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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Comment by Grinning Cat on February 24, 2013 at 3:26pm

Joan, it was great to hear about your Dad (nicknamed after a cross between a drake and a TARDIS!) and family.

sk8eycat and Patricia's cartoons capture some truths!!

(And yes, I've been woken up by a cat at 7am demanding her breakfast!)

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 24, 2013 at 3:14pm

Treasures, all:

sk8eycat, "I am god" explains herding cats ... and religious; 

booklover, the cat's bedtime prayer says it just right;

The Flying Atheist, your cat yawn is catching, even though it is 1:10 PM, think I'll catch a nap; and

I am glad you enjoyed my "Jules the Drake" remembrances. Those are sweet memories. 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 24, 2013 at 2:18pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 24, 2013 at 9:41am

Melinda, you and your husband each get a Gold Star in parenting for yesterday's activities.  Now.....can I get you to come over to visit me?! 

I'm enjoying my morning coffee right now as well.  Can't get started without it.     

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 24, 2013 at 9:40am

Great spy cam/cat pictures.  It took me a long, long time to spot the cat.

Comment by Plinius on February 24, 2013 at 12:52am

Thanks for the videos Flying Atheist! Must be a fantastic feeling to play in an orchestra! I practised on the keyboard but I could never get over the right handed - left handed confusion in my head. So I gave it up and try to create beauty in other ways.

I also loved "His Dark Materials" very much, Ian! I was thinking of the book my parents gave me to read a hundred years ago; "The Pilgrim's Progress" with mysterious old steel engravings. Quite thrilling to an isolated ten year old, but even then it came to me that the author never explained WHY the baddies wanted to be bad, and it weakened the story very much. Pullman draws a world in which every person has his/her own intentions, and it's thoroughly believable. Lyra, the main character, doesn't realize that she is in a big story and has to do her part (unlike Frodo in the Lord of the Rings) - she just tries to fulfill a promise to a friend. I love that, it makes a wonderful difference!  

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 24, 2013 at 12:37am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 24, 2013 at 12:26am

Joan, that's a really great story.  Music is always capable of bringing joy into people's lives.  Even if you "had no music talent," as you put it, it sounds like you certainly can appreciate all that music can offer.  Thanks for sharing a wonderful family story.  I'm sure you treasure your father's instruments. 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 24, 2013 at 12:25am

PS: to Grinning Cat, I love the Spy Cat.  Neither of mine are agile enough to climb that high anymore (one is 14 and the other is 15), but they still try.  They're both sacked out right now.  I think I'll follow their example.

G'NITE-ALL!  ;>)

 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 24, 2013 at 12:20am

Oh, wow!  I've been meaning to get those books, and I get sidetracked. (I just received a first edition of the original ELOISE by Kay Thompson; it's somewhat battered, but for $0.75 plus S&H, I can't complain.)

 

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