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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo yesterday. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on June 19, 2014 at 3:10pm

Thank you for your support, Chris. It helps.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 19, 2014 at 3:08pm

Nice Huxley quote. Thanks. Stealing

Comment by Randall Smith on June 19, 2014 at 7:35am

Thanks, Loren, for ruining my day with Satan's (ex VP) photo!  Actually, nothing can ruin my godless day. It's great to be alive. 

Comment by Plinius on June 19, 2014 at 12:57am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmQujwmalfA

My favorite Sisyphus - Pink Floyd.  A good image for the daily struggle, Ian, and my hat off to you.

Tardis was possible too, Mindy; it's Dr. Who's telephone booth for space-time travel. 

I had my ears pierced, just because it was forbidden where I came from. I often wear silver jewelry with inexpensive green stones, but no longer in my ears, because of allergy.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 18, 2014 at 11:33pm

Joan, I like Sisyphus because of the daily labour he represents for me and the strength to keep going with a task no matter how hopeless it seems and with no end in sight. That's what depression is like at its worst. And as you say, success is not the issue. The self-respect that comes from not giving up is. 

Comment by Loren Miller on June 18, 2014 at 8:37pm

Hey!  Betty Bowers did a QUICKIE!  No, not THAT kind of quickie!  A short video featuring the devil ... and some guy in red:

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 18, 2014 at 5:47pm

Ian, I like your symbolism of your memory being carried on through your child. The ankh and daughter's name provides such a good representation of that sentiment. 

Not everyone has children to carry on his or her memories, and even those of us who have children have no guarantee our children know us, especially if one has a history of helplessness or alcoholism.

The legacy one leaves behind is how one thinks and acts in the face of challenges. Were there hurdles one has to overcome? Was one successful in meeting obstructions, or at least making a great effort toward mastering them? 

Some people have no challenges to overcome; others have overwhelming obstacles. When I observe an individual who does not know how to solve problems or resolve conflicts, or who has an addiction that gets in the way of healthy living, and when I observe that person making efforts to overcome whatever is holding him or her back, I feel great sympathy and at the same time, great respect.

The test is not, does one have no problems confronting him or her, but does one take on the obstacle with critical thought and effective action?

Success is not the issue ... to take on the challenge with mind, body and emotion is where fine character lies. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 18, 2014 at 5:27pm

Ian, it is interesting you chose Sisyphus for the other side to represent daily labor against alcoholism and depression. 

Sisyphus did not win victory over his history, but paid the ultimate price of failing throughout all eternity. 

May I offer a Greek god, Zeus, who was victorious over his father who tried to destroy him. He became king of the gods and lived with his brothers and sisters on Mt Olympus. They did battle with Titans with strength restored by nectar “that which overcomes death” and ambrosia upon which the Olympians feasted perpetually. Zeus’ weapon was a thunderbolt and he was victorious over his adversaries. He became known as the dragon slayer, known to punish those that lie and break oaths. 

Zeus becomes a metaphor of one who overcomes adversaries, using his weapon, a thunderbolt to take on his demons.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 18, 2014 at 4:32pm

I've only got one tattoo, an ankh and my daughter's name, on my left (heart side) arm. For me, it represents living on through children, the only "immortality" we can have. I will have grandchildren's names added if and when they turn up. I'm also considering getting one of Sisyphus on the other side to represent my daily labour against alcoholism and depression. I'm quite happy about having them as they mean something to me, they're not some kind of decoration that I'll regret in the future.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4w90iTGBm2o

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 18, 2014 at 3:53pm

And I'm with Carl when it comes to tattoos. I've admired beautiful ones on other people, but for myself I'll pass -- too painful and too permanent.

(Hey... why don't more of the fundamentalist Christian god-botherers denounce tattoos? It violates the very same book of Leviticus they love to quote in other contexts.)

 

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