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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Thomas Murray 13 hours ago. 5 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Thomas Murray yesterday. 4 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Friday. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

Tags: prayer, Donald Trump, Oval Office, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

Tags: Japanese Idol, Babymetal

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 11. 30 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 11. 16 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 23, 2013 at 1:51pm

By extension,

Art is what feelings look like,

delicious food is what feelings taste like,

a Yule log is what feelings smell like,

petting a cat and dog of the family is what feelings of companionships looks like.

 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 21, 2013 at 3:18pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 21, 2013 at 11:20am

Did you feel it happen ? The Earth in relation to the sun makes its yearly move and start making each day a little bit longer. 

The First Day Of Winter and Why The Shortest Day Of The Year Doesn'...

A very Merry Winter Solstice, one and all!

Comment by Loren Miller on December 21, 2013 at 8:23am

"What did he/she/it do on the eighth day?"

Probably went out for Chinese ... or maybe Thai?

Comment by sk8eycat on December 21, 2013 at 1:40am

Loren, another conversation stopper: "If you really believe that a supernatural being made the entire universe (including this little mudball) in six days, and rested on the seventh day, what did she/he/it do on the eighth day?"  *;) winking

Comment by Plinius on December 21, 2013 at 1:30am

And thank you Carl, for your kindness!

Happy Solstice to all of you!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fHK2lxS5Ivw

Comment by sk8eycat on December 21, 2013 at 1:28am

Many, many years ago I heard somebody say on a PBS news/talk show that he didn't agree with somebody else's belief in mythical miracles, but he had to respect the other person for having beliefs at all. And I found myself wanting to yell, "WHY?!?"

Later I thought out my own "motto:"

"I have to respect your constitutional right to believe whatever silly thing makes you feel special, but I do NOT have to respect what you believe. And I don't."  (Can't)

Before my sister became involved with the JeHoover's Witlesses, they used to come to the door and joyfully shout, "Millions now living will never die!"  I would either say, "That's obscene (or absurd)," or I would just laugh at them, and quietly shut the door before they could stop gasping in horror.  (They dropped that particular sales pitch decades ago; I guess it didn't drag in enough suckers.)

Doorbell ringers of all stripes are as offensive to me as telemarketers and spammers...it's a wonder that they actually ever contact anybody stupid enough to buy whatever they are selling. 

I occasionally scan my spam folder, and there seem to be a lot of Christian dating web sites looking for customers.  How weird. If there are so many True Believers in this country, you'd think they wouldn't have any trouble bumping into each other. Literally.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 21, 2013 at 1:23am

TO ALL MY FRIENDS HERE......

A HAPPY WINTER SOLSTICE TO YOU.

THANK YOU FOR THE WARMTH OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP.

Comment by Plinius on December 21, 2013 at 1:11am

http://archive.aec.at/#43428

The fantastic flying books of Mr. Morris Lessmore.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 21, 2013 at 12:14am

You make good points Loren. Perhaps I am naive to think that believers will read and care about the issues I share with family and friends. I get a larger response, almost all positive from Twitter than I do from Facebook. 

You have always graciously agreed when I request to share your writings with Facebook and Twitter. Have you had any negative response from either site? 

I don't often get responses, but I do get requests to be a friend, and when I read their home page I select those who seem to have healthy correspondence going on there. I don't respond to the ones who appear to be wanting to pick a fight or get into the tent of non-believers. 

I could be wrong and welcome any feedback. I definitely value your judgement. 

 

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