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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 11:20pm

Patricia, IMO there is nothing more frightening than a "stage mother/father"!  I was lucky; my parents just wanted me to enjoy whatever I chose.  Dad turned me on to books by reading me to sleep until I learned to read by myself (took me a while; I'm dyslexic, and they didn't even have a word for that when I was in school. I also needed glasses; got my first pair when I was in 2nd grade...very unusual in 1948.) I am totally  addicted to print.

BTW, my HANDS have always been clumsy, and my best friends in high school were three of the majorettes. I wanted to go to the away games on the band bus, so I learned to play the only instrument that doesn't require manual dexterity (or reading music)...the bass drum!  I also learned how to "guide" when I was in the marching band, and that came in very handy when I joined Holiday.  Half the numbers we did involved some precision, and there was always one number in the show that was fairly close to military-type drill. Audiences loved it...when we got it right.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 25, 2013 at 9:19pm

Ruth, I am sorry to learn of your dealing with "seasonal affective disorder". I've never heard of summer time distress but I do understand the winter version, even if I did get past it several years ago. Your diagnosis makes sense. 

My mother and daughter were night people and I am an early morning one. I could not understand those two, nor could they understand me.  Now that I am sleeping all night and then most of the day, I don't know what I will be. It doesn't really matter because I am able to sleep or not, as it pleases me. I love retirement. 

Getting my blood chemistry back on track and feeling so much better, I have to ask if your nutrition levels are up to par?  

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 25, 2013 at 8:46pm
Mindy, glad you had a good time. Welcome safely home.
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 25, 2013 at 8:42pm
sk8eycat "Singing in the Rain", on ice, no less. What a wonderful rendition. I get the shivers just thinking of all that water and ice. Brilliant performance.
Your skating career must have given you lots of opportunity to see and do interesting things. Those early morning rehearsals don't sound like fun at all.
I agree with you about DST! No need! We are all grown up and able to move with the sun and moon. When I lived in Alaska (1959-1961) we had two hours of twilight in winter with 22 hours of dark and 22 hours of sunlight in summer with two hours of twilight. Now, that took some adjusting.
Like your 1960 PR photo. Very glamorous! How long did you skate professionally? I know you told us, and I forgot.
Your Pee-oree-yuh costume looks heavy. Would you rather skate fully covered like that, or in tights and skimpy clothes?
Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 6:53pm

1960 program/PR pic...I'm in the center back, standing directly behind Jinx Clark (in the oyster shell.)

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 6:39pm

I took dance (ballet & tap) for six years before I suffered burn-out and quit. About a year later some retired show skaters opened a small ice studio here in Burbank, and ran ads in the local paper offering the first 10 weeks of lessons at a discount.  My mom showed me the ad and asked if I was interested....was I EVER!

By the time I was a senior in high school, I was just barely good enough to make the chorus line in Holiday...This was my favorite costume:

O, HALP! I stuk in '59. backstage in Pee-oree-yuh! Pleh.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 5:39pm

Patricia: I love Kurt Browning's version of "Singin' in the Rain" because it's such a wonderful tribute to Gene Kelley, AND my body can still feel some of the moves he does (I never could jump...too scared).  But that's the kind of skating I fell in love with when I first saw it on TV ....long, smooth edges, and fancy footwork.  I can't stand what competitive skating has evolved into the last 25 years...an effing jumping contest. Gah!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 5:32pm

I think the only people who enjoy DST are amateur golfers who like to get a game in after work.

It seems like no matter where I worked, I ended up facing east while driving to work in the morning, and west on the way home.  With the sun in my eyes in both directions.  There are NO sunglasses dark enough to cut the glare.

Does anybody else remember when ALL the railroads in the US ran on Standard Time all year...no matter where they were? It's TRUE.

You would think that the logical time to change clocks (if we have to do it at all) would be on the Equinoxes, but nohhhhh...they keep stretching DST at both ends so that people have to go to work and to school in the dark when the times first change.  IMO there is NO need for it.  (We had "Double DST" during WW2 when the aircraft and munitions plants ran 24/7...must have been awful.)

Comment by Lillie on August 25, 2013 at 2:30pm

Love your rebellion, sk8eycat.  lol.  I also hate DST.  I have an internal clock that doesn't switch easily.  I am always so happy when it changes back in November.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 1:37pm

I have NEVER understood why "they" bother with DST in the northern latitudes!  We rehearsed one summer in Minot ND, and it was daylight, or twilight till 11PM, and the local teens (yokels!) drove up and down the miniscule main street outside our hotel, with their car radios blaring, till midnight.  WE had to get up around 6AM to have breakfast and get ready for rehearsals at 8AM. 

Arizona is the ONLY state that doesn't "do" DST now, and I think they're wise.. I love it because I don't have to calculate what time it is there when I want to call my only remaining (and forever favorite) aunt in Winslow.

In the meantime, here's something that makes me feel wonderful every time I watch it... obviously I don't do it enough.

ENJOY, EVERYBODY!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXtd7xq7URM

 

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