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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 3, 2014 at 2:17am

Yes, the legendary June Taylor dancers.  Great entertainment.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 3, 2014 at 1:34am

I did love Art Carney...and his Brotherhood of the Sewers "anthem."

I also laughed at Reggie van Gleason III and his pomposity.  But, you know me...my favorite part of the full Jackie Gleason Show was the June Taylor Dancers.  Naturally. 

And Ernie Flatt on the Garry Moore Show, and then Carol Burnett's show.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yv7hwXKanTY

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 2, 2014 at 11:43pm

The only complaint I've ever heard through the years regarding the Honeymooners is about the yelling and the arguing. 

What's interesting about me, personally, is that I've always hated heated confrontations and yelling and screaming as a form of expressing anger (unless as part of a mass public protest situation.)  I'm much more the reasoned-discussion and diplomatic type.  Perhaps some of the underlining appeal for me about the Honeymooners is that behind all the yelling, Alice, the woman and voice of reason, always prevails and the blow-hard bully is sheepishly and rightfully put in his place.

I certainly don't condone bullying and yelling as part of a healthy family or personal relationship, and I can surely understand the sensibilities of those who have been in that situation. 

With that said, I know I will enjoy the exquisite comedy of the Honeymooners until my dying day.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 2, 2014 at 10:53pm

Comedies that seemed funny when I was young are often offensive now. Before feminist consciousness raising I didn't notice the misogyny, now it hits me in the face.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 2, 2014 at 10:48pm

Carl, I like your standing for your favorite in spite of being what appears to be a minority in this string. 

Lke Patricia, I associated all that yelling with my father and his rages that physically hurt, but the pain that didn't show was the mental abuse he delivered for no reason other than his own dominance of power. 

My favorite was Carol Barnett, too. And Dick Van Dyck

Comment by sk8eycat on June 2, 2014 at 10:22pm

James, you're not missing anything.  I think the early episodes were fairly clever, but all I hear from the TV when my sister watches those effing reruns is yelling, shouting, whining.  On and on and on.  

My sister is nearly 70 years old, but she has Asperger's syndrome, and her sense of humor is that of a pre-teen. She thinks Bart Simpson (the son) is hilarious.  

Our TV is about 20 years old now, and I can't wait for it to die.  I can't afford to buy another one, and I won't miss it at all.

Comment by James M. Martin on June 2, 2014 at 9:46pm

Not normally a Simpsons watcher, or anything animated for that matter. Sorry.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 2, 2014 at 9:17pm

OK, I'm here to defend the Honeymooners, which has been an all time favorite of mine since childhood.  I own the "Classic 39" episodes on DVD so I can watch them at any time.  In addition to the visual physical comedy of Jackie Gleason, the interactions between Gleason and Art Carney are pure comedy gold. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on June 2, 2014 at 5:30pm

Make that a third!

Comment by Loren Miller on June 2, 2014 at 5:26pm

Whoa, someone else who didn't love Lucy?!?  EEEEEEK!!!

 

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