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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 26. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 25. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

Tags: Atheist Pig

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Comment by Ian Mason on September 21, 2015 at 11:33am

So, my redundancy deal is in place after some negotiation. I get 6 months' notice per 1/10. Stop working 1/1 2016 but get paid until 31/3. Don't get redundancy compensation - which would have been 3 months' pay - because my redundancy isn't compulsory. It's something I've opted for. My remaining holidays, days in lieu etc. are placed in the 3 months after 1/1 16. Not the best deal in the world but could be worse.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 21, 2015 at 11:10am

Glad the day went well, Randy. Hard work, yes but a lot of people wanted to pay their tribute to your father. They must have cared about him. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 21, 2015 at 12:37am

I like reading about your Celebration of your fathr's life. You sound as though you met the grieving process with healthy expression of your gratitude for him in your life. Sorry the ""we've been praying for you" raised its ugly head and that you can move on with your life. 

The mother of your children is part of their heritage and it is a tribute to your family that your former wife wants to participate in your family heritage. 

Nate and Emily carry on a fine tradition of family farming. This month's newsletter tells their story beautifully. 

Silverthorn Farms, Bringing in the harvest,

http://us10.campaign-archive1.com/?u=272febf3e272cbc9d4196ad2c&... 

"we've been praying for you"

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 20, 2015 at 8:39pm

Glad the day went well for you, Randy, despite the circumstances. 

Comment by Randall Smith on September 20, 2015 at 7:50am

The "celebration of life" gathering went well. We had lots of photos and music. Many people came. Exhausting. Some people just don't know when to quit talking. No major issues, although one "guest" was my ex-wife, who desparately wants to be a part of my genetic family. I guess my kids are her's, too. And I think I only got one "we've been praying for you", e.g. Time to turn the page and move forward.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 18, 2015 at 9:47am

Randy, there's no better tribute than a "Celebration of Life."  

Comment by Ian Mason on September 18, 2015 at 8:30am

I hope the celebration goes well, Randy. Shed a tear, share a laugh and raise a cheer as a tribute.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 18, 2015 at 8:00am

Thanks, all. We're having a "Celebration of Life" Saturday. Gratefully, my two religious sisters didn't push for a somber funeral. It's been a tough week, but with each passing day..... I was lucky to have my father for as long as I did. He was not only my dad, but my friend. I'll miss him.

Comment by k.h. ky on September 14, 2015 at 7:14pm
Randall, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Carl, that is wonderful news about your health.

Joan, l miss Felaine also. As Chris said at the time she died from poverty. That's a brutal truth about the US. I've heard people say we have the greatest healthcare system in the world. Sadly that's only true if a person can afford to spend without question.
Comment by Ian Mason on September 14, 2015 at 3:13pm

Very sorry to hear of your father's death, Randy. I hope it helped a little being with him at the end.

 

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