Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev on Sunday. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius on Sunday. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 2 Replies

This is a test Continue

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Grinning Cat on May 31, 2013 at 4:59am

Ian, have a great trip!

Ruth, well said about sex. Consensual sex among adults (or among peers), done while being good and responsible to yourself and to each other, is a natural and good thing!

Part of being civilized is recognizing the difference between "No thanks, that's not for me" and "That's filthy and evil; nobody should do it!"

That said, we do unfortunately have to function within a larger Dominator culture, so the Atheist Nexus and Ning terms of service reflecting the general taboo on nudity and sex are something we have to accept here. As you said, we have to pick our battles: maintaining this vibrant community of nontheists would be a Good Thing.

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2013 at 1:21am

Have a good trip, Ian!

Comment by Ian Mason on May 31, 2013 at 12:37am

Bye for now, good people. In an hour's time I'll be leaving for Crete. Stay well and look after each other. I'll be back next weekend.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 30, 2013 at 10:52pm

Ruth, the dietitian not only affirmed your comment about Vit D, but gave me material with science non-biased research to demonstrate its effectiveness. 

She also gave me a website for evidence-based research for information on herbs and cancer.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 30, 2013 at 10:38pm

Napoleon, you can judge me a prude, a Victorian, a Tight Ass, or any other word or phase you like. I don't like sex talk. If I like it, I know where to go to see all kinds, every position, using every orifice imaginable. I left GLBT because they have every right to discuss sexuality and I don't like to read or watch it although I support their efforts. I can support them in other ways. 

I don't apologize for being who I am, nor do I judge you for being who you are, or anyone else. Sex is a personal thing and private. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 30, 2013 at 8:56pm

The 'Filthy Habits' video might violate the AN standard of not posting something inappropriate for a 14 year old, since it's sexually explicit. While I have no objection to masturbation video in general, I can see how that's doesn't further our purpose. Leaving it here would just give ammunition to critics who view sex as filthy. I'm personally sex-positive. I consider consensual sex among adults as normal healthy behavior, no more morally reprehensible than eating. However AN has to function within a larger Dominator culture in which sex is taboo.

We're not really stitched up, as I see it. You can load up on sexually explicit material from the internet all you want. It just doesn't fit with our purpose here.

We have to pick our battles, Napoleon.

Comment by Loren Miller on May 30, 2013 at 6:27pm

For your enjoyment ... a couple of music legends share a song together ... and we're goin' to Graceland!

Comment by Lillie on May 30, 2013 at 4:10pm

Love the cat scan.  Wonder how on earth they got the cat to stay there.  Mine would have rebelled.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 30, 2013 at 1:44pm

Here I was feeling sorry for Philadelphians because there's a heat wave at the end of May. Then I learned that

Heat wave conditions have claimed the lives of over 500 people in India since April.

... 524 people have died of sunstroke since April 1.

... the state of Hyderabad’s 500 sunstroke deaths in just three days is the highest such death toll in recent history. New Delhi saw 43 degrees C (or over 109 degrees Fahrenheit) today, western states such as Gujarat saw highs between 116-118 degrees Fahrenheit, and the northern state of Uttar Pradesh hit 45 C (113 F). [emphasis mine]

Now the low 90s doesn't seem so bad.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 30, 2013 at 1:31pm

Mindy, "He also texts her to remind her to study and do her homework! If I did that she'd have a fit! :)"

I know what you mean. The know-it-all age is a tyrant that keeps cropping up with children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I  got it recently from one of the youngest of our generations, and thought, "Oh here it comes again." Well, leave them to their devices and it doesn't take long before they run, not walk, back to get some information to get them out of some problem they create for themselves. Not an "I told you so" person, I think, "I told you so!"

Well, it happens so often, I guess it is normal. Realize normal does not mean healthy or functional, it means it happens a lot. We all just hope they don't do any permanent damage to themselves, others, or the next generation.  

Glad to learn she is getting help with math and who know, she may grow to love it. 


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