so they have every chance.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 10, 2013 at 10:53am

Love the sewage water graphic Patricia.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2013 at 5:42am

Ian, I understand and share the urge to read more. This piece on Joseph Campbell and "Follow your bliss", including his works. Near the end of his life he powerfully supported Marija Gimbutas work and they both wrote more sensitively as a result of their friendship. 

I'm going back to the piece now to read (MORE: Why Fighting Enemies Isn't Good for You) and (MORE: Life Lessons From 'The Wizard of Oz'). 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 10, 2013 at 3:45am

Ian, thanks for posting the link referring to Joseph Campbell.  I've never read any of his books but I have watched many of his lectures and interviews on DVD.  He's endlessly interesting and educational.  I always end up with the feeling that I just earned a college degree.

I know it's a turn-off for some, but I've always enjoyed his academic, classroom-style of presentation.  I could listen to him speak and tell stories for hours.        

Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2013 at 1:25am
Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2013 at 1:08am

Joan, you write a beautiful picture of the season.

Actually, I've been using less time on  the computer and more time catching up on reading. It  feels like the right thing to do at the moment. Not that I'm ignoring my friends here as I do try to keep up with what's going on but sometimes I feel I have less to say.

Keep well, all.

Comment by Steph S. on November 9, 2013 at 10:01pm

thank you Tony - very good

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 9, 2013 at 2:30pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 9, 2013 at 1:50pm
Tony, I am not sure I want to open the Palin site! I've already heard her philosophies far too many times. Oh well, what the heck. Here goes ....

So, nothing new from her lips.

Here is the good news, we quickly move from Autumn Equinox to Winter Solstice, with leaves so bright in color it takes my breath away. A more beautiful scene can not be produced even by the finest painter. Or the sounds of autumn chores preparing our gardens for wet weather followed by cold blasts of wind and snow. The sounds of kids making snow structures, including our yearly igloo that glows in the dark. The harvest season always includes huge feasts of fresh foods and celebrations and Solstice brings feelings of closeness of family and friends with a feast to honor the shortest day of the year. For me, in includes the five generations gathered around the biggest family table and making decorations with sprays of coniferous branches and cones from the forest. We exchange gifts on the shortest day of the year and on New Years day we call out to the sun to start its trip across the sky bringing more light. O! It is a grand time full of love and sharing and care for the needy. The animals of the garden and forest creep into our vision, just long enough to thank them for a fine year and grateful for no forest fires.
 

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