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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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F.B.I. Opened Inquiry Into Whether Trump Was Secretly Working on Behalf of Russia (NY Times)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Sunday. 4 Replies

WASHINGTON — In the days after President Trump fired James B. Comey as F.B.I. director, law enforcement officials became so concerned by the president’s behavior that they began investigating whether he had been working on behalf of Russia against…Continue

Tags: Russia, Putin, investigation, FBI, James Comey

exposing abuse | Jehovah’s Witnesses on trial | part 1 (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Jan 4. 31 Replies

There really is no other way to say it: prepare to be revolted, disgusted, and made sick to your stomach.  Our good friend, TheraminTrees has had a considerable look at a recent commission executed by the government of Australia, digging into…Continue

Tags: Jehovah's Witnesses, child abuse, TheraminTrees

The Stanford Prison Experiment,

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Dec 22, 2018. 3 Replies

the Zimbardo experiment: The experiment was conducted from August 14 to 20,1971 by a team of researchers led by…Continue

Tags: change, Experiment, Prison, Stanford, Zimbardo

Deep Field: The Impossible Magnitude of Our Universe (Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Dec 9, 2018. 10 Replies

We've all heard about the Deep Field observations of the Hubble Space Telescope, how, almost on a whim, the device was aimed at what was thought to be an empty, unoccupied section of sky and a long time exposure was taken.  What they discovered was…Continue

Tags: NASA, Hubble Space Telescope, Deep Field, Eric Whitacre

Canada Not a Loud Nation

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Dec 2, 2018. 11 Replies

Canada is a proud nation but not a loud nation.British newspaper salutes Canada . . . this is a good read. It is funny how it took someone in England to put it into words......Salute to a brave and modest nation - Kevin Myers , 'The Sunday…Continue

FFRF's 2018 National Convention: John de Lancie

Started by Loren Miller Nov 30, 2018. 0 Replies

John de Lancie is a lot more than just the infamous "Q" of Star Trek: The Next Generation.  He has portrayed characters as diverse as Clarence Darrow, Donald Trump, and Nazi administrator Hans Biebow, as you will learn when you watch this video.  He…Continue

Tags: Clarence Darrow, John de Lancie, Freedom From Religion Foundation, FFRF

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Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2014 at 11:37am

Ah, good old faithful depression. You can rely on it turning up, often at the most inconvenient times. After decades of experience I know that it recedes again too, even though each bout often seems like the worst ever. It's good that your daughter has you to turn to (and a cat) while working it through and recharging for a new try at life. If it's all right with you, give her a hug from me.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 13, 2014 at 10:11am

Randy, the comment box is still the same as always for me.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 13, 2014 at 9:34am

Randy, I'm not having any problems with A|N and the comment box.  I'm not seeing any weird colors, man. 

MIndy, I'm glad you'll be able to see your daughter.  I think it's a good thing that she turns to you when she's feeling depressed.  Kind of like having a safe spot with people who understand.  That's important.  BTW, is she enjoying being back in college?   

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 13, 2014 at 9:16am

I don't remember seeing that Gervais quote before.  I like it.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 13, 2014 at 7:34am
Speaking of trains, my avatar here was taken on Amtrak's Zephyr going from Chicago to Oakland two years ago. I enjoyed the ride, despite my seat mate and her two kids.

If you haven't read Joan's recent blogs, you should. The one on our "South problem" is good--a sad commentary on our current societal climate.

Is it just me or is anybody else finding the comment box yellow and without font information?
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 13, 2014 at 1:45am

Felaine, I know what you mean. I look at my image and see an old woman, I look through my eyes and see the world as fresh and new. I feel younger and better than I ever have ... in spite of a pace maker, a bout with cancer, and creaking bones and sagging skin. I can easily say 78 years old is just about the best year. 

Your comment about unions distresses me, even as I know what you say is true. If it were not for unions, working people would be far worse off than they are now, even though we are going backwards very fast. Spokane was a union town during the mining and lumbering days, and there were all kinds of awful fights between owners and workers. There is a rich history here of union efforts on behalf of workers, and unions as corrupt exploiters of workers. 

When I returned to college after many years and as I was preparing myself to leave my husband, I had a terrible time with math and statistics. One fine young man with dreadlocks came to my aid and helped get me through the tests. I failed one course and he helped me with my second attempt. I am so fond of dreadlocks! They mean overcoming a dreadful hurdle. A case of stereotyping, pure and simple. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 13, 2014 at 1:19am

Joan, it was kinda strange seeing all those wrinkled faces and bald-headed men, and remembering how they looked 50+ years ago...almost 60 years, actually. And then I walk by a mirror, and look at myself, and cringe....I lost about 40 lbs in the last couple of years, so I have the "turkey neck," and my "chipmunk cheeks" have become jowls.  Shocking.  (I have never been extremely vain, but still....I'll hear certain music, or remember a particular routine, or partying on the trains, and can't believe I'm not 18 anymore.)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 13, 2014 at 1:08am

I got a kick out of seeing Atoy Wilson again (he did most of the narration on that short video about Mabel.)  Glad to see he got rid of those extended dreadlocks.  I haven't even seen him since shortly after Mabel's memorial in 2001....when we were cleaning out her apartment here in Burbank.

About the film....I wish someone would dig up more film, and make  "Fabulous Ice Age #2"  There were so MANY outstanding principal skaters who weren't even mentioned, and who are no longer with us, but someone must have some film.  And NBC video-taped several numbers in 1959 when we were rehearsing in Sioux City....the tape was 2" wide, and the recording equipment was the size of an executive's desk.  The tape has probably been erased. 

(We were paid extra for that, but almost all the money...about 85% went to AFTRA for special one-performance union dues.  Most theatrical & broadcast unions really sucked....I think they still do.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 13, 2014 at 12:59am

Felaine, I can just feel your joy coming through your words as you describe seeing old friends and skating routines. It must make you feel really proud.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 12, 2014 at 11:23pm

Sk8eycat, that's fantastic you got to see so many people you know in that documentary.  It must have brought back many fond memories.  I'm going to watch it one of these days very soon as well.  The ice shows were always an exciting yearly excursion when I was growing up.  Enjoy Netflix while you have it.   

 

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